Why is it so difficult to find someone you really like? 5

Think about the cat and dog love theory, maybe not entirely true, but psychologically there is some truth!

The best thing in life is to be happy, but you have to think that even if you are happy, you may not be able to last a lifetime!

When it comes to love, from my point of view, don't ask for too perfection, otherwise you will have to go on alone. In fact, the last class of love will be converted into family affection. So I think sometimes what marriage is looking for is not exactly love, but should be family affection or "latent family affection".

I think you know what I mean!

Either way, I hope everyone is okay!! Truly bless you!

Life is very long, and the road is quite bumpy, and it is a great fate and happiness to be able to face and experience it with the people you like. Fate can be met but not sought, although it is rare to fall in love at first sight, but there is always a refreshing feeling in the dark. This is your love, of course, the premise is that you must clearly know and understand your own heart, and realistically consider what kind of person your lifelong partner is, such as what you look like, how your personality is, what your ability is, what kind of conditions you want to have, etc., the more specific and detailed, when you meet, you will no longer be confused, will no longer be at a loss.

Many times we are confused and at a loss, because we don't have a clear goal in mind, so let's think about it ourselves first, according to our own situation and conditions. What's right for you is the best. Bless you and find your true love soon.

It's better to find someone who really loves you, just feel good about yourself, and it is suitable for someone who will live with you for a lifetime and help each other to grow old.

Life in the world is about fate, and there is no need to force it. I hope you find your other half soon.

Hopefully, you will meet your angel one day sooner.

Isn't it over finding a significant other?

I think it's because parents and elders often don't understand the type of kids they like. Parents and those close relatives who care about us and love us always think that they know their children very well, know what they need, what kind of partner they like, in fact, they go to find a partner for their children according to their own preferences, in other words, what they think their children like.

But in fact, when children become adults, their communication with their parents and relatives begins to be stylized, that is, they are very close on the surface, live together, and seem to see each other often, but they rarely communicate effectively. The words are simple communication in daily life, the kind of thought communication that is deep and touches the soul, and it seems difficult to achieve with parents and relatives.

First of all, there is a generation gap between the two generations, different values, and different views on many things.

Therefore, it is difficult for young people to open their hearts to these elders, and their true thoughts will not be confided in them. Because they don't understand it, they are likely to interfere in their own lives. Therefore, parents and elders are always wishful thinking about their children, and they think about it with their own ideas.

The same is true for emotional matters. And this kind of speculation is often inconsistent with the child's real thoughts and actual needs.

Many times, parents will feel that they have taken some detours and stepped on some pits emotionally when they are young, and they don't want their children to fall into them.

It is precisely because he was young that he had those wrong thoughts and wanted to help his children correct them in time, so he is likely to follow his current age of thinking about feelings, and feel that what kind of person is more suitable for marriage and life, to shoehorn into his children, and also hope that his children will fully accept his emotional values.

Good luck.

My current lover is what I really like, because he can bring me a lot of security, he can make me feel the happiness of being loved, he can give me the happiness I want, so I love him very much.

Now many couples, although they seem to be particularly happy, but sometimes, their other half is not what they really like, the reason why they will marry each other is because the other party is very suitable for themselves, but they do not love each other so much, but after getting along later, they also live very happily, so there will be such a problem, many people will meet people they particularly like, but there is no way to be with each other, but for me, I am a person who will never compromise, If the other party is not my own liking, I will not be with the other party, because I think this approach is very irresponsible, although the final outcome is good, but in the process, I am unhappy, so why embarrass myself?

Maybe my thoughts are a little rebellious, a little too idealistic, but the lover I meet now is what I really like, and my parents, family, and friends are very fond of it, and we can give each other the best life, which is probably in the best years, meet the best person, and I also hope that all people can have a happy ending with the person they love the most. Even if you don't end up with your lover, don't regret it too much, it means that you still have no fate, but you met each other at the wrong time, people still have to look forward, life has to go on, for those who missed, we have to give him some blessings, which is also a kind of letting go for us, so that our lives will be happier, and there will not be too much pressure.

I hope that all the lovers you meet are the ones you like the most, and I hope that everyone will have a happy and fulfilling life, so that our world will become happier.