What should I do if my boyfriend strongly urges me to live together

Updated on society 2024-05-28
11 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Tell him that if he loves you, respect you, no matter how good he is to you, don't agree to this condition, unless you are engaged, or when you get married, because boys generally get girls after getting girls, they are more and more casual to girls, even if they don't change at the beginning, they will change because you live together for longer and longer, so you must slowly understand that after the run-in, both parties have settled, and then consider this aspect of things, because the boy is sometimes slowly changing himself and he doesn't know, I just want to tell you that the more you value yourself, the more he will love you, talk to him well, and hope he understands you

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    How old are you now? I don't know how long you've been talking, if you're still a student and he's not your future marriage partner, don't promise him, remember this sentence: "Girls should respect and love themselves" and protect yourself.

    Keep your bottom line, it's best not to live together before marriage, don't practice yourself, in case you're a scumbag, he doesn't care if you get there, it's you who suffers after you arrive! I've met a scumbag in online dating before, and he's harmed a lot of girls before, but fortunately, I refused to live with him. So if your boyfriend strongly does this, break up, a man who respects you will not do this.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If you think he's worth it, agree to live with him. If you don't think you should have gotten there, tell him what you think.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It depends on how far it has developed, and if it's just an ordinary relationship, please be cautious. For a girl, cohabitation means that you have a tendency to marry him, but a boy is different, and it may just be a physical need. How to develop in the future, you have to be able to grasp the boy, otherwise you will definitely be injured!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Hello, it's up to you to decide if you want to. If not, ask him why he wants to live together.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Your boyfriend has ulterior motives. Be careful, it's best to ask why you want to live together, and if you know your boyfriend yourself?

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you don't agree, you don't negotiate, or you get married.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It is better not to live together, there are many things

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If the fungus is ripe, it's okay to live together

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    My boyfriend asks for a cohabitation, how can I cleverly refuse?

    Hello dear! When the boyfriend proposes to live together, the girl should maintain a firm attitude to refuse the boyfriend's request for cohabitation, and she can use her girlfriend as a reason, so she can say to her boyfriend, I live with my girlfriend, I want to live with you, and the girlfriend will be too lonely, which will affect the friendship between the two. 1.

    Firm attitude. First of all, don't be fooled by your boyfriend's sweet words, follow your heart's thoughts. If you don't want to live together, or haven't developed to live together, you can just say no and say so:

    If you love me, you should also hope that I am a traditional girl with a good upbringing, if I can easily live with a boy, it means that I am too casual, of course you don't want the girl you love to be such a person, since you love me, please respect my decision, I want to keep my best and most precious things until we get married, please understand me. 2.I can't stand to leave my best friend alone.

    You can say that you have a good relationship with my best friend, and if you live with your boyfriend, your best friend will be too lonely and will affect the friendship between the two. 3.Don't be afraid to break up.

    As long as it is a rejection, it hurts feelings. Now you can only minimize the harm of rejection. If your boyfriend gets angry because he doesn't agree to cohabitation and even threatens to break up, which shows that he doesn't love you at all and just wants to possess you, then don't be afraid to break up.

    You can tell him: My mother calls me at night to send me WeChat, which is not convenient. Finally, if you are not living together, you should give your boyfriend maximum attention in action, such as buying some fruit and occasionally helping him clean and cook.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Summary. As an adult, there is no reason to have to refuse, not even work girlfriends, otherwise the other party will say: they are more important than me? This is the only one that the other party can't refute.

    My boyfriend asks for a cohabitation, how can I cleverly refuse?

    You can say this: I agreed with my friends to rent together for xx years, or, my mother often sent me **, and suddenly changed the ring and quietly blinded the realm, she will say, Jiaqiyou and empty people don't want me to live together, and then tremble or, my relatives are here, I don't know when they will come to my visit.

    Reason. You don't want to be nagged and interfered with by your family so early, so you just want to fall in love quietly and slowly.

    Not counting, convincing the boyfriend of the reason.

    You can't just say that you don't want to, so you have to have a reason to do it in order to convince the male search student, in addition to the family's cautious requirements, what else makes you "have to".

    As an adult, there is no reason to refuse, and the working girlfriend can't be relieved, otherwise the other party will say: He is more important than me? This is the only one that the other party can't refute.

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