What should I do in the face of his request?

You should be very serious about telling him what is in your heart. In fact, men are all eager and hot, their demands for sex are urgent, they are possessive, and they feel that once they have sex, you belong to him. When you get married, he will respect you and even appreciate your cleanliness and be proud of marrying you, even if he doesn't say it.

If you break down the defense, although he is satisfied, he will also have losses and doubts. Let's talk to him, I think you're doing the right thing and your boyfriend will understand if he really loves you.

If you're going to get married, that's nothing. It's not just that if you can't meet his requirements now, it will cause him to leave you, but even if you become sexually cold too early after marriage, it will still lead to divorce. There are a lot of examples of that.

Of course you can't give?

The harder things to get, the more they will cherish them?

Give it to him easily? 1 is that you are irresponsible to yourself, and 2 will make him feel that you are a very casual kind of girl.

So don't you want to keep it?

If you don't give, there is always someone who can give.

People nowadays are very open when it comes to sexuality. I think you have to make your wedding night, does it mean a lot to people now?

It's okay for you to promise him, but I don't want to ask you if you're so pure and my girlfriend.

As soon as you give it to him, you're done, happy breakup!

Give it to him if you like it, and don't give it to him if you don't love him.

Give it, if you don't give it, there will be a crisis.

In the face of other people's requests, you can consider the following ways:

1.Tactful refusal: If someone else asks for something unreasonable, or you don't want to do it, you can tactfully refuse. You can thank the other person for the request, then express your difficulties, and finally put forward your own position and opinion.

2.Explicit refusal: If someone makes a request that violates your principles or interests, then you can say no outright. You can express your thoughts directly, such as "I'm sorry, I can't meet this request", and then you can give a reasonable explanation.

3.Accept the request: If the request made by someone else is reasonable and you have the ability to meet it, then consider accepting. Before accepting, you can reconfirm the expectations and requirements of the other person to make sure that you can meet the needs of the other person.

Whichever option you choose, be polite and respectful. At the same time, we must also learn to protect our own interests and principles, and do not easily compromise or give up our rights and interests.

Saying no to things you don't like or don't want to agree to, explaining the reasons clearly, or politely saying that there are other things you can't do, are all polite ways to refuse others.

There are many friends around you who are distressed by this kind of thing, but in fact, you don't need to embarrass yourself, if this thing is really difficult to be afraid or you yourself are reluctant, the result may not be satisfactory, at this time not only will not be understood, some unreasonable people will even deduct the conclusion of failure on you, it can be said that the gains outweigh the losses. There are two in everything, and you can't not refuse every trillion times, and being brave enough to say no is not only to make yourself relaxed, but also to exercise how dare you be brave.