What is it like to have a friend that is worth making for a lifetime?

With dependence, there are requirements, and after every quarrel, it will always be good the next day, and this is our friendship for 15 years.

Happiness and emotion. Sincere and frank, passionate and passionate, selfless, willing to always think about each other, affectionate and righteous, heart-to-heart, frank and open, say the same, consistent with words and deeds, will not be oily, will not be hypocritical, sincerely for your sake, no matter whether rich or poor, never give up.

Others believe in me, and I can't live up to it, and I don't allow myself to live up.

People's hearts are not so easy to change, it takes a long time, benefits and disadvantages to meet to see clearly, and now the society is changing rapidly, and when you find out, things have changed, so it is difficult to guess why people are willing to do things with their friends in the same year. Because we know the roots.

Sometimes, what people need is not material wealth, but spiritual comfort; It's not sweet words, but a common understanding. It's about love, because it's tempting; Touched by the heart, because of seriousness.

In fact, the people who always pay attention to you, when you are happy, do not flatter you, and when you need it, silently pay for you and care for you.

True friendship is not rhetoric, but the hand that holds you at a critical time. Those friends who surround you all day long and make you a little happy are not necessarily real friends.

Every time I encounter difficulties, I am happy and unhappy. Tell him as soon as possible.

Thanks, gratitude. I always feel that he is my dependence, I want to tell him everything, without reservation, closer than my family.

People live, a natural plus a true, a true friend is not left and right, but silent attention, a thoughtful greeting, a powerful encouragement. Whether friends are friendly or not, it depends on getting along; Never eternal, it depends on time.

Nowadays, many young people like to make a lot of friends, and even as long as they look at the right eye, they can add a WeChat as a friend. But I think that such a friend is actually worthless, because there is no friendship between two people at all, and when anything happens to you, you don't think that he can help you, and he doesn't think about helping you. I feel that only people who really know each other can be called friends.

So what kind of friends should we talk about? The first choice is, of course, people who are righteous and responsible, these people must be good friends, if your friends are this kind of people, you must cherish them.

First of all, a righteous person will give friends a strong sense of belonging. As far as my own feelings about being friends with righteous people, I think they always think about me and call me for whatever is good. It doesn't matter if it's a fun place to play or if there's a class reunion, they'll call me, which gives me a strong sense of belonging.

I would think that I was one of his side and that I had a strong connection with him. This is a state of friendship that I prefer, I think friends should be close, be able to share good food and fun, and go on entertainment and outings together. That's why I like to be friends with righteous people.

Secondly, a righteous friend will stand firmly behind you when you are in trouble. In my opinion, the time when a person encounters suffering is the time when the person is most helpless. But often no one will help him at this time, after all, even if it is a husband and wife, they will fly separately when disaster comes.

But if he had a righteous friend, then he would not be defeated by difficulties, because there was someone with him. Even if this difficulty cannot be overcome, I can feel the sincere friendship, and I believe that this person who encounters difficulties is not without nothing. Besides, how can brothers work together to break off the gold, how can they have a hurdle that they can't overcome?

In the end, friends who have the courage to speak of responsibility will never back down. I met a friend who would be the first to desert when he was in trouble, even if he was usually talking about how good he was. This is the kind of person I hate the most, just talking and not doing it, like a traitor in the War of Resistance Against Japan.

And if a person is responsible, he will not let his friends rush to the front, they will shelter their friends from the wind and rain, even if they usually don't say anything. Be friends with this kind of person, and you will never be afraid of setbacks, because they will walk hand in hand with you at any time. In my opinion, there is nothing that friends can't solve together.

1. People who are willing to help you are worth a lifetime of friendship.

Have you ever met such a person, who has a unique affection for you, is willing to help you, and does not want to reciprocate, and takes feelings very seriously.

There are very few people like this.

However, if you can meet it, it is your luck and blessing. In general, we all meet these people who are willing to help us.

When you meet someone who is willing to help you, you should cherish it and make friends for a lifetime.

