Everyone help me choose my boyfriend s future!! Urgent question!!

Updated on society 2024-05-22
13 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It depends on his situation, if he has the perseverance to repeat a year and get into a good university, it is recommended to repeat, but there will be a lot of psychological pressure to repeat, you can help him overcome it, two people work hard together, isn't it good? And there will be more options after college. If you're both serious about each other, then you can go to college together and make it all the way to the end.

    If he can't guarantee to study hard after repeating this year, then he should go to the army. I don't need to tell you why, if you can't get into a good university, it will be meaningless to spend a year repeating, isn't it?

    So it's not about what you want him to do, it's about what he can do. It is recommended that you ask him directly: "If I repeat my studies for another year, can you promise me to study hard?" "Look at his answers to determine your answers.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    An assertive man shouldn't ask you this kind of question, which is so much younger than him, are you too young to know anything about the future? It shows that your boyfriend is still relatively naïve, or that he has not experienced the capital of social storms.

    It is very difficult to be a soldier and want to make a difference, and now soldiers who have graduated from a bachelor's degree (generally a national defense student) have room for development. If he has the ambition to make a career as a small soldier in the military ranks, I believe he can be admitted to a good university after repeating his studies for a year.

    However, I personally think that joining the army is a good way for a boy to mature, but if he can't stay, it will be difficult to find a job in the future if he has to be discharged from the army in a few years.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Let's repeat it. Nothing is more important than the future. I also failed the college entrance examination at the beginning, thinking that the outside world was very exciting, so I came out to work. Later I found out I was wrong.

    It took nearly 4 years to self-study for the undergraduate program. But I'm 23. Old.

    Your homeroom teacher is fine. The teacher will not target you. He just wants you to study with peace of mind. As long as you and your boyfriend have better grades. Keep a low profile, and I'm sure he won't trouble you again.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Directly exclude being a soldier....The suffering of the troops....He won't be able to stand it, and he will definitely be more sad than breaking up with you...If you don't say anything else when you come back, you won't recognize him, the original humor and sweet porridge are gone! In him you can only find: stubbornness!

    Who said that there can be hundreds of thousands of soldiers? Still want to be an official? If you go and you can be an official, then I can play in the NBA!

    College is good, or do you work hard for another year?

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I have a few friends who are in the military, and my mother wanted my brother to be them, so I consulted them. It is said that it is better not to! It must be admitted that the soldiers of today are not the same as they were in the past.

    If you want to follow the path of a soldier, the best thing is to go to a police academy or military school, but that one is more demanding. I think if his mother can find a school, she should repeat it, and when she is older, she should know what to do if she has a sense of responsibility.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Soldier. During the soldier, external factors will greatly push your boyfriend, and being a soldier can shape your boyfriend into a man.

    Books are not so easy to read, and you need to be more self-disciplined, which is too flexible.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's up to your boyfriend to choose.

    Actually, being a soldier is not as good as you think.

    The soldiers of today are not like they used to be.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I'll be direct, if I want to be promising, if I'm a soldier, I want to ask him what his family's background is. Now if you are a soldier, if you have a good family background, you will have a good job, and if you have a bad background, you will not be able to come out well.

    If I repeat my studies, can I guarantee that I will be admitted to a good university?

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Who told you that you would have more than 100,000 yuan to get when you came back from being a soldier? That also depends on the level of military age.

    At your age, study hard!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I'm dizzy, how old are you, a few grades younger. Dizzy.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    As you see fit! Each has its own merits Draw lots

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Your destiny is in your own hands. Why do others know your fate? As the saying goes, the one who predicts the cause of the past life and the recipient of this life is, and the one who predicts the consequences of the future life and does it in this life is. Evil causes evil effects, good causes good effects, and self-cause and self-effect. This is the iron rule of the great universe.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Let A be x and B be y

    There are questions to know: |x| = 3|y|If x is positive, then x= - 3y, and x-y=8 so x=6, y=-2

    If x is negative, then - x = 3y, and y-x=8 so x = - 6, y=2

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