What do you do when you find out that you are not born to your parents?

I think you're a little ignorant. Even if you now know that they are not your real parents, then you should respect them and be filial to them. What we usually call the greatest kindness of our parents to us is:

Nurturing grace. Maybe for others, the grace of nurturing is done by the same parents, but you are a little special in that the "grace" of raising is done by your biological parents. "Nurturing" is done by your current parents, so I don't think you should feel that your life is unfortunate, but you feel that you have received more love than others, and these loves come from your current parents.

Do you know the bitterness in their hearts, maybe they don't have biological children, but you should understand these things by raising you as your own children. When you know, keep it in your heart and don't ask them anything else. It hurts them more and more deeply.

Accept and respect this fact. Respect your biological parents, adoptive parents just take care of themselves on their behalf.

In fact, it doesn't matter, although your parents are not biological, but from childhood to adulthood, it is difficult to take them not to treat you as their own children with all their hearts... After you know the facts, you still have to honor them, because they gave you a second life...

If your adoptive parents are very good to you and there is nothing bad about you, then I will treat them as their own parents, at least they raised you, and their biological parents still abandoned you, do you feel good when you think about this? As the old saying goes, the adoptive mother is bigger than the sky. It is much harder to raise you than to give birth to you.

It takes a lifetime of energy and effort.

After all, they have raised you for many years, and they have honored your parents because they have done a lot for you, but they have not paid for you? Strange: So how did you grow up? Hehe--- famous quotes.

<> I would choose to dress up as a simple person to find my biological parents. The vast majority of people will choose to search, which is not only a matter of rational curiosity, but more importantly, it is a psychological disorder that can only be solved by finding the biological parents.

Everyone's self-worth comes from two aspects, one is the twinkling stars in the mother's eyes when she looks at the child, and hiding in the arms of the father and looking in the direction of the father's finger. Because both of these represent the parent's perception of the child's love. The final formation of the multi-sales group element self-value system.

When you learn that you are an adopted child, then an undercurrent of the underlying values appears, which is manifested as self-doubt.