2. Trust your friends, have no suspicion or suspicion of you, and are willing to give you advice when you are in trouble, without the slightest ambiguity.

3. Care about your friends.

No matter what you look like or what your identity is, they will not dislike you and leave you.

When you need help, he must be the first to lend a hand.

Fourth, friends with good character.

Do things frankly, do your duty, don't play with your heart, don't play tricks, be kind, honest, honest, get along with such people, easy and not tired, no need to be guarded.

Summary: In this life, no one lacks friends, only sincere friends.

Make a friend with good character, feel at ease, make a sincere and down-to-earth friend, and get along comfortably.

So be cautious in making friends, see the people around you, help you with your people, don't forget, the people who accompany you, don't throw away, the people who are good to you, the people who have friends for a lifetime, the people who deceive you, don't contact again!

Personally, I think that the friends who are really worthy of making a lifetime should still be the kind of two people whose values are roughly close, and two people appreciate each other, understand each other, tolerate each other, have deep feelings for each other, and have been friends for many years, specifically, mainly covering the following aspects:

First of all, the basic views and basic views of two people on some things are generally the same, the basic way of thinking and concepts of two people are not much different, and the class or life experience of two people, family education and other aspects are basically similar, because it is these convergence that will cause a high degree of consistency in the way of doing things for two people, and it will make two people really fit together, and two people will really feel happy in the process of getting along.

Secondly, in this way, two friends have a good impression of each other, they both care about each other, and they both put each other in a more important position in their hearts, and the two people often have contact. When one of them encounters difficulties, the other party will definitely show up as soon as possible to help each other, so that although the two friends are not brothers or sisters, the actual relationship is far better than that of brothers and sisters.

There are also those who are worthy of making friends for a lifetime, who should be able to play a positive role in their own growth, and who can learn a lot of advantages from their friends. Friends are also learning from each other, a process of mutual promotion, is the so-called like-minded, when friends two people have the same aspirations, each other for the common goal of hard work, in this process, should be a kind of happiness, and really worthy of their own lifelong friends, should be the kind of people who know how to share happiness with themselves, is the kind of person who can put themselves in each other's shoes for each other.

In life, it is a very happy and rare thing for us to meet these friends who are worth making for a lifetime, and such friendships are worthy of our joint care for a lifetime.

01 Don't take advantage of it, don't be afraid of losses.

Have you noticed that there will always be one or two people among your friends who feel that their things are very expensive, other people's money is falling from the sky, and it is okay to spend other people's money, but if others want to move their own, there is no way.

Eating together, when it's time to pay, there will always be various excuses, either to go to the bathroom, or to find the phone and wallet, and when someone else settles the bill, he will appear calmly.

Such a person can't have deep friendships, you are with him, he will always take advantage of him, you can only suffer.

It doesn't hurt to suffer some losses once in a while, but if you suffer a lot of losses, he will not necessarily be grateful, but will treat you as a fool and an ATM.

Therefore, it is better to have such a friend, which will not make you feel awkward in your heart, nor will you suffer a loss of money in vain.

There is a kind of person who you associate with, but you feel very comfortable, and he will never take anyone's advantage casually. Even if you treat him well, he will repay you with two points.

He is with you, and he never cares about how much he pays, nor does he care about you money. When encountering things, I would rather suffer a loss than owe you.

He is willing to sacrifice his own interests to maintain the relationship between you and him, and you will feel at ease when you get along with him, and you don't have to worry that he will plot against you behind your back.

Such a friend is worth your lifelong friendship, don't lose this relationship easily.

02 Positive, optimistic and open-minded.

In the circle of friends, there are two or three people with particularly negative energy. No matter what others say, they can always think in the worst way.

When someone else is promoted, he will wonder if there is an improper deal behind it; When someone else earns money, he will sourly say that the money comes and goes quickly.

It seems that anything about others can trigger his pain points, obviously he has no ability, his life is not good, he doesn't think of how to change his life status, but he always uses his energy to slander others.

Such a person, once he sees through his true face, there is no need to make friends deeply, just maintain the stability of the present world on the surface. Because you can't get positive energy from him, but his attitude towards life may lead you astray.

