Help me analyze my psychology, please help me analyze what kind of psychology this kind of person is

From the order in which you list the problems, it can be seen that you are very conflicted and anxious, and you have no idea, but when the problem is unprecedented, anxiety is the biggest enemy of solving the problem, so please relax yourself first, and stop thinking and mentally torturing yourself for the time being, because being too nervous will not help. You first said that you are afraid of interviews and rejections, which means that you have already attended some interviews and been rejected, but are you afraid of interviews just because you are afraid of rejection? Are there any other reasons?

You say that no one understands and supports what you want to do, if you have considered everything you want to do, or have a relatively complete plan, you can try to persuade people who intend to obstruct or not support you, but if you can't convince it, it doesn't matter, after all, you have a plan, you can completely ignore other people's opinions or don't need support, rely on your own firmness and perseverance to complete your ideals, use actions and facts to tell others your persistence and perseverance, and take your career very seriously, If you give up what you want to do because of the resistance or lack of support from others, then we don't know if you will have the opportunity to do what you want to do in the future, or even your own determination. Furthermore, why do you blame yourself? Feeling guilty for not being able to follow someone else's wishes or arrangements?

Take control of your own life, and don't distort and generalize your sense ......of responsibility

Doing what you want is the goal that everyone pursues, and as long as it doesn't hurt others, you should support it. But if you're afraid of rejection, if you're afraid of being understood, and if you're asked to do what you want, you may not be able to do it. So go to the interview head-on, just take it as a workout for yourself, anyway, each other is strangers, it's not a big deal if you are rejected, and you won't be afraid to go a few more times.

Is the main reason for the fear of face-to-face is the fear of rejection? You should be a person with high self-expectations and requirements, but maybe the ability or other does not give you enough self-confidence, one is that you are only willing to do what you are interested in, and lack interest, confidence and motivation in unfamiliar things.

In fact, a person's growth and progress is always accompanied by difficulties and setbacks, if you can't take a step because of the fear of rejection, then maybe your ability and courage can not be improved, but in the future life will make you more lack of self-confidence, and unsatisfactory. Blows and tribulations are all treasures for us, and we must bravely welcome and accept him, and continue to sum up experiences and lessons to move forward.

For doing what you want to do, and being able to make yourself live well. This is a very beautiful state, but when we don't have the foundation and don't have enough ability, we must first do what we have to do, first of all, we should find a job, have a stable income, be able to support ourselves and give back to our parents. In the process, learn and strive for what you love.

There may be too many unsatisfactory in reality, learn to accept some and keep pursuing your dreams, believe that you can do well!

Low self-esteem, indecisiveness, poor tolerance, fragility, and strong dependence.

It is recommended that you communicate with everyone more, participate in more social activities, study and practice hard, and discover your potential strengths and abilities.

Give yourself a little confidence, you might as well take a look at some of Chen Anzhi's lectures, I hope it will help you a little!

Try to break through yourself, there are some things to do hard, no one will help you, just try more.

Too inferior and self-contained.

Prepare a small notebook, and every night before going to sleep, think about the 5 things you successfully did that day, at least 5 things, the more the better, no matter how small, you can! Don't underestimate this behavior, if you can stick to it, it will have a profound impact on you! Stick to it for at least 1 month, and then you look back at this little book, and then you'll know how to walk the road below!

Dreams are the inner manifestation of the subconscious. You have to learn to analyze for yourself the meaning behind everything.

It's a trivial matter, and it will be fine after a while.

In psychology, we say that the content of the dream is not important, what matters is the emotion you feel in the dream, whether you feel nervous or fearful, which reflects your recent state.

Improve your concentration and do your job well.

Don't be cranky, you need to be positive in life.

I can't tell what kind of person she is, so let's add a few more questions about her. But that's all I know.

One, if you ask her, where did she get those clothes (that were photographed) and earrings. She can tell you that she bought it from outside, and it's just a coincidence that it's exactly like yours. Besides, you have no evidence.

Second, she has to delete the visit record when she goes to your QQ, probably because she doesn't want others to know that she has been to your space. (Can you tell me, how did you know she was here?) ）

Three, you're good friends, aren't you? I think the reason she dared to do that was because you forgave her for everything, and she started to get too big.

Fourth, in the end, this girl is really strange, so I advise you not to tell her everything, because it is no good to tell her. Especially bad things about other people and stuff like that.

You're a girl, aren't you?

Since she didn't cause you much loss, don't worry about it, it doesn't matter what kind of person she is.

Why don't you be generous yourself Isn't it good to have multiple friends?

I hope you'll be able to be informal, and it's good for you.

She may have low self-esteem. I want to do everything like you. It can be seen from stealing your earrings and wearing your clothes.

There are two possibilities for "caring" about you.

One is to look up to you.

One is jealousy of you.

It can't be said that the scheming is not heavy, this person should be very thoughtful, thin-skinned, love face, care about what others think of her, and have some inferiority, some envy and jealousy of you.

Looks like she loves you. But this girl is too scheming.

She probably has a tendon missing from her head.

I didn't feel like I had any scheming because I couldn't see the motive.

I can't say that I know you too much about this, but judging by what you said, there are several situations:

There is a certain point in your body that suddenly makes him tired of you, or does something, which makes him feel less about you at all, and he can think that the friend he is looking for is not you, although they have been together for a total of 2 years, but this kind of problem is inevitable;

He has changed, he likes other people, or whatever, anyway, he has something to be sorry for you, and he feels guilty about you, the initial bosom friend and lover, so he simply doesn't even reply to text messages in the future, as if he didn't know you.

After the breakup, he has just been injured, and there is no big problem in life, he has nothing to do, and he generally won't look for you for anything important, so there will be nothing to say between you, at least he thinks so.

In short, since you really let go, then you'd better not have too much contact with him, too many text messages, messages, and of course, you can't accept it. Friends can still continue to do it, but it is impossible to be a close friend, and it is relatively open for ordinary friends to do it. On QQ, you can still chat and say hello when you occasionally meet on QQ, but the topic will be unconsciously limited to relatively large things that have happened recently or common topics that you are all concerned about, exams and the like.

If you want to put it, just be thorough, just ordinary friends. As long as you have other bosom friends, there will be nothing if there is one less, and time will slowly compensate you!

I feel that he treats you as a spare tire, break it with him, a man who refuses to be responsible for you is not worth your thoughts. He is just a chicken rib, it is a pity to abandon the tasteless food, when it is broken, find a responsible man and entrust it for life.

I think he just wanted to find someone to accompany him when he was lonely, and then he kicked aside when he didn't need it.