Is this too much for my boyfriend I feel sad

Updated on psychology 2024-05-25
9 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    He must be wrong, there is no doubt about it.

    Feel that you just feel aggrieved and don't have the idea of starting anew. It's a sign of a big heart. After suffering such grievances, even a man can't bear it.

    Not to mention that this has happened more than once. Although you don't have a master's degree, you have the heart to tolerate a man who complains a lot. This is self-cultivation.

    Self-cultivation is not something that can be exchanged for a degree.

    The problem is with your boyfriend. A person who loves to complain often lacks a sense of responsibility. Do you really feel safe with him? Maybe my evaluation of your boyfriend is not very accurate, after all, I don't know him. Probably he used other merits and charms.

    If you want to find a solution, I can only give this advice - think carefully about his good and bad, and go down your own path. Whether in love or marriage, it should be happy. This is the pursuit of all of us.

    Say goodbye to inferiority, the perfect woman lies in being kind, gentle, and considerate. That's all.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    He doesn't deserve your kind of dedication at all, women are not born to live for men, you can live by yourself, choose what you like to do, if your husband really loves you, he will respect your choice, and try to make you happy, instead of saying those cool words to you, couples are originally equal, they should support each other, if he is so dissatisfied with you, you can ask him why not to marry those women he thinks are good, you can give up your job for him, What she did for you is to dislike you, don't want such a man!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Sometimes I just want you to grow up, learn to dress up, so that he can have face in front of others, so just make a little comparison, although the words feel very heavy, but I think his heart should be good, there should be no malice, if you love each other, you should learn to understand each other, you can talk to him, talk well, tell him what is in your heart, and avoid misunderstandings between two people.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    You can tell him about it!

    Say you care about him and love him! Ask him how he treats you !!

    If he says he loves you, please let him care about you, and don't sing a one-man show by himself!

    If you don't love it, give it up! Why bother pursuing a relationship that doesn't belong to you!

    Better a finger off than always aching!

    In fact, if he really loves you, he won't care about these things, and will tolerate everything about you! personal insights).

    In short, don't passively accept it.

    When the mirror is broken, it is broken.

    Even if you put it together, there are still cracks.

    A better tomorrow awaits him.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You should also learn to dress yourself, don't find the reason from the objective when the problem arises, but also find the reason from the subjective first, the subjective is no problem, and then consider the objective factors.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Break up with him. Saying to you like this, he has already seen how to start talking, he has already loved her, and he has given up his choice.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I'm going to be sadder than him when I see my boyfriend upset, it's love.

    In fact, this is because men and women have different ways of relieving stress, and women like to release stress by sharing; Men on the other hand prefer to be silent and digest stress alone. Therefore, girls should take the initiative to comfort each other.

    How can you comfort your boyfriend when he's unhappy?

    If the problem that a man encounters is really serious, so serious that he can't alleviate it on his own for a long time, we can't continue to let him bear it on his own.

    Asking for your help would be ideal if men are willing to tell you about their troubles, but more often than not, they won't confess even if they want your help.

    After all, men always can't let go in front of women.

    At this time, don't ask him directly, if he needs help, if he does, will he tell you "yes, I can't help it", or "yes, I need your help"?

    It's more likely that after you ask, even if he is already planning to ask you for help, he will not bow his head, and will not be willing to let you know.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I think he must have changed his mind Oh A woman has to do the kind of thing that wakes her up every day, and I think their relationship must be different. Now you have to communicate well, don't get too excited, talk to him well, and finally have evidence.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You've been played with for nothing.

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