What will happen if you meet your first love again after 4 years?

After all, they have been in love before, although they have been broken up for many years, and when they meet again, they will always appear with some overwhelmed feelings.

You will also look at him secretly, which shows that you still care a little about the other person, and you don't know what kind of feeling you had at that time.

It's been 4 years, and we're walking different paths, living different lives, and getting along with different people.

I feel very uncomfortable, of course, I still care about him.

If you want to be friends or not, if you really want to be friends with him, you have to take the first step bravely.

As long as you speak, many things can change, and you have to control the way and content of your speech. If this friend is still worth making, try hard.

If he always rejects you thousands of miles away, maybe there is some consideration! If you don't succeed, don't force yourself too much, it's always yourself who is tired and sad, how bad!

Why can't I be friends, my ex-girlfriend and I didn't dare to look at each other for a while, but it will be fine after a long time. Why don't you ask her out! Talk, reminisce! It's better than being a stranger for the rest of your life!

First love is beautiful, I also met my first love again many years after the breakup, that good feeling is still there, just be clear that she is not you now, face it calmly, don't be stingy with your smile, you can also chat with her, have a meal, everyone is still friends. Keep the beauty of your first love together. If both parties still have feelings, through this method, you can also enhance the relationship!

Because the person I have loved for several years has not gotten the result I wanted, can I not feel uncomfortable? It's better to have a crush all the time...

Say hello generously, ask about the recent situation, like an ordinary friend, it's very simple.

Will it be a meeting and a smile of compassion, hehe.

Face it calmly! It's nothing.

Years later, I will always think of him in my mind, when my life encounters setbacks, I will envy the happiness I was together at the beginning, and when I have great ambitions, I will want to share my joy with him. If she abandons me, I won't be moved. If it was for some other reason (not because of the two of us) that we couldn't get together, I would have been very excited, probably more than when I first fell in love.

If I had abandoned her, I would have felt guilty when I said goodbye.

Memories are always inexplicably beautiful, meeting is fate, things are people, and I don't even know where to start, between my eyebrows, my young heart is gone. It