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Since you have changed your mind, it means that there is a lot of trouble in your relationship, at this time, in my opinion, no matter which side it is, it is very uncomfortable, the same bed and different dreams, this is the daily life.
First of all, I think you lack a chance to get to know each other, why don't you sit down and have a good chat and talk about your heart. At this time, people have become very sensitive, but there is no such opportunity, resulting in a more and more serious degree of relationship breakdown, in fact, think about it, there is really no need to continue to hurt each other, all you need is to have a good chat about your views and opinions on your future life, at least the current decision will do more good than bad for each other's future life.
And then there's the fact that memories are actually a delicious and refreshing dish. We are all people with stories, we can wake up the lost people through each other's good memories, it's okay to change our minds, no one will have some small surprises in their lives, but as long as the precipice is reined in, in fact, life is still shining.
There is also the fact that if you think about each other's current life and the people around you, you don't have that lot of fancy intestines. Because we always want to be willing to be happier and happier.
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1. Don't indulge in feelings all the time.
Although it is difficult to always be happy in a relationship, it does not mean that we have to indulge in feelings and closed feelings all the time.
Because sometimes you may accidentally enter into a wrong relationship, which can hurt you a lot, so we should try to adjust our mindset as much as possible.
2. Think about the problems between you.
There must be a lot of problems with the scum you are hiding in, but you can't find the real problem.
When we don't feel the other person's love for us, it may be because the other person is not too good to you, or is really not very happy with you.
When a man changes his mind, if it's just that you don't feel good, then maybe the other person has done something wrong.
But we also have to think about it, why did you break up? Then try to undo the pain that your current relationship has caused you.
3. Learn to accept reality and start over.
When you can't feel each other's love one day, it means that you are no longer together.
Don't think that the other party has changed his mind just because he is not as good to you as he used to be, or that the reason for his change of heart is not what he imagined at the beginning, but that he is really not good to himself, etc.
If you are still in love with someone, try to love them.
But if that's the case, then don't force it, after all, everyone has their own life.
4. Don't always put yourself in the victim's shoes.
When you feel that the other person is slowly changing their minds, don't put yourself in the position of a victim.
If you do so, you will put yourself in a worse situation and will keep your significant other away from you.
5. Be mentally prepared to accept all changes.
When you start to dislike the other person, you should also be mentally prepared for this.
Don't think about it, you have to find each other, and then the two of you will be together again, and fall in love again.
This idea is wrong; If there is such an idea, it is not right;
Be mentally prepared to accept all changes and not think about anything.
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Don't go back to a person who has changed his mind late, no matter how deep your feelings are for him, as long as he finds a new love, then his ruthlessness must be more ruthless than a wolf and more venomous than a snake. In the end, you can only leave silently with scars all over your body.
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Because you won't have a good result if you redeem it, and being with such a person will only make you sad and disappointed, so it's better to leave happily and keep your dignity.
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Now that they have changed their minds, there is no need to dwell on it anymore, and even if they can keep it, they won't be too happy. Barely meaningless.
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Because once a woman changes her mind, ten cows can't be pulled back, let alone one person to redeem it, it's impossible at all.
Besides, we have too much to do with geography, and my family doesn't agree with it, and you yourself have said so, and it seems that even you yourself are not very confident.
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