Am I willful? Is it excessive?

Wayward people don't feel like they're willful, because they do it for their own reasons, but I can tell you that it's willful, and I used to be like you, and I always lost my temper over little things and told myself that it was because I liked him and cared about him, but it turned out that it wasn't.

If you like someone, you have to think about this person, look at the problem from the person's point of view, be considerate of him, and it definitely has nothing to do with before and after marriage, but two people together should or do it this way, it will be more harmonious.

Cherish the people in front of you and sincerely wish you happiness.

I think you should mention your boyfriend...What you want is a husband, not a servant...It's not good to listen to everything and not be assertive!

Every couple should understand each other, and my wife says that she loves me, so sometimes she is reluctant to ask me to do anything...Do what you can...A proper coquettish would be fine....It's too good to look at my husband....

It's normal to have a little temper, but in front of outsiders, you must give your husband face! You still love him very much, don't you! That's enough. But willfulness must master that "degree"...

Two people together, it is originally two personalities, two habits of life people grinding together, loving him and willfulness are different feelings, you love him, but I think you are also very willful!

You don't need to deliberately change anything, you need to know that people need to be respected, especially with your lover, as long as you remember to respect him, the relationship will gradually get better!

The two of us are the same type, not capricious, little women, normal.

Although the vast majority of netizens are praising the teacher's approach, many netizens are worried: not being reported is a successful burden reduction, and being reported is a notice of criticism.

These fears are well founded. Some netizens shared their experiences of leaving class early and taking students to play, but in the end, they were interviewed by the principal, circulated criticism, and removed from the position of class teacher.

Moreover, when students go out to play on a snowy day, the teacher bears the risk of the student falling and injuring himself. If the student catches a cold and fever, the teacher may be accused of "freezing the flowers of the motherland".

For all these reasons, teachers are confined to the strict rules and regulations of the school, and the space for free arrangement is getting smaller and smaller. Flying snow, sunset, and summer insects are almost "insulated" from the students.

However, what you see with your own eyes is far more vivid than the words and sentences in the books, and a play in the snow not only allows the children who are under the pressure of learning to breathe, but also teaches them things that they cannot feel in the books, and will also become the motivation for students to continue learning.

The appearance of similar news that teachers suspend morning self-study to let students watch the morning glow, and teachers suspend evening self-study to let students watch the red moon, shows that some teachers are breaking the rigid and dogmatic rules.

Zhou Heng, a teacher from the School of Liberal Arts of Jiangsu University, said: "I will give you two opportunities to skip class, and there will definitely be something more important than class, such as the leaves outside the building or the moon in the evening." ”

Education should not be confined to books. Respecting and understanding students is the only way to educate with warmth and feelings. At some special moments, schools may wish to open a window of freedom for students in the heavy study.

The so-called willfulness should be the unique nature of a stubborn person, who is often overconfident, difficult to listen to other people's opinions, stubborn, and stubborn.

Smart people are flexible and don't directly scold other people's opinions, but are willing to listen to other people's opinions and opinions. And those who are wayward give people the impression that they are very personal, as they often say, the brain can't turn. In fact, this kind of willful person is more out of a mentality of disobedience to others, always thinking that he knows more and must be self-centered in everything.

Wayward people should always remind themselves, be sure to pay attention to the occasion, be sure to feel the feelings of others, and often empathize with them, which is of great help to themselves.

Wayward people tend to be opinionated. This kind of person pays attention to face and is good and strong-hearted. Even if you know that you are wrong, you still can't listen to the opinions of others. So such people are prone to make mistakes. Putting yourself or others at risk at all times.

Personal opinion: Is it wrong to be willful? That's right. But to divide whom, to divide the degree, it is best to stop at a little more.

The root cause is the education of the parents.

There is nothing wrong with willfulness, but it should be moderate, everyone has their own characteristics, that is, personality, even willfulness is okay, after all, it is always so boring, but to grasp that degree, don't always ask others to do something, you know, they care about you and are willing to do things for you, sometimes when doing a thing or saying a word, think about it, if someone else says something to me, how do I feel, so that you will not let others feel that you are always very willful, againThere is nothing wrong with being willful, but it should be in moderation.

Why do people become willful? Not enough listening is a big reason. When wayward people communicate with others, they hear not the other person, but themselves.

Without careful and effective listening, you will form a blind spot that you will never be able to see and break through, and at this time, willfulness will become a weakness in human nature.

Unreasonable only requirements, unreasonable conditions for the head to make a noise, the celery sedan chair has caused great difficulties to others, even if it is willful. People are sometimes willful for their own interests.

Perhaps, I didn't know how to be willful before.

But willfulness and stubbornness are inextricably linked, and after a long time, you can't listen to what others say, and you can't see the essence of things.

Willful, maybe only Mano wants to be remembered by others.

: When I was a child, "willful" didn't seem to be a compliment. At that time, if we said that a child was willful, we were by no means praising him.

But today, it seems that willfulness has become a realm that many people yearn for. Capriciousness means self-indulgence and self-restraint. If you let your "ego" run wild all the way on the wayward road.

Then you will end up with an uncontrollable self – which is the cause of a lot of depression. We need discipline so badly to discipline ourselves, even if it's just to avoid suffering from depression. Waywardness can only bring harm to oneself and others.

In fact, even if you have a lot of money or a lot of power, you can't be willful all the time. If we develop the habit of being willful, then when we can't be willful, it can be much more painful than those who can't. Many wayward children who have been pampered by their parents to grow up will become angry and hurt others when they find out that the world is not ready to indulge their willfulness.

Hello! First of all, make sure that the sadness of losing him is greater or less than the troubles of facing his waywardness. Waywardness is not a big problem, the earliest willfulness is cute, and that is only the earliest time or twice can be tolerated, and women's tolerance is very valuable.

Three or four times can be ignored, such as shifting or turning a blind eye, but if there are more, you won't be tired, you know, the person you love the most should be yourself, his willfulness, you have no obligation to forgive, if he loves you, he will not bother you, you should know that there is a change, if he makes you have been very troubled and unwilling to change, I think he is not so worthy of your love again, it is also you, if you want to change, he might as well try another way, such as making him love you more in the face of tedious nagging, care, Even a woman made of water will be bored, let alone love a fresh man, your heart loves him, you can't keep his chips all the time, keep your attraction attracts not only him, but also better men. You are most worthy of love.

Hope it helps!

The performance of immaturity, a mature woman is a girl with a little emotional intelligence, as long as there is a little emotional intelligence, people will not be self-centered, and those who are often self-centered will not consider the feelings of others, the heart is lonely, willful or casual talk often hurts herself.

Of course, you have to treat it with a normal mentality.

Waywardness is a manifestation of character, and then everyone has their own temper? Then, it is necessary to recognize the wayward method according to the character of others, and it depends on how to express people and things.

It can be seen that you care more than he does.