How old will it be to live together before marriage?

Whether two people can finally come together is not to see if there is a premarital cohabitation...

If you really cherish each other, you can live a lifetime regardless of whether you live together or not... If the one of yours says that he can't stand the separation and wants to break up with you, then divide it... A boyfriend who only cares about sex, what can he give you?

He is breaking up with you now with such an excuse, so what kind of excuse will he use to break up with you after living together?

I don't respect your ideas now, and even less so after I get married. Those who only want to satisfy their own selfish desires, the farther away from him, the better.

It is necessary. 1. You can better understand each other's personality and character. Some people, such as blind dates, don't know each other and get divorced quickly.

2. Cohabitation can enhance the relationship between two people and experience married life in advance. Men have a stronger sense of family responsibility.

3. Take care of each other, take care of each other when you are sick, take tea and pour water.

4. After living together, you can clearly know each other's preferences, life and rest, advantages and disadvantages. If it is not suitable, you can end the wrong person early, so as to give the right person a chance.

6. Reduce the cost of renting. Some people who work in other places have expensive rents in big cities. If you live together, you can save some of the rent.

It is necessary that the necessity of cohabitation lies in the fact that during a relationship, two people often look at each other with a filter, deliberately ignore each other's shortcomings, and only see the shining side of their partner, and you can't see the real other person.

And living together, you can't hide each other's shortcomings, you can see his life pattern, and know if he is like in ordinary life; When there is a conflict, you will be able to see how he handles the problem and can make an objective judgment.

You can see both his good and bad, and they can run in with each other, although they may break up, it is better than two people who can't get along and divorce after marriage.

I think the real meaning of cohabitation is to test each other's ability to get through the run-in period, too many feelings can't survive the run-in period, and after one or two years of marriage, there will be contradictions in the relationship, and it can't go on.

If you want to get through the run-in period, you need two people to establish a good mode of getting along, accept each other's shortcomings, understand that as a partner, there is not a good side, he is a real person, it is normal for you to have conflicts, you must see the reasons for the contradictions, and build a good contradiction handling mechanism.

From the details of the home to see whether each other's lifestyles are consistent; From the habit of spending money, see whether each other's values are equal; From the daily habits, see if each other's attitude and quality of life are far apart.

Living together before marriage does not guarantee that your partner will only love you for the rest of your life, after all, a life is very long, and there are many variables, but it must be able to minimize the damage to each other, at least before marriage you see what it looks like after marriage, if it is the state you want, go to manage it carefully, if not, change or give up.

I think it is necessary to live together for a period of time, because in this way two people can get to know each other better, and at the same time, it is also possible to judge whether two people are suitable for marriage.

When it comes to cohabitation, some people are more resistant to cohabitation, and at the same time, they think that this behavior is very irresponsible to their significant other. With the continuous development of society, people's self-awareness has become stronger and stronger, and the way people look at feelings will become more and more enlightened. If the two people themselves are more responsible and reliable, I think two people can live together before marriage, and cohabitation will actually have certain advantages.

1. Personally, I prefer to live together for a period of time before marriage.

The reason why I say this is mainly because many people don't know how to get along with each other before they get married, and some people don't know if two people are suitable for marriage. After two people get married, if two people quarrel over all kinds of trivial things, or even two people go straight to divorce. I think it's a very wasteful thing to do, and two people's lives will be hurt.

Second, I think cohabitation allows two people to get to know each other better.

We can't always look at cohabitation with a negative mindset, before two people get married, cohabitation can bring two people closer together, and at the same time allow two people to get used to each other's way of life. We must know that marriage is not only about the so-called feelings, but also about various practical factors. When two people live together, two people can fully evaluate these factors, which is also necessary for two people to get married.

Third, I don't think everyone is suitable for cohabitation.

Although cohabitation can deepen the understanding between two people, but not everyone is suitable for cohabitation, if a person is a child himself, or the person is very irresponsible, the act of cohabitation will only lead to the relationship of two people to experience complexity, which is also not conducive to the future development of two people's life. For me personally, I only support reliable people to live together properly before getting married.