There are a few friends around me, but they are not very close, but their open-mindedness towards life is admirable.

When encountering difficulties, some people often complain at first, but they look for the root cause of the problem and then actively seek solutions.

Sometimes things that seem impossible to solve for many people can be handled with patience and care, as well as calm thinking, which makes people feel respectful.

Obviously, he is already very good, and he is still learning, never giving up the pursuit of beauty in his heart, and always looking towards the good side when dealing with others.

With such friends, you can also become a person full of positive energy, and you will also face the trials and problems that life may bring you positively.

Sincere and kind, who puts you in an important position in his heart, and who will not abandon you when you fall into trouble, is worthy of you to make a pair of socks to praise your lifelong friends.

First of all, making friends depends on character. So sincere and kind people are worth associating. A person with an unjust heart, no matter how sweet he is when he needs you, must be careful and not have deep friendships.

Otherwise, when you are proud, you may be surrounded by friends. When you are frustrated. Maybe people will go away and the tea will be cold!

Secondly, friends are reciprocal and have contacts with each other. It's not a one-sided effort. It's the same whether it's emotional or monetary giving.

Don't accept the good of one party with peace of mind, and remember to reciprocate when you have the conditions. If there is no equal giving, then the relationship is destined not to be a friend for a long time, but to be a loyal servant or evolve into something else.

Again, feelings need to be maintained. Unless the two have gone through particularly important things together and have become friends of life and death, otherwise, if they don't contact and move around at all, the relationship will become weaker and weaker.

Some people say that making friends is the same as finding a girlfriend, you need to consider your appearance and pay attention to your personality. However, can such a request really find a friend? So what do you value most about making friends, and what kind of people are worth befriending?

Common interests, common hobbies

It is a very rare thing to have a friend who can have the same hobbies as you, two people have common interests and hobbies, two people will have many same views and topics, two people know each other, understand each other, get close to each other, it is really fate. In ancient times, a song of ancient flowing water, less than a thousand years, affected people's feelings. Legend has it that Yu Boya, a violinist in the pre-Qin period, played the piano in the barren mountains and mountains, and the woodcutter Zhong Ziqi was able to understand the true meaning contained in his piano:

Towering in the mountains; Yang Yang is determined to flow water", Boya sighed in surprise and said, "Good, the heart of the son and my heart is the same", after the death of Zhong Ziqi, Boya lost his bosom friend, broke the piano, and no longer played the piano for life.

Towering in the mountains; Ambition is flowing water.

Sincerely

We live in this society full of falsehoods, and it is definitely not easy to make a sincere friend. The ancient philosopher Lao Tzu said that good friends should be "looking at each other and smiling, not against the heart", that is, there is no need to talk too much, real friends should trust each other, you will have a solid feeling in your heart, no matter what happens, no matter whether others believe in you or not, he has no doubt about you. What I want to emphasize is that the friendship between gentlemen is as light as water, and there is no utilitarian purpose, otherwise, that kind of friendship itself will not be pure, and it will not involve utilitarian aspects at the beginning, and friends should not contain impurities after getting along for a long time.

Good fences make good neighbors.

Benefits

I don't think anyone who will refuse to be friends with someone who has a good interest in you, but is such a friend really sincere? If there is another layer of interest between two people, this kind of friendship will be tainted with other flavors, and he (she) will feel that you are just using him (her) and dare not open up to you 100%, because no one is sure that this so-called friendship between you still does not really exist without this layer of interest.

BenefitsFeelings

As the saying goes, people's hearts are separated from their stomachs, and they see people's hearts over time, two people will slowly understand each other after getting along for a long time, and time will tear all relationships apart for us to see. It will be different to have a friend who has an emotional foundation and has experienced things together, and this kind of friend has a heart as broad as the sea and mountains. Whenever you come to them, they will be warm and supportive of you.

They are friends who can make you feel content and calm, sometimes they don't need too many words, just being there for you silently, can soothe your mood.