My boyfriend went abroad and taught me how to be strong!

People must always learn to be strong, learn to survive independently, no one in this world will always accompany you, separation is an inevitable regret after getting together.

What's more, your boyfriend is just going abroad, and he has no other meaning, as long as your heart remains the same, love is still there, and distance is not a big problem.

Maybe you can't accept it for a while, but after a few days, you will slowly get used to it, after all, you are not the only one in your life, you should learn to enrich your world, don't always control yourself in his circle, so that you can adapt to the way of survival.

After he goes abroad, you can write letters, surf the Internet, and call **, anyway, the current contact tools are so developed, as long as you have the heart, are you still afraid that love will go farther and farther?

Have some faith in yourself, bless you!

Friend, what are you? I like a girl, introduced by a friend, online communication all the time. We met three times before she left and it started feeling good online.

She left for half a year, I said that I would wait for her, not asking for anything else, just to give me a chance, she didn't agree, but she didn't say that there was no chance at all. I've been waiting for her for 4 months, and I write to her every day, suggesting that you do the same, tell him what you're thinking, what you're going through, and words of encouragement. I think if you insist, he won't have a girlfriend at the stage outside, it's not so easy to be outside, if you like it, stick to it, after all, it's your boyfriend, I'm much more pitiful than you, hehe, come on.

Good luck.

If he comes back, then you need to work hard, study, and use this time to learn more and improve your ability to survive.

In addition, you should contact him more, and pay more attention to his changes (maybe I am too worried, but there are too many reports on this area, don't mind), and make other plans as soon as possible.

I also think that distance is not a problem, as long as you have love in your heart, you will always be led by love, so you have to insist, contact him more, I think he will feel very lonely when he is alone, I want him to tell him, I wish you happiness!

Faith, you have to have the belief that you will be together when your boyfriend comes back.

Tell yourself that although you miss him very much, you still want to live happily.

The sky is still blue, the sun still rises every day, the only difference is that you are in a different place.

As long as two people love each other, they can definitely be together, no matter how far apart, your two hearts will be glued together, and you must trust each other

After all, you love each other. No matter how far away you are, as long as there is love to connect you, I believe that everything will pass.

I often hit **, a very good friend of mine and his boyfriend went abroad for three years, and he has survived the same in the past two years, so don't think too much, contact more with friends, it's a good friend.

1. Be ready to break up at any time.

2. Go with the flow.

3. Don't think too much, it's your psychological problem.

4. Trust, he is happy, I am happy.

I have a male friend who is also out of the country and he told me that if his girlfriend is waiting for him, it means that she is a fool. If he returns home and is still with his girlfriend, it means that he is a fool! People should be realistic.

I'm also uncomfortable, and I don't know what to do, but you have to wait for him to come back, give yourself a goal, and that goal is to wait for him, and it's really not good, let's talk.

Two people together. No matter how far apart it is. As long as two people's hearts can be together,

I don't think your relationship will last long.

Teach you to be strong?

Halo: Generally speaking, my GF is stronger than me

My object also went abroad in early September.,It's so uncomfortable.,I feel so confused about the future.,Can't cheer up at all.,Although he insists on calling me every day.,Send a message.,But it's still very uncomfortable.,It's okay to fantasize.。

1. Keep your distance from any guys, and 2. Don't make your boyfriend feel like you're alone.

Trust Him When you truly love Him, the power of trust transcends all.

Don't let a third party take advantage of it, if he really loves you, contact you more, and wait for him to come back.

Do what you like to do, life still depends on yourself, fate will eventually meet, don't force it if you don't have a chance.

Excuse me, is your boyfriend going abroad to study or something else?

Since he is willing to ruthlessly abandon you to go abroad, you should not have too much hope for this relationship. Think about your own way out.

Qiguo, it's not a breakup, what are you crying about, and you will be surprised when you come back suddenly.

If he changes his mind, you forget about him, love is the crystallization of trust between both parties.

Men and women are individuals! He lives the same life without you, and your life is the same without him! You don't live for your man!

Your life is given to you by your parents, you have your parents, siblings, friends! They all give love to you, and if you give all your love to one person, you will be too selfish and ungrateful to do so! Here's what you have to do:

1: Be nice to the people around you and spend more time with them to increase your relationship!

2: Set your goals! To make yourself earn more money, to fulfill your wishes, to earn money, remember to honor your parents more, be good to your parents!

Make them feel that they didn't raise you so much for nothing! Their frugality, hardships and hardships along the way are all to give you a warm environment ...... as much as possibleAll of this is worth it!

3: Cultivate more hobbies that are beneficial to your physical and mental health, people's lives are actually quite short! It will be good to do more things that will help you, and you won't regret it when you get old!

4:5: Yes.

It's okay! Go out for a walk with friends. Don't look for a quilt anymore.

If you don't be together for a long time, everything will fade.

Tell yourself that I am a strong person.

I just saw your post, I don't know how you are now, I want to tell you about my experience, my boyfriend also went abroad, I was studying in China for graduate school at the time, he followed his parents to immigrate, in fact, it's nothing, the relationship is good and the long-distance relationship can be maintained, and then after 1 year he returned to China to marry me, and I also graduated and found a job, because I was denied a B2 tourist visa, maybe because I was an unmarried woman and didn't have a deposit or a house or something, so after we got married in China, he gave me F2A relatives immigration, I need to wait a few years in China, I thought it would take me 3 years to get a green card to go to the United States, but I didn't expect Obama's new immigration policy to be shortened I only waited 1 and a half years, so as long as the relationship is not a problem in everything, you also have to work hard to learn English and study hard, if you have the opportunity to go out together, it is best to go out to study, of course, the visa must be left to fate, women really have to work hard, can't rely too much on men, if men change their minds, the pillar falls, you yourself will collapse, keep yourself busy, don't think too much, Life is just a few decades, and it is enough to do your best.

