Revenge Did I do something wrong Should I take revenge on the person who bullied me?

That's right, revenge should be taken, especially if you have the ability to do so, and the bad guys should be deserved.

The past is gone, do you want to live with hatred for the rest of your life? Do you want your children to live with hatred in the future? Besides, your father is also responsible, do you want to take revenge?

Although they deserve it, will you be comfortable seducing others? When is the time for retribution, we can't let their descendants hold grudges, and take revenge on you in the future, it is enough to be punished in the morning, and the last sentence, I wish you happiness, forget hatred, and live well.

In fact, there is no right or wrong, just from which angle to look at it differently, the most important thing is whether you will be happy after your revenge now, happy, poor child, may you be happy from now on.

You're not wrong. Let them know that there is a price to be paid for doing bad things.

That person is too bad to deserve it! You should let him know how wrong he was in the first place.

You're wrong. Completely wrong.

They were at fault in the first place.

You know that they are not good and make mistakes, and it is wrong to deliberately seduce that person.

Think for yourself.

You can go to the police, why don't you call the police? But it's your fault that you choose to take revenge on them in this way!

When your heart is open, you will be happy, and you will be happy! Your mother wants you to be happy and happy.

You can't make a movie anymore, hehe

Human nature is inherently evil. The current society!That's it.

Please reflect: sacrifice yourself for revenge!!

Is it worth it?

I don't think it's necessary, to say the most vulgar thing, do you want to bite back when a dog bites you? And maybe you can't only bite a bite if your rank is not high, and not only will you not retaliate against anyone, but you will also lose face.

Let's think about it along this line of thought first, you want to take revenge on the person who bullied you, have you thought about how to retaliate? And what do you think is revenge, but also bullying each other in the past? So as I said at the beginning, it's very likely that you can't bully others but make yourself funny, because people who take the initiative to bully people must have a little bit of a liking to bully, and I've seen everything like this, and I feel that if it's me, I'm probably not an opponent.

And ask yourself, do you hate people like that? If you hate bullies, don't make yourself that.

I think the best way to face this situation is to despise him, ignore him, and make him like a clown, isn't it the best? I was like this before, I feel this feeling is very cool, I was stupid at the beginning and I cut a messy short hair when I was in junior high school, it was really ugly, and then there were some people who liked to bully me, everyone seemed to like this more like good-looking and good grades, of course, the bullying of me was not too much, that is, the language said that I had ugly hair, very old clothes, very poor and sour, otherwise I always deliberately ignored me and didn't tell me to hand in my homework. I didn't pay attention to them, so I studied by myself, maybe it's time to open my mind, and then my grades were all at once, and my hair grew back to normal after it grew, even if they didn't feel like bullying me before, I felt very good myself, didn't I?

So don't think about revenge or anything, make yourself stronger, you don't have to do anything to get the biggest revenge on them.

I think if it's just the other party bullying you verbally, then we can completely stand back, but we must think about it, distinguish the importance of the matter, and don't be blindly impulsive. If someone cheats on you emotionally, in fact, deception is also a kind of bullying. Then I don't think there's a need to retaliate.

Because I am a person who believes in karma, for example, if we hurt one person, and one day we may let another person hurt you in another way, then we might as well wait and see. He hurt me, and that's okay, I'm sure there will always be someone who will give him a taste of being hurt, even if it's not me.

We just need to be ourselves, don't hold grudges against anyone, and let ourselves be good. There will always be another person who will appear to heal your wounds and pull out the hurt we once had. We are all already adults and can take responsibility for our actions.

More is better than less, no matter how the world changes, we must not forget our original intention. I think as long as we do our best, there is only one us in the world, we are unique. Because my character is like this, I don't want to quarrel and don't want to fight, I always want to turn big things into small things, and be the best version of myself, so I'm very happy that someone bullies me, and I can't stay away from her, if we have to take revenge, then we won't become people like them.

The saddest thing is that the people we care about the most bully and hurt us, and the pain in our hearts cannot be spoken. I can only endure it myself, but these are nothing to me, thank the group of people who accompany me, and I don't need to blame the people who leave, just be more tolerant and cherish the people around me. The past is also a part of our lives, but after all, it is in the past, and it is a landscape of our past.

Don't forget the original intention, you have to always.

I think it depends on what kind of retaliation it takes, and then we can adopt the corresponding attitude, whether we support it or not. If you are bullied, you will naturally be unwilling, and you will have the urge to kill the other party.

First, if your revenge is to roll up your sleeves and pick up an axe and hit someone roughly, I don't think you deserve this kind of revenge. This method can certainly hurt the person who bullied him and let him get the retribution he deserves. You may hurt him a thousand times more than he gives you, and you may even endanger the lives of others.

But this kind of revenge will also hurt you, even if he bullied you first, but you hit a heavy hand and caused an irreparable situation, which is absolutely impossible, and it is also something you cannot take in revenge. This will only make the situation worse and hurt both of you. So this kind of revenge is something you shouldn't deserve.

Second, you work hard to make others admire your five bodies, and they appreciate your abilities and qualities more, and have to bow their heads to you. Others bully you because you are weak and not strong, and you can be bullied by others casually, which means that you are incapable. So the best way to get revenge is to become better yourself, live better, and make others look at you with admiration.

This kind of revenge will make your heart stronger and stronger, and make yourself better and better, because death has to prove it to others. So it will make you work harder and improve more and more. Until the day when others praise you, or you feel that you have succeeded, this is a complete revenge on the other person, neither hurting the other person nor yourself.

You also make yourself better and better, and others envy you in their hearts. Such revenge you can have.

