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Anonymous users2024-02-06Boyfriends and girlfriends who met through blind dates, they had no feelings at first, and they went on a blind date just to meet their parents' wishes, so after the blind date, if she is not satisfied with you, she will never take the initiative to contact you, some netizens will say that she usually does not take the initiative, but every time she asks her to eat, she will take the initiative to come out, why is this?
I think it's possible that it's because she still has a slight affection for you, and she wants to give you a chance to get to know you better.
1. If you don't usually take the initiative to eat, it may be that this girl is too introverted
Girls, we all know that most girls are shy and introverted, she is not as lively and jumpy as boys, especially through the boyfriend and girlfriend who met on a blind date, at the beginning, no girl will take the initiative to ask a boy to eat, or come out for coffee, so when you take the initiative to ask her out for dinner, maybe she is very happy in her heart.
IIThis girl might want to know more about you
If a girl doesn't take the initiative to contact you, it doesn't mean that she doesn't want to contact you, it may be because she is introverted, she doesn't dare to take the initiative, so when you take the initiative to contact her to come out for dinner, she will agree, because she has a good impression of you, but she is not good at speaking, she doesn't know how to express, she will take advantage of you to invite her to dinner to further understand your personality, the more critical the time, the more you have to behave, maybe she is your future wife.
3. She has a good impression of you, but she is usually reserved as a girl, so she doesn't dare to take the initiative to contact you
The two know each other on a blind date, it is natural for a boy to take the initiative, and a girl has the reserve of a girl, and the same is true, when I was on a blind date with my husband, he always took the initiative to ask me, and although I wanted to date him, I held back every time, so you don't have to be too entangled, you just take the initiative to ask her, as long as she is willing to come out with you, then the two of you have a good chance to be together and become lifelong partners.
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Anonymous users2024-02-051. Chasing girls is the first place.
If you want to catch up with girls, then sincerity is the first place. If you really like this girl, then you definitely know how to chase her. Because, if you like someone, you want to know her preferences, want to be close to her, and care about her.
And a girl is often cared for, she will naturally be close to and trust this person. Therefore, in fact, there is no need to deliberately engage in some so-called routines of chasing girls to chase them, which will be counterproductive.
Because of the so-called strategies for chasing girls on the Internet, some of them were written by the girls themselves, and the remaining girls generally read them. After all, it's not just boys who can surf the Internet, this kind of "widely circulated" strategy of chasing girls, girls themselves will be curious, and they will also take a look. Moreover, some of the so-called strategies for chasing girls are actually quite embarrassing, if you really follow the above routines to chase girls, or learn their "local love words", maybe the girls you like will be scared away by you directly.
Second, chasing girls must care about her.
Chasing a girl should know how to care about her, for example, on the most special days of the girl's month. Although it is said that when a girl comes to her aunt, drinking hot water is indeed one of the effective ways to relieve menstrual cramps, but it is much better for you to pour her a cup of hot water that is just enough to enter the temperature than to throw down the sentence "drink more hot water" coldly. Moreover, since you choose to chase a girl, you must improve your emotional intelligence, in daily life, do not quarrel with her, and always care for and love her.
A girl's heart is softer, and if you often care for and love her without pretense, she can feel it.
I've been in this situation for a while, and it ended in failure. It's the same as you. Since it is a blind date, it will be successful if it is in the phase, and it will not be successful if it is not in the match. When she says this, she means that she doesn't have a match. Saying that he was a friend was just a polite refusal. >>>More
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That girl has figured it out and is willing to date you, and generally girls are more reserved, so it's good if you step up your pursuit.
Some people don't have anything to say face-to-face or on the Internet, but there are a lot of words, some people are the opposite, often talk a lot when they meet, she may belong to the second situation, and you just met for a short time, she is not so open to say anything, and you are the object of her possible development, and you will not be unscrupulous when you speak, as for yourself, chasing girls, especially through **SMS, you have to be innovative, women like humorous boys, don't ask the same question three times a day, For example, have you eaten, what are you doing now, you have to take care of yourself, etc., these words can be talked about appropriately, you need to find some common topics to talk about, this has to ask her interests and hobbies, sometimes you have to learn to find something to say, of course, your topic should be interesting, if conditions permit, try to meet as much as possible, it will promote the relationship to heat up quickly.