What is the reason for going abroad?

Find something to do. Keep yourself busy.

I don't even know how to say: no one should be a face.

Give you a choice: 1, ugly is good for you, 2, handsome is good for you, maybe you are still messing with flowers.

3. Handsome ones are also good for you, but the question is whether you are confident that you can find them,,, and the rest will not be said.

If a girl who is very good to me is not ugly, I will not accept it, the reason is very simple: 1: I am not a saint, there will always be a day when I can't stand it2: There is no grass at the end of the world.

Respect your own wishes is the most important thing, but you have to choose well from the beginning. It's like the appearance is basically stereotyped, if you care too much, you can directly rule it out, because these can't be changed because of you. So give up decisively, but next time you must think clearly before starting.

It's not a matter of a day or two to be ugly, why did you want to be with him in the first place?

If you don't like it, just divide it early, the twisted melon is not sweet.

Do you love him or think he's ugly??? To love a person is to love everything about him, otherwise don't delay others, and you should also be responsible for yourself!

Does he have a sense of responsibility, how does he do to the people he knows around him, is the main reason why he is ugly, what are your own conditions (objective), and will you regret your decision after you make it?

Break up directly, don't be wordy, because the more you get to the end, the more embarrassing it becomes.

I also have a similar girlfriend, but I don't pay as much to you as your boyfriend, your behavior will indeed make the boy feel very tired, but I also have a deep understanding of this feeling, maybe you are unintentional just care about him very much, so you go to make a fuss, but you should think about him, love him, please believe what he said, you toss and tired not only him, in exchange for the bitter fruit you have to accept. Love is not guilty, no matter what, go to him and talk to him, go for it, don't miss it and regret it. If you work hard, there may be no results in the future, but when you meet the next boy in your life, please remember that it is right to be spoiled by willful coquettishness, but please have a limit and please build trust on the basis of although.

The heart and the heart can understand,

I think he may be a little confused, he must love you so well to you, but you don't trust him very much, and he is a little childish. Give him a little time to think about it. Then ask him out to talk and tell her what you really think, and if he's still that adamant, it's that he really wants to give up on you.

Why don't you write him a letter, write about your past, write about your feelings, and write about your guilt, I think this is far more sincere than text messages, **, etc.

You're a lot like my girlfriend, you're all noisy. But now that we've been together for two years, it's much better.

Two people love each other, there is no one who asks for whom, you are just striving for your own happiness, and don't think that it will be bad in the future. If you really like it so much, go and fight it back, if he still loves you, he can't bear you like this.

Tell him that you keep asking him and making trouble with him because you love him.

Good luck

This is an easy problem, you take the initiative to talk to him, but at the right time and place; Don't talk much, but the number of times, don't mention it at first, just talk about hobbies, treat him as if he is still your boyfriend, see his reaction first, but don't do it all at once, slowly talk about this question several times, if he still loves you and wants to be with you, he knows how to do it, and on the contrary, he doesn't love it.

In my heart, I will regard you as something that can be given up, which is more suitable for the current position, and it is a lesson from the past. On the other hand, there is a dependence on you.

I've said pretty much the same thing to my current girlfriend. I think that only when I fall in love with her can I really experience the happiness and joy of finding true love. I don't know if the landlord's boyfriend thinks the same way.

It shows that with you, he lived in vain before. He who was originally a flower heart was completely subdued by you.

What I have handed in before is not comparable to yours.

You tell him that I don't really need you to coax me, I just want you to be there for me when I'm sad, even if it's just for me to cry on your shoulder, I'm very happy.

You can go to the store right now and buy me an iPad.

I'm like this, beating, scolding, threatening, enticing, it's not easy to make anything, sometimes I can't apologize, I can't be angry, but there are still good aspects, you try to think about the good aspects of your relationship as often as possible, as for his personality, you definitely can't change much, you also find it difficult to let you change your personality, isn't it, it's okay, you adapt to him, I just don't care if he will be anymore, I will, although I still want to feel favored, but. It's really hard. But I think if you're good to him, he knows it, and sometimes I think so, A wooden person is better than a person who changes his words all the time, what do you say?

Accept fate, this is human nature, nature, nature cannot be changed, and timely change will not last long, just as the will of heaven cannot be violated.

Dizzy, too honest, a little stupid. In fact, two people are not just suitable, but they are in tune with each other to suit their spleen and stomach.

There are all kinds of people in the world, people of all kinds of personalities.

So don't think that your boyfriend doesn't coax you because he doesn't love you anymore just because his personality is playing tricks.

I also think that the hypocritical sweet words are all false, and that the people who truly love you are proven by their actions.

Don't force him to do something he doesn't want to do, I think you're going to be unhappy too.

Everyone's personality has two sides, if you can't speak, you say that he is wooden, and if his mouth is too sweet, you will be afraid of his heart. To be honest, my mouth is really sweet, and I often make my girlfriend very happy, but when I look back, she will say that this is the nature of a Gemini man, and her mouth is sweet and sweet, and she feels very wronged. He doesn't care at all, he cultivates for a long time, so he has a sense of security, at least he doesn't know how to mess with other girls.

Don't try to change your lover, that's the stupidest way to go.

Everyone loves people differently.

If he's not as good as you think he is, and you don't like him very much, then break up, if you really like her so much, you might as well cater to him yourself, and you also say he's a machismo, maybe she'll find you good elsewhere!

Trying to change your lover If the other person doesn't love you very much, it's very difficult, even if the other person loves you very much and is willing to change it for you, but after a long time, he may feel very tired and always have to coax you or something, so I don't approve of you trying to change him.