Which of these two types of retaliation is more severe? In fact, everyone can only be a winner in life if they do themselves perfectly, and they don't have to take revenge on whoever they are, they are the most important! Impulse is the devil!

I think it should.

There is an ancient Chinese saying called "repay grievances with virtue", which is intended to advocate that people should not be ambitious when they encounter people or things that hurt themselves, and use their generosity to influence those who have hurt themselves, but have you ever thought about "repaying grievances with virtue, how to repay virtue"?

Maybe you think that once or twice is nothing, as long as I show enough generosity and tolerance, the other party will repent of their actions and will understand their mistakes, but I want to say that people who hold this kind of thinking, you imagine human nature too beautifully. At this point, I agree with Mozi's theory that the nature of human nature is evil, and everyone's human nature is bad in the depths, and your own detachment and generosity will not become a condition for others to reflect, but will make others think that you are easy to bully, and then bully you even more.

Just like the serious school violence now, many victims are just pushed and shoved at first, but if they see that this person is cowardly, they will bully him even more, humiliate him, and finally do something that cannot be saved.

In my opinion, repaying grievances with virtue is certainly the noblest thing in the world, but it is based on the premise that people in the world are noble in character, and know how to reflect on their own behavior, rather than making every inch. But it is clear that the vast majority of our citizens have not yet done this, so what we need to do is not to forgive them, but to teach them to reflect by various means.

Show weakness, stop, dissolve. When is the time for retribution?

It is easy to settle grievances and it is not easy to solve them, and when is the time for retribution.

It seems that when I was 5 years old, I took revenge on my aunt, and when I was a child, my mother was known in the circle of relatives for being a good talker, and she was stupid and had more money, so she was always bullied. Then my aunt's son got married, and finally the thank-you feast, my family had dinner at this source, my mother and my aunt were both at my aunt's house to help, and when eating, there was one less stool, and then everyone else was sitting there to eat, but my aunt was polite and sat there by herself, my mother was embarrassed, and she couldn't stand to eat, and after a busy day, she went home hungry and cold in winter, but my lazy aunt ate and took it there. (In fact, I knew what to do at that time, I was very young, either my mother sat and ate, or she accompanied my mother to eat together, and hung the brother and daughter-in-law who came to help there, isn't this a bully to burn the honest people) and then my mother went home and cried aggrievedly, my dad was angry enough, but my aunt was his sister, and he couldn't say it too harshly, but he just said a few words, which seemed completely incomprehensible to my mother's heart at the time, and I was secretly determined to give my dear mother this bad breath.

The Chinese New Year was over in a few days, and my dad asked me to see my aunt, but I didn't go or die, and I didn't say why. A few days later, my aunt came to my house to play, I didn't say hello, my aunt said, big nephew, why don't you come to my house to say hello during the New Year, I looked up and replied directly, she cried angrily, I said calmly, aunt, I don't dare to go, I'm afraid of starvation, my mother took things with a big bag, and I didn't earn a meal for a hard day, I'm a burden, I can't be starved to death by you! My mother kicked me at that time, and then said that the child didn't open the door, sister, don't be angry, and then my aunt cried and said, don't blame the child for picking on it, I didn't think it through, and my mother kicked me again.

I thought I was doing something wrong, but after my aunt left, my mother looked at me and smirked and said that my eldest son was going to fight for his mother, and he had to make you braised fish tonight. Who said that my mother is stupid and has a lot of money, does it turn out that she is also an acting school?

Our high school is a provincial key, students are from the surrounding counties, few local, so there are a lot of taxis and electric tricycles at the school gate on weekends, tricycle owners are mostly old men and old ladies, eyes flower traffic awareness is poor, so the teacher has repeatedly warned us to try to take as little tricycle as possible, you can a few people to share the taxi Bu Huaiyou. One time I went home on the weekend, and I happened to be one of the few people who lived in the local area, and my home was still near the station. It was a bit late for dinner, and I didn't want to wait for a taxi, so I beckoned a tricycle.

Before getting in the car, I said five yuan, so I got in the car and started playing with my phone, and I arrived in a while. I politely handed the old man a 20 yuan card and said thank you. Then the old man took it and looked at me, and looked at me.

Just keep looking at me. I was stunned and said, are you looking for money? Isn't that a waste of time?

The old man had a smug smile on his face, and the young man hurried to run, and soon there were no trains at the station 233333 I see, this old man thinks I'm in a hurry to play hooligan with me, and I can't beat him up with so many people at the station. I quickly pulled out his tricycle keys (a whole string, presumably and a lot of door keys in his house), threw them into the garbage heap across the six-lane road with all my might, turned my head with a bright smile, and walked away.

My mother said that when she was pregnant with me, one day she was walking on the street with my father, and she saw a sweet potato seller, and suddenly she wanted to eat sweet potatoes, and my father didn't even buy her a locust number! My mom was furious! Later, when I was born, I wanted to eat sweet potatoes three times a day!

People give the nickname "Brother Gua". Once when my dad came home and saw me eating a table of sweet potato peels, my mom said to my dad with a smile: "This is what happened when you didn't buy me sweet potatoes!" ”

Just now, I went to the supermarket to buy yogurt, there were a lot of people in the supermarket on weekends, there was a long queue at the checkout, and it was finally almost me for a long time, and an aunt was straight to Sun You squeezed in front of me, and I shouted that she pretended not to hear. I tugged her again, and she looked at me and didn't move. When I finally got in line, I yelled at the cashier's sister, and I said don't give her a knot to search for accounts, she cut in line.

The young lady is very powerful, she just looked at her and didn't move, and then she walked away and gave the young lady a refill.