The girl I met on a blind date always borrowed money from me

Updated on society 2024-05-24
12 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    How long have you known each other?

    What is the reason for borrowing money from you every time?

    Why didn't her relatives borrow it?

    You try to politely reject her once and see how she reacts.

    If you are really used as an ATM, then you should be separated from her.

    I also met my current boyfriend on a blind date, and I've been dating for two years.

    I never offer to borrow money from him because I can afford my own expenses.

    If I had money, I don't think he was the person I liked.

    After reading your supplementary questions, I really fainted.

    Family members are the closest people, embarrassed to borrow money from the family, and actually embarrassed to borrow money from her boyfriend. I've completely convinced your girlfriend's thinking.

    I'm also a girl, I think she's too unreliable, you'd better talk to her, you yourself have just worked for a short time, you don't have much savings, and you also need to pay for your own family. Let's see how she reacts.

    In addition, if you have an unstable job, you will at least have an income, so I think it is completely feasible to save your expenses appropriately according to your income.

    I think you should think about such a girl separately, from the perspective of a completely onlooker, she prefers your money.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    If you like her, break it.

    If you love her, marry her.

    I'm sure the money you borrowed is meat buns and dogs.

    So you have to make the heaviest decision!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Be careful, it is estimated to be **! Don't end up with two empty talents, it's not worth it, now try to get it back. You don't borrow money from you so easily, you first understand what she is doing with the money.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    You can borrow anything, but you can't borrow money.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You're so stupid, she's obviously making money for you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If that's the case, find an opportunity to make it clear to her, say that you are not suitable or something, and divide it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I don't know who it is.

    Maybe he's really useful, no way.

    Maybe he's that kind of person.

    If that. Don't expect him to pay him back.

    Break it off as soon as possible.

    Hide far away.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Divide it, this kind of person still has to ......

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    The scheming is so heavy, can you raise such a money-loving girl?

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Not a good girl. You refuse a few times to see how the other person reacts.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The blind date person borrows money from himself and just ignores it. For people who have enough money, it may not matter, the money is given, as long as the relationship between the two is good, and they don't care about paying it back, but if he (she) asks for money again and again, he or she needs to be cautious. For friends who don't have a lot of money, a little carelessness can lead to a relationship crisis.

    Borrowing money hurts feelingsBetween lovers, it doesn't matter how much money you have. The most important thing is the trust and affection between people. If a trust is delayed, it is abandoned.

    That's the most disappointing part. But relatively, we should also consider the special circumstances of ill intentions, after all, it is not uncommon to cheat on marriages now, and the other party may also be deceived by others, so it is still necessary to understand clearly. No one's money is blown by the wind, and the money in the ATM still has a limit and a password.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Summary. Hello, dear <>

    When the blind date girl asks you to borrow money, she wants to borrow money from you with a fluke mentality, she knows that it is not very likely to borrow money from you, but she also wants to try to be lucky to see if you will lend her money.

    What is the psychology of a blind date girl asking me to borrow money?

    Hello, dear <>

    When the blind date girl asks you to borrow money, she wants to borrow money from you with a fluke mentality, she knows that the possibility of borrowing money from you is not great, but she also wants to get lucky, try to regret it, and try to try to be lucky.

    Hello, dear, when the girl on a blind date wants to borrow money from you, she will try it with a fluke mentality, and you will not lend her money back. She may have really encountered a lot of difficulties, so I want to ask you to help her, but it is also possible that the key is to deceive you, in the name of making friends on a blind date to cheat money. Therefore, the authenticity of her borrowing money requires you to keep your eyes open to look at and distinguish specifically.

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I'm glad to answer this question for you See your description of this question My personal opinion and advice to you is this: First of all, you describe whether you need to confess when you meet on a blind date, and then see your description below, You have known each other for more than a month, and you have met six times, but you feel that now, two people can't break through that layer of relationship, and they have been getting along with each other like ordinary friends, and you want to break through this layer of relationship, and you are thinking about whether you can only break through after confessing, or continue to get along with ordinary friends in this way Your description of this problem Well, first of all, confession must be a very good thing, and it is a very formal ceremony, right? Yes, you know each other on a blind date, and it proves that the two of you don't hate each other, at least, because there is still a certain difference between blind date and falling in love, and falling in love may go from a colleague, from a neighbor or from a classmate, to a good friend, from a good friend to a boyfriend and girlfriend, and it takes a process to determine the relationship, and the blind date is generally going to get married So since two people can talk for more than a month, and you have seen each other six times a month, it proves that you have a good impression of each other, and if you want to break through this relationship, it must be that you are in a hurry, so my personal advice to you here is not too abrupt, too abrupt to confess, and suddenly say, hey, do you want us to be together, then the two of you are now together Because you are in contact with each other after a blind date, you are both rushing to get married, and the two of you are going to meet now with that feeling, but what There's no real development, not even holding hands, not hugging, these are the things, I think you shouldn't rush to confess now, and don't get along with this ordinary friend, but make an appointment, don't think about it so much, just talk to him casually, don't take him too seriously, the more you take it, the more nervous you are, the more you don't know how to talk about it, talk about life, talk about something, get in touch more, let you both get to know each other, and then you can tactfully say to him, hey, you see we've been in contact for a while, what do you think of me, you go and ask him like this And then if he asks you in turn, you just say to him, hey, I think you're pretty good, and then I think you're quite suitable for me, and our values should be very compatible, and I still like you, and I like you like this, and I say it, and I think you're not bad, so you say, for example, I think you're good, then you say, well, should we confirm the relationship now, and then give me the opportunity to let me protect you, let's two of us together, one style, say this, so to confess, Ji has confession, and also expresses his feelings, this way is still relatively easy to accept So I personally think it's better for you to do this, and the above is my personal answer and advice to you, I hope this answer can solve the confusion in your mind, solve the doubt in your heart, and finally wish you life