I think it's necessary, but there are a few things that have already been met before cohabitation.

1. Both parties are engaged or both parents have met and agreed to this family business.

2. Both parties have decided to get married and have planned a time.

3. It's okay to live together for three months, don't take too long.

4. Don't let both parents know about cohabitation.

I know that some people will doubt the above points, and I will also say that I am still so conservative and feudal in the 21st century, so let's take a look at the root of this problem, why live together, cohabitation is to understand each other's living habits at a deeper level, three months is enough time to understand whether the various habits of TA are acceptable to you, I have seen a divorce case before, because the two parties squeeze toothpaste in different ways, one from above, one from below, and then neither party will let it, and it will be divorced.

This is just one of the things, other things such as sleepwalking, not brushing your teeth and washing your feet before going to bed, smoking in the room, often Zheng Ze is called out by friends to drink and comes back unconscious and has no other ability to act except vomiting, can you call Qin Peng to accept?

Marriage is made up of trivial things, compared to a person's life, married life is more down-to-earth, and cohabitation is to pave the way for future married life, not to let people only enjoy the pleasure of possessing each other without responsibility, are not protected by the law, or do less.

Finally, don't let the parents of both sides know that the matter of cohabitation, no matter what, is still more unfriendly to girls, not to mention that it perishes early in the morning, girls are always the disadvantaged group, China's thousands of years of traditions and habits, not overnight, nor can it be changed in time to the 21st century, and the preference for sons over daughters cannot be changed, let alone others.

I've always believed in the saying that falling in love is not the same as getting married.

During a relationship, both men and women will only see each other's strengths in their eyes, and the disadvantages are either not seen or ignored, after all, these shortcomings are irrelevant and completely acceptable.

But is it really acceptable?

The plot is very magical, it's all relatively small things, and the difficult things like long-distance relationships have persevered, but in the end they have failed to trivial things.

I used to think that the other party was very beautiful, but after really living together, I felt that it was nothing more than that, the advantages in my eyes were no longer there, and all I saw were disadvantages.

This incident of friends makes me think that it is necessary for couples to live together for a period of time before getting married, and if they don't really live with each other for a while, they can't be sure whether their world can be integrated with each other's world, even if they don't have a lot in common, as long as there is not much friction.

Life events, don't be child's play.

Thanks for reading.

Legal Analysis: Cohabitation should be done before marriage.

1.There are many advantages of living together before marriage, especially for girls who have just graduated, living with their boyfriends, you can have less pressure, encounter difficulties, you can comfort each other and give help, especially in the early stage of your career, you will be tired and out of breath, if there is a man around you who cares about you and takes care of you, the work will definitely be smooth!

2.In terms of personality, living together before marriage can better understand each other's temper, character, and family support, if two people in love do not live together, the other party's temper and character may be reserved, and the other party's family may be even more ignorant, even if you know, it can be 1 year later.

Legal basis: Civil Code of the People's Republic of China

Article 1046:Marriage shall be completely voluntary between a man and a woman, and neither party shall be allowed to coerce the other, nor shall any organization or individual interfere with it.

Article 1047:The age of marriage shall not be earlier than 22 years for men and 20 years old for women.

Article 1048:Marriage is prohibited for lineal blood relatives or collateral blood relatives within three generations.

Article 1049 A man and a woman who wish to marry shall apply for marriage registration in person at the marriage registration authority. Where the provisions of this Law are met, they shall be registered and a marriage certificate shall be issued. The marriage relationship is established after the marriage is registered. Where marriage registration has not been completed, the registration shall be re-registered.

Article 1050:After marriage is registered, the woman may become a member of the man's family, and the man may become a member of the woman's family, in accordance with the agreement between the man and the woman.

Article 1051 Marriage shall be null and void under any of the following circumstances:

a) bigamy; 2) Have a family relationship that prohibits marriage;

3) They have not reached the legal age for marriage.