Why did you ever not give face to a person?

Because the other party is doing too much or the other party's emotional intelligence is really a little low, there is really no way to go down the steps, and sometimes, it is because the other party is really unreasonable.

Because of the money, this was many years ago, and I didn't have any money at the time, but I still lent money to a friend, but he just didn't pay it back, so I didn't give him face.

Everyone has a limit, don't touch it! If you don't take others seriously, they won't treat you as a human being!

Touching my bottom line or being forced to be helpless.

When the group performed, when I saw other groups performing on stage, there was a boy who seemed to look down on others, of course, when it was his turn, I didn't even look at it, and people who don't respect others don't deserve the respect of others.

Because the other person doesn't respect themselves, I feel that respect is mutual, which is what I've always thought, so for me, if a person doesn't respect me, then I don't need to give him face.

He used to treat me very badly, and then I made him lose face in front of his friends, and I didn't want to give him any of the blows, so that he could taste what it was like to be bullied.

I used to give face to a person because I didn't borrow money. That person was a classmate of mine, and after graduating from college, several of us went to look for a job together. Because my family is relatively wealthy, I used to have classmates borrow money from me.

This time, the classmate borrowed money from me again, and I rejected him in front of everyone and didn't give him face, because he didn't pay me back the money the first few times.

I'm 16 years old and I'm a very silent boy, and the people around me think I'm a bully, and they deliberately don't save face for me. Even the teachers felt that they were living a good life without dignity, so I planned not to give them face.

I used to think that this person had some character and morality, and then I didn't give this person face, I felt that face was earned by myself. When some of your own conduct and morals are very corrupt, why should I give you face?

It was when I was in high school that a girl liked me very much, and then he confessed to me in front of the class, which made me so embarrassed at the time, but I really didn't like him, and then I rejected him on the spot.

A male colleague in the company chased me, I didn't agree, that male colleague often finds fault at work, and I quarreled with him yesterday, I said that he was ugly and small-minded, and he deserved not to find a girlfriend.

It means that I wonder why others don't give me face, but many times face is earned by myself and given to myself.

There is a kind of person who is born without knowing what affection is, whether it is speaking or Sun Fuqin doing things, he doesn't know what to do under what circumstances, what to say, it may be ridiculous, or it may be stupid. The vast majority of people have such a problem, it is nothing more than a matter of degree, and there are only a few people who are exquisite. This situation is exacerbated by drinking too much alcohol.

From the perspective of psychological boundaries, he is him, you are you, why he didn't give you face, for example, when you have a meeting, criticize you in front of everyone, for example, when you drink and persuade you to drink, the other party will say that you don't drink and don't give me face, if you really don't drink, the other party will really be very unhappy. Then in itself, a person is unhappy that some of the other person's behavior touches something within you that you care about.

Otherwise, then what is it, I thought about it, and one word came to mind: gap. To put it simply, you have to accept the gap between yourself in the eyes of others and yourself in reality.

So you must accept that there is a gap between yourself in the eyes of others in your heart and yourself in the eyes of others in reality.