Do your parents treat their grandchildren better than you do?

It is an indisputable fact that mom and dad are better to their grandchildren than to their own children. Usually this is the case, our parents will always be better to our children, as if they can see a lot of our shadows in our children. It seems that they could have treated our children better to make up for the harshness they were treating us at that time.

I feel like our parents became parents at a very young age, when they were still children and didn't know how to be parents.

They don't know what a parent should do to their children, so they educate their children in their own way. Hopefully, we can become better in our own stern ways.

That's the kind of hope that they continue to be strict with us, as if this kind of serious education can bring us a better future.

As we get older, we become parents like our parents. And our parents have become the most charitable grandparents in the eyes of their children, because they always feel that we were not good enough for us when we were young, and they just want to give our children the love that we owe us. In this way, our children have more love, and our parents are happy because of their dedication to the younger generation.

I remember that my sister's father, my uncle, once said to my sister, he said, you have your own way of disciplining your children, and we as grandparents should not interfere, but at least you should not teach your children in front of us. This is the best filial piety for us.

Yes, in fact, parents see more of a continuation of our lives, and by seeing our children, it is as if they saw us when we were children. Watching our children grow up little by little, we can get all the love owed to us back. This should be a kind of debt to many working-class parents to their children, after all, everyone has to go to work every day and have no time to take care of their children.

I don't have time to watch my child grow up little by little, and sometimes I may really miss a lot of my child's first time. When they are old, there is nothing else to do to stay at home and watch their children grow up little by little, and watch them change. Maybe it can make up for what Mom and Dad are missing.

So then, our parents must care more for our children than we do, and we don't have to be jealous or anything. Because this child is your child, they will love, and you are the ultimate bridge.

I feel yes, since giving birth to my daughter, my parents only care about my daughter, haha. Everything is left for the granddaughter to eat.

Although many families are intergenerational, it is more serious. But in our family, it's still quite common. Both parents have a normal range of affection for their children. I haven't felt overly pampered so far.

Because we were still young at the time, we couldn't prove that our parents Lan Nian was good to us!

I like musical instruments, singing, dancing, calligraphy, playing chess, traveling, etc., but I don't like my grandchildren, and I don't like to live with them with them.

There are such grandparents, such grandparents are a little selfish, they only love themselves. However, there are a few such people, but no matter what your grandparents do to you, you do your duty as a junior, and fulfill your filial piety, I wish you happiness every day.

Yes, not all grandparents will be nice to their grandchildren.

Some grandparents will love the house and Wu, for example, the daughter-in-law is more like the grandparents, then they will look at the grandson differently.

If you don't like this daughter-in-law, it's hard to say.

Another is that if there are too many children in the family, it is not necessarily the grandparents who like their grandchildren.

Do you think that not all grandparents are good to their grandchildren, and some grandparents don't like their grandchildren at all. It's a drop, the things in the world are not static, just the so-called love house and Wu. Grandma doesn't like her grandson, because she doesn't want to take responsibility, and because the old man doesn't feel sorry for her son, she won't pay attention to her grandson, so you don't have to be entangled, have ambition, work your own, and live well without relying on anyone.

There are such grandparents, but there should not be many reasons, some may be because of the concern of parents, the relationship between parents and grandparents is not good, then this will directly affect the attitude of the elderly towards children, but in the heart, they should also like children.

It is the so-called love house and Wu. Grandma doesn't like her grandson because the old man doesn't like her son.

So as a grandson, don't be entangled, your grandmother doesn't like your father even more, how can she like you?

Yes, I am, my grandparents didn't like my mom ever since, and they took me and my dad with me. I'm the only grandson, the old house was demolished, and the newly built house had to be divided into half of my aunt's, but now I basically don't go to my grandmother's house, and when I go, I ask about the object I talk to, or other things, and then I will pick my fault from these things, and only good for my aunt's children, from childhood to adulthood, I can't compare with my cousin with my pocket money. Can't.

Ninety-nine percent like their grandchildren, only one percent don't, and there must be a special reason!

In this case, some elderly people don't like their grandchildren, and most of the reasons for this situation are because they don't like their daughters-in-law and family conflicts. The normal situation is that they are intergenerational relatives, who doesn't like their grandchildren, grandchildren are the continuation of the family incense, and they are willing to have grandchildren, not granddaughters.

There are everyone in the world, and there will definitely be such people, but such people are very few.

It seems that yes. People don't have the same thinking, different ideas, and everything.

There are such people, but there are very few, basically they are the natural characteristics of human nature, love children and grandchildren.

