Hurry up and talk about what it s like to be in college without falling in love?

I haven't been in love for three years in college, I live a very relaxed and happy life, I regret that I didn't dare to confess to the boy I liked in college, and it's too late to talk about it after graduation, and I regret that I didn't fall in love in college, and the most important thing is to fall in love with the person I like. As soon as I graduated, my relatives at home were urging me to go on a blind date three times in half a month, and I was in a very old mood during that time, facing the search for a job, the failure of confession, and the complaints of relatives and friends. All kinds of unpleasantness,

Of the four people in the dormitory, I was the only one who didn't talk about a girlfriend! I can't see the other three people on the weekends, and I'm always with my girlfriend **or** when I'm in the dorm! Fortunately, my heart is strong, otherwise I would really be tortured to death!

If there's anything that no one wants to do, I'll have to go, it's easy, because you don't have to accompany your girlfriend! Going to the cafeteria with your roommate to eat may become a third party!

Haha, as a senior who is about to graduate, twilight love is not uncommon.

Four years have passed, and I don't feel anything.

It's good to be alone, but poverty alleviation is still more important than getting rid of singles.

Haha, encouragement.

Haha, so in this way, and everyone's path is their own, maybe I just want to be ordinary, maybe I'm opportunistic.

The protagonist of this story is not me, but my best friend.

She is about the same height, weight and personality as me, but she is more lively and cheerful than me, but she is very shy in contact with strangers, and she is a slow person. We are both seniors this year, and we are about to graduate, and she is still single in the womb, twenty-two years. <>

But what is special about her is that she has always been eager to fall in love. Every time I was in love, she would tell me that she also hoped that one day she could meet a boy, he didn't have to be too good, just be gentle and considerate, she was willing to be his winter gloves, summer beer, laugh at all his happiness, and cry to him all his sorrows.

But unfortunately, almost every time a boy tries to approach her, she always falls into a great sense of unease. She will constantly consider all aspects of this person's conditions, it is not good to be less than 1.7 meters tall, it is not good to have a poor family background, it is not good to have tooth decay, it is not good to be addicted to smoking and drinking, after filtering it out one by one, there are always very few boys who meet her heart.

She is like a hedgehog, eager to show her soft belly in front of the other party, but she is always too cautious and thinks too much, and she always frozes the situation. <>

In fact, she and I both know very well that she doesn't want to be in love, but she is too much looking forward to love. She is a perfectionist in a relationship, always thinking about meeting a person who is 100% compatible, and she will enter marriage after a while. But if you don't dare to try and make mistakes, how can you know if the other party is that person?

She's still single, and looks like she's going to do so for a long time.

I haven't talked in four years of college, my other three roommates haven't been in four years, and my best friends around me haven't talked in four years. This can't help but make people feel that I have a kind of cold and glamorous temperament of a lonely star.

If you haven't been in love for four years in college, it doesn't matter, you can spend more time to improve yourself, or you can spend all your living expenses on yourself.

I'm short, I'm not pretty, and my family is poor, so I don't spend money to dress up. The personality is relatively big, not a gentle little woman. So, it's almost three, and I've never dragged it.

You may have envied others in previous years. But now, I don't feel any more for those who are married, those who are in honey, and those who are basking in children. ‍‍

If there are multiple roommates in the dormitory who are in love, then when they go out with their partner during the New Year's holidays, they will be more suspicious of life, why they don't have someone to fall in love with, but they don't want to be alone for love, so they have been struggling in such a cycle for four years, four precious years.

You will definitely be passively stabbed in the eyes at every festival, and the people who go out are a pair, and you occasionally vaguely wonder if it is your fault to go out on the street alone.

When I watched my friends and classmates around me go in and out of pairs, and show affection in various ways, I couldn't wait to have a love object right away.

I haven't fallen in love in the past six months of my freshman year, it's not that no one chases, it's not that I don't want to fall in love, it's just that I haven't met the right person, so I don't want to wronged myself.

You'll be relaxed, have a lot of time for yourself, develop more hobbies (of course, finding someone to do that), have no worries about love, and be free to like anyone.

I don't think it's necessary to deliberately fall in love for the sake of falling in love in college, but if you really find the right person in college, it is still necessary to talk about it.

I am in a state of state, my family is relatively poor, I have no capital, I am closed and I have not met true love.

Now that I think about it, I should have talked about it first, just like other bad boys.

You shouldn't fall in love during your university studies, because falling in love is a waste of time and energy, and it will delay your studies. Therefore, people who are rational will not talk about blind love during college, and the gains and losses of falling in love outweigh the losses.

This is not absolute, it is relative, some people fall in love in college to help learn to celebrate, and some people may abandon their studies, affecting their studies, college talk and laughter love must be treated correctly to help personal learning and life, I hope it can help you.

When college students choose the object of their first relationship, they should choose those who are sincere, who truly love you, and who like you, rather than those who are half-hearted and have a lot of flowers.

As a college student, the concept of love should be casual and not deliberately forced. Don't fall in love for the sake of falling in love.

Love is a natural emotion of human beings, and when you meet your favorite object by chance, you may have strong feelings of mutual attraction, which is the beginning of love. But there is no simple scientific standard and method for beautiful love and healthy love, but more of life experience. As a newly enrolled college student, it is normal to have the idea of falling in love, but you should observe and communicate more, and you don't have to be as restrained and depressed as middle school students.

You know, others have the right to accept and refuse.

But students need to pay attention to not seeing others have friends of the opposite sex, and they have to "catch up with fashion". When you fall in love in college, just go with the flow, neither deliberately pursue it, nor refuse the right fate. Experience tells us that college freshmen who are eager to get into a love role may show that they lack family warmth, need to find a psychological support, or need to find a person to vent their sexual impulses.

In fact, college freshmen who enter a relationship situation too early can easily become "lonely", and the circle of friends will become narrow. What's more, the study task of university is not light.