Why is it so difficult to find someone to love, and is it difficult for people on a blind date to fi

Updated on society 2024-05-27
9 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Maybe there are too few people around you who can attract you, and introverts often give people a feeling of not being approachable, in the long run, others will definitely think that you are too demanding and unwilling to contact you, you can try to change yourself, let yourself go a little more, participate in more entertainment activities, know more people, after all, happiness is to fight for yourself. There must be something very unique about your first love that attracts you, if you can continue with him, it is best to seize the opportunity, if you can't, don't keep thinking about it, living in the past can only add to your own troubles.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    If you get married, you won't be free, don't follow the flow, get married later if you want to, don't care about other people's opinions.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Water under the bridge.

    Participate in more activities and meet a lot of enthusiastic people.

    From what you said, the conditions are not bad, go out confidently.

    You're guaranteed to get something out of your participation in a few events.

    Give yourself the opportunity to get to know others, and give others the opportunity to understand yourself.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    What's the hurry? People who love each other will run to you on their own.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    There is a very good-looking 24-year-old in my class, but he doesn't have a boyfriend.

    Hehe, it's not just your problem!!

    There are a lot of people like you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Don't worry. It's yours and it's always yours.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Wait! What is twenty-four? We still think it doesn't matter?

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Nowadays, many people don't use this blind date to fall in love, and use the free love method that everyone prefers, and you can choose the right love object for yourself according to your own preferences, which is much better than the traditional blind date method. But for some people who are more introverted, that is, people, you still have to rely on blind dates to solve love problems.

    Some people have gone on blind dates many times, and because of the number of times, it will also bring them some insights.

    The first is that the more times you cheat on your relatives, the less confident you are in yourself. Some people succeed on a blind date, some people need two or three times, and some people fail to find a suitable love partner on a blind date for more than ten times, and the other party doesn't look down on him, that is, he doesn't look down on others. In this case, I often doubt myself, is my performance in all aspects too poor, otherwise how can the other party look down on me?

    Repeated unsuccessful blind dates will inevitably have a certain impact on personal self-confidence.

    Secondly, there are too many blind dates, and I have lost my judgment when I go to Dou Buna. I don't know what kind of object I'm looking for, which means it's dazzling. Because no one is perfect, in our real life, there are few people who are particularly perfect and very good in all aspects.

    In the face of many blind dates, I don't know which one to choose, some people may look better, but they have low education or ability, and some people have a high degree of education, but their appearance is very average, and they often don't know how to choose.

    Third, don't expect too much when you go on a blind date. There is a saying that the higher the expectations, the greater the disappointment. Don't doubt yourself and lose confidence in your love because of a failed blind date.

    You must know that love and marriage are all about fate, only if you meet the right person at the right time, that is the other half you are looking for. So don't worry if you don't succeed, believe that there is always a suitable person waiting for you, but it is not yet the right time.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    When we want to fall in love, we may not be able to meet someone who really loves each other, this is fate, it is impossible for us to do anything, others are waiting for us there. So that's a matter of opportunity. When our fate arrived.

    It seems like a simple thing. But when we don't have this fate, we are in a hurry to wait, why can't we find that kind of suitable person? The people you love talk about love vigorously together.

    People always can't find someone to love when they are in love.

    Hello, glad to answer for you. In fact, in this world, everything is not smooth sailing. When we want to fall in love, we may not be able to meet someone who really loves each other, this is fate, it is impossible for us to do anything, others are waiting for us there.

    So that's a matter of opportunity. When our fate arrived. It seems like a simple thing.

    But when we don't have this fate, we are in a hurry to wait, why can't we find that kind of suitable person? The people you love talk about love vigorously together.

    So this kind of thing we should be calm. When we meet, we must seize the opportunity to have a good relationship, if the fate is not enough, then we will treat it normally, do not worry, to believe in ourselves, fate must be there, but the time has not come.

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