Why did he break up with me even though he had love? Is it that hard to wait for five years?

I agree with what "Angry Hanako" said.

Either this person is immature, and immature people like to talk about breaking up at every turn when they are in love, whether they are men or women. Either he said that he loves you very much, it is false, he is likely to have a purpose, so even he himself is not sure that if he agrees to wait for you for five years, he will change his mind and split his legs in the meantime.

With you, five years are the same, and when you are still living like this for five years, why don't you want to wait? I have relatives born in the 80s, who have been together for more than ten years, during which they have lived separately for more than three years, and they will come back to Guangzhou to get together whenever they are free. I started talking about it when I was a teenager, and I only got married and had children the year before last, just as sweet and affectionate.

It's not a matter of time, it's about how much you love each other and whether you want to be together enough.

Personally, I think it doesn't matter if you want such a man or not. If he really loves you so much, he won't easily accept other women, so even if you want him to wait for you for five years, because all you have in your heart is you, no matter how good other women are, they can't get into his eyes, and he is willing to wait for you; If you just want to find a partner to get rid of your lonely life, or you want to experience fast-food love and find a bed partner, of course he can't wait for you for five years.

He dared to mention breaking up, which shows that he doesn't love, at least not deeply. 5 years is not a long time for someone you love, but it's too long for someone who just likes you or someone who has a purpose.

In fact, the answer is already very clear, after five years of relationship breakup, I have never been in touch again, so it is obvious that the other party has let go, if the other party can't let go, needless to say, he will definitely take the initiative to contact, since the other party has let go, then it means that the other party is not in love. Since the other party is no longer in love and let go, then you have more reason to let go completely, what else is there to be nostalgic for? Although it is said that the relationship of five years is very precious, but some people don't know how to cherish it, what can you do with him?

In a word: "fate" is over! You should learn from each other, learn from each other's spirit of "can afford to put it down", believe that time can dilute everything, in order to get out of this shadow as soon as possible, it is recommended that you still don't often think about the good of the other party, and start a new relationship again.

Finally, I wish you a happy day and a long stay away from your worries!

Five years of affection, once separated. It sounds embarrassing.

I used to say my point of view, since we broke up, don't contact again. Because I used to be lovers, I have been friends a lot, and I can't bear to be an enemy, so it's better to be a stranger from now on, and occasionally think of it, remembering his good and his bad.

Those who know me say that I am worried; Those who do not know me say what I want.

Let go, can't let go, so what, it's over, it's all over.

Time is the best healing medicine, friends are the best confidants, life is like this, sweet and sour, bitter and salty, only after tasting it.

Maybe you love deeply, but the person who has been in love with me for more than 6 years left me, and I admit that it was really sad at first, but because he did something very excessive, I still convinced myself that such a person is not worthy of loving myself, and gave myself a chance to find happiness, so I let it go. Even if he is not far away. I won't contact him again, of course he has a girlfriend...

Although sometimes I am touched by some things and think of the past, but why care too much about the past, after all, the past is the truth, and the reality is for us to face, love is not the whole of our life, we still have a lot of feelings worth cherishing, family and friendship, we still have a lot of goals to pursue. It may be easier to put it down... We can only move forward, not back.

Maybe you'll meet someone who is better for you! I hope you come out of the shadows soon.

A year's relationship, but there was a two-year foreshadowing before, that is, the kind of super good friends, and they didn't contact each other for six years after the breakup. I don't know if it means I don't love anymore, but it took me a long time to put it down. You do something other meaningful and forget about it, such as learning English and memorizing words.

You can use it anytime.

It has nothing to do with whether you are still in love or not, it can only prove that you once really loved, and now you can only forget since you don't belong to her. Although the other party is not in touch, they may still be thinking about you in their hearts, to be precise, they may be thinking about you in the past. Anyway, the more true love hurts after breaking up, the less likely it is to get back together!

Let the lost fate go with it, let it pass, let the time pass and the environment changes, and you will one day get out of the shadow of that relationship. It's just a matter of time.

I haven't broken up in a relationship for 5 years, but I used to date people who were in love, and there was less contact after the breakup, because if the two can't be together, you have to face the future life, if you don't forget, it's also unfair to your future people, I don't think it's the best way, I think it's good to think that the other party can be happy, you still have to pursue your own happiness, you can't always be in this shadow.

Not being in touch doesn't mean not loving, maybe it's because of deep love that you stop contacting each other for the sake of each other's happiness. Once loved, the heart will always be there.

If you can't be together, why bother? Would you rather hear her tell you that we were here all over again, or would you like to get first-hand information on who she is with? If you want to say that you are friends, you don't report any selfish motives...Unless you haven't loved each other.

Five years is just a time, and the only thing it can prove is a failed love for you now.

Hehe, not contacting does not mean that you don't love anymore, sometimes you love too much but don't want to mention it, and you are afraid that the other party's refusal will hurt your self-esteem.

The past is all floating clouds. Why contact. More often than not, it only adds to the awkwardness and stupidity of anticipation.

In less than three months, I said hello to my ex-boyfriend hip-hopping, hehe. It's still possible to fall in love again after a breakup, whether it's five or fifty years.

My girlfriend and I have been separated for five and a half years....The smile is gone....

Not necessarily. It depends on how deep the accumulation of feelings in the past five years is. If it is very deep, it will also dial out or sound his or her ...... in the depths of a certain year

Don't think so much and move forward.

Hello, happy to answer your questions.

If both of you are single, then there is still a certain chance that Kikai will get back together after the breakup, and if you broke up five years ago because of a misunderstanding, then there will be regrets in each other's hearts.

So you can try to get in touch with the other person and see what happens.