My mother-in-law's family may be like this, it is a special case, my husband has an older brother, we are the second, I am the second daughter-in-law, the old man still likes my husband very much, because we got married early, the child was born earlier than his brother's child, two years older, our son, his brother's daughter, at first my husband and I were worried that his grandfather would be patriarchal, partial to his grandson, so that my sister-in-law felt uncomfortable, but our worries were obviously redundant and ridiculous, we went home for the New Year, and the grandfather obviously forgot that he had a grandson, and he has been with his granddaughter, Maybe the child is the most objective, as long as the brother drills into the grandfather's arms to hug, the younger sister will cry, don't let the grandfather hug the brother, the brother runs to her mother's arms to hug, the younger sister doesn't cry, she knows that her grandfather is eccentric, to rob grandpa, not to rob grandma, mom and dad, I'm also drunk!

Yes, yes, but not many, very few such people.

Yes Yes it is not that it will not occur in this case, and there will be many reasons for it.

People are not the same. Most of them are grandmothers who are good to their grandchildren. If it's upside down, that's another story.

No, my grandmother treats my sister better than me, but it doesn't mean that she treats me badly, it's just that she dotes on my sister more, my grandmother is also very good to me, different family situations have different feelings, there is no need to dwell on this.

No, it's not quite, it's based on each person, and it's different.

There is this regularity. But it's not all, a lot of it is treated well.

No, my grandmother was not good to my mother, she was not good to me and my sister, she cheated my parents on the pocket money they gave me, and they didn't even buy me breakfast when I was hungry, and I didn't give examples of them all.

In the bottom of my heart, it is the love for my children, and the love for my grandchildren is actually a continuation of the love for my children, but there will generally be a generation gap with my children, and it is inevitable that there will be conflicts on some issues, and there is no generation gap between my grandchildren (or that the difference is too far to care), so it often shows that the relationship between grandchildren and grandchildren is more harmonious. But there is also a disadvantage, if all the children are handed over to the elderly to take care of, it is more likely to be overly spoiled. There will be some very funny things, such as the strange incident of my father going to the school to find the teacher to reason for my daughter's math homework because the teacher deducted one extra point.

The love of parents for their children and grandchildren is the same, it is based on a kind of selfless love of human beings for their offspring, and you can't deliberately distinguish between them.

The brother above is right, but I would add that; People grow up from childhood to adulthood, and their parents are still loved by their parents when they are young, so in general, the parents love you the most when you were young.

Both love, but the way of love is different, and these two kinds of love are not comparable.

Raising children brings you joy! Love everyone is the same, and you will be reciprocated.

The brother who talks less is to care more for his juniors. . . The nephew may be introverted.

This nephew should be your brother's family, love the house and your husband and your mother-in-law may both love your brother indirectly love your nephew, this is understandable, my family is what you said, long live understand, hehe, you will say less in the future, hehe, if you are happy, your husband will love you more, love your husband, love your husband, you will be a good wife.

Ten fingers are still long and short. What's more, it is impossible for such a sensual animal to be treated equally.

I think his nephew must have something special to do. That's why everyone will treat him better.

Try to keep yourself calm.

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Maybe you think about it too much, no mother will feel more love for her son.

There is indeed a suspicion of this.

This is not usually the case.

At most, he will only treat his nephew as a son.

After bringing his own children, he gained more experience. For the lost youth, you can see your good past from the juniors.

The older the parent, the more kind to the juniors.

Because they are old and have experienced more

This painting in Chinese means that your father is very filial and excellent, but I don't know how your father treats your mother? Sometimes the relationship between husband and wife can never catch up with your parents, so when you are filial to your parents, do you remember that you have a wife and children? Have you ever paid to your wife and children ever to your bad father, parents, and father?

So if you give too much to your parents, ignore your wife and children, all your financial **, give to your parents, instead of giving your wife and children Although he is a good child and a good child in front of his parents, but his wife and children are not a good husband or a good father in front of his parents and such a man will only be good to his parents, such a man is not worthy of marriage.

Grandma's meaning, although the nanny is also very good, but it is still not as good as the father, the father is related to you by blood, and will do his best for your learning and growth, but the nanny can't do this.

Grandma's meaning, although the nanny is also very good, but it is still not as good as Dad, Dad is related to you by blood, and will do his best for your learning and growth, but the nanny can't do this. Nanny, what you establish with her is friendship, because the nanny will take care of you, and your father and mother give you affection, how many times better than grandma teaches you to cherish.

If you are a nanny, you will establish a friendship with her, because the nanny will take care of you, and the father and mother give you affection, how many times better is not necessarily, some families have a better relationship between the nanny and the child than the relationship between the child and the parents, after all, there are many sayings about the relationship between people.

What does it mean when the grandmother says to her grandson, "Some babysitters are really good, do you know how many times better your dad is than the nanny"? What else does this mean, what your grandmother means when she says this is that although you spend time with the nanny every day, your father and you are blood relatives, and they are always your closest people.

No matter how good the babysitter is, it can't be as good as your dad treats you. So, she probably wants you to understand your dad.

The nanny is good, he didn't give birth to you and raised you, when is it better to be his own.