What if my family doesn t believe me, what if my family doesn t believe me?

Grandparents are like this, it's just about caring about you. Cherish them well, and when they can't take care of you, will you regret it.

Prove yourself with yourself and reflect on what behaviors you misunderstood them. My main question is what do you buy that will make them feel like you're with the social molecules? You go out shopping in the middle of the night?

Buy for 3 hours? If not, ask them to help you or accompany you to buy it, and someone will accompany you to save time and effort.

Then you can also disbelieve your family, grandparents are hopelessly old things.

The reason why your family treats you like this is because they care about you. They have always thought that you are still a child, and society is so chaotic now, they are more worried. You can try to communicate with them and tell them what you think.

The generation gap will also be the same between parents and us, let alone with grandparents.

No matter what adults say or do, their original intentions are for your own good, and you need to understand this, and don't be sad about it, but feel comfortable with these family members who care about you. As for why they don't believe you, maybe it's because you don't communicate enough on weekdays, right? You can try to talk to them so that they know what you think, and you have to understand their thoughts.

There is nothing in a family that cannot be said, and there is nothing that cannot be resolved, believe in yourself and believe in your family.

I'll go, your grandparents are really ...... thinkingHey, it's old-fashioned enough......Let them follow.

Don't lose your temper with them, swear by your personality that you don't, be serious. Take action to show that you are a self-loving person.

The family doesn't believe that you are not their problem, it is your own. Once preconceptions have formed, they are not easy to dispel. The only way to do this is to prove it over a period of time, and at the same time to strengthen communication with your family.

It's useless to swear by a curse, the key is to see what you actually do.

Use your on-the-ground actions to explain everything, your family's love for you, don't think that you don't trust you, communicate more, ask for advice, be able to justify when necessary, don't play petty, be angry, etc., that will show that you have not grown up and will continue to monitor you.

You have to know why they don't believe you.

It's not that your parents don't believe you, but they always feel that you are still young and young, and many ideas are unrealistic, and they are also afraid that you will fail and not be able to bear the blow, and others may have experienced more than you and see more comprehensively. You can communicate well with your parents, and do things yourself so that they can see your grades and see that you are growing, and your parents will naturally believe in you, come on!

Most parents are like this, because they think that they know you well and feel that you are not as good as others in terms of ability...Because of this wrong cognition, as well as the perception of age, I feel that what others say is right.

In fact, according to the heart, the parents themselves also know that it is unreliable to believe in others in this way, but how to say it, anyway, this kind of belief will not have any bad consequences, sometimes it is a detail hanging in the air in one fell swoop, anyway, I believe that I will not lose a piece of meat.

If there is really something to lose, these parents will not be so easy to play tricks, this is more of a hypocritical social in adult society, just like praising each other's children for being good, and then belittling their own children for not being as good as each other....

As a parent, these are all fake, praising each other's goodness, maybe it's really good, but maybe it's because the other party is a child, even if the child is ugly, there are few people who can say it thoroughly....As long as they are healthy and lively, can eat and drink, they will say that the other party is cute, smart, and must have the ability when they grow up!

No one knows exactly what it will look like when you grow up, so this kind of talk is just a scene.

You will definitely be sad, this kind of sadness is too much about yourself, in the eyes of your parents, because this care about how your parents evaluate you, sometimes many things are not taken care of, hurt others and hurt yourself.

I'm like this too, so I need to train myself well...Let yourself not care too much about your parents, your own evaluation, this kind of intentional or unintentional harm, just because we care too much, we have to learn not to care too much, and then just say that you are incompetent, and you will not be sad when the time comes. No one is yourself, your parents are just others Everyone is an independent individual, since it is a confidant that an individual can meet, there are very few....

In the future, you can find some friends to talk to after work on the Internet to make up for the lack of trust in front of your parents.

Parents always believe that outsiders don't believe in you, this problem is really uncomfortable, after all, your parents don't believe in yourself, and you must feel very painful and uncomfortable.

But it is still recommended that you should try to show yourself and communicate more with your parents, so that they trust you from the heart, so that they will naturally change their minds, so you should still treat this problem rationally, don't be too extreme, and slowly talk together that it can be solved!

First of all, when making sure that you have not done anything wrong, if your parents still listen to outsiders. Then do something to protect your family's property. When parents suffer, don't blame and criticize, just comfort them and help them analyze the problem.

What if your parents always believe that outsiders don't believe me, I think your parents always believe that outsiders don't believe you, then they must feel that you have a lot of things to deceive them in long-term contact with you, so they won't believe you in their minds, if you feel wronged, you can talk to your parents directly, spit out your grievances, so that your parents will believe you.

First of all, we must clear up some misunderstandings between you, because if this happens, it means that there is a problem with the trust between you, and both parties sit down and communicate well. Because no parent doesn't want their children to be better.

Your parents always don't believe you, probably because of some things you did before, which made it difficult for them to believe you, and you have to change their stereotype of you through your own efforts.

I always believe that outsiders don't believe you, it seems that they think that their children's abilities are limited, and you have to impress your parents with your excellence.

Parents always trust outsiders and don't believe you, that means. You have deceived your parents with a lot of lies before, so your parents would rather trust outsiders than believe you.

This is usually not enough communication with your parents, who don't know you very well, so you still have to find time to talk to your parents more and communicate more. This way, parents can also keep abreast of your thoughts. It's good to take it slowly.

Maybe our parents think that we are still young, and that we have not yet understood the so-called truth, we should strive to improve our own abilities, let our parents reassure us, and let them approve of our ideas and views.

I think this is normal, I don't know why all parents always trust outsiders and don't trust their children. My parents were the same. I taught them how to use their phones, but they always didn't believe it and had to go outside and ask people again.

So this kind of thing, you just get used to it.

Then you will make a success to show your parents, generally do not trust you or have lost confidence in you, and your parents will naturally believe you if you do well.

It doesn't matter if you believe it or not, filial piety to the elderly is the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation, as the saying goes, over time, you will be able to appreciate your goodness.

Hello, parents always believe in outsiders, but not in you, first of all, you have to find the reason from yourself, and secondly, you can tell your parents what you think.

In this case, you should reflect on what you have done that led to your parents' misperception of you. Change your bad habits and let your parents get to know you again.

You can try to convince them, put the data in front of them, and prove that what you say is right with strength.

Find a way to let your parents see your good side, and let your parents like themselves from the bottom of their hearts.

There are some elders who have really strange thoughts, they always hurt those closest to them. But in big things, it must be biased towards his own children.

It must be that parents hate iron and steel!

You are disobedient, ignorant, unmotivated, and unassertive! No sense of responsibility!?

If you work hard and can reassure people, others will trust you!

I wish you happiness and a happy life!

Hope, thank you!

The choice is to believe in outsiders, not to believe that I can sit down with him and communicate.

Your parents may not be very firm in their minds and will be suspicious of you when they hear other people's gossip, but they will still believe you if you are willing to explain.

First of all, how do you make your parents not believe in you, this root ultimately lies in you, know that there is no parent who does not believe in their children. Unless it's your own children who always do something that makes their parents sad, which leads to the end not believing you. The key to solving this problem is how you do it yourself.

There are no parents who don't believe in their children, they are just sad on the surface. But they believe in you in their hearts, and they can't tell them in front of others, I don't believe in you, I believe in my children.

Your parents always trust others but not yourself, which means that you usually do things and behave in a way that may hurt your parents' hearts, so they don't believe you very much.

Communicate with them and let them know what you think.

My parents too, I don't know why the words of outsiders seem to be the same as the words of God, I can't figure it out, no matter what they do, anyway, if they don't believe me, they don't believe me, it's a big deal, I'm like this myself, and I don't want them to believe it.

In this case, we should not be casual in our suspicions of the family.

You should communicate and discuss with them in a friendly manner, and figure out the actual situation and reasons, so that the effect of solving the problem will be better, and it will not hurt each other with your family because of this, so it is very important to be good at communicating with others to deal with problems.

1. Respond in a timely manner when talking.

First of all, we have to know how to respond, if others are very interested in saying a lot of content, and you don't have any expression, it will make people feel very embarrassed or uninteresting, so that the light words can only end hastily, and it is not helpful for your language communication, so when you usually talk to others, you must respond to others in a timely manner.

2. Communicate attitude and respect each other.

The attitude when communicating is also very important, you should communicate modestly and friendly with each other when communicating, and respect each other when talking, only if you know how to truly respect each other, you will get the respect of others, and the conversation will be pleasant and smooth.

3. Know how to listen when talking.

Listening is also a point to pay attention to in communication, when talking to others, we must take into account the feelings of others, and also listen to what is expressed on the rock, so that we can better communicate in language, otherwise the communication will not achieve the effect at all, and it is easy to misunderstand.

4. Don't always be self-centered.

When talking, you should also pay attention to an important point, don't always think that what you say and do is important, always focus on yourself, and other people's is not important, this situation is to be eliminated, which can easily cause disgust to others, and will also leave a bad impression on others.

5. Communicate sincerely and honestly.

In the process of communication, it is very important to be honest with the person you communicate with, and you should not hide it, honesty is an important step for you to deepen the cooperative relationship through communication. First of all, you can make the other party believe in yourself through your own honesty, and then drive the other party to be honest with you, and then promote the smooth and happy communication.

Summary. Adults are definitely not willing to admit their mistakes, they are already adults, at least they need to save face. You have to think hard about why they keep opposing what you say, there must be their own reasons why they don't believe what you are explaining.

You have to be tactful in everything, for example, you and your family are thorny hedgehogs, you both want to show yourself, and you stab each other with your own thorns, which will only hurt both sides.

So when I contact you and talk to your family, you can find the right way, sometimes you are sure that it is their fault, but the more you argue with them, the more unhappy they will become, you should first admit their decision for a while, and then slowly explain your opinion, instead of arguing with them blindly. [than the heart] [than the heart] [than the heart].

The family didn't believe me, and I had to explain.

Hello dear.

People in the big section of the shed are definitely unwilling to admit their mistakes, they are already adults, at least they need to save face. You have to think carefully about why they keep opposing what you say, there must be their own reasons why they don't believe what you explain. For example, you and your family are thorny hedgehogs, you both want to show yourself and prick each other with your own thorns, which will only hurt both sides.

So when I contact you and talk to your family, you can find the right way, sometimes you are sure that it is their fault, but the more you argue with them, the more unhappy they will become, you should first admit their decision for a while, and then slowly explain your opinion, instead of arguing with them blindly. [than the heart] [than the heart] [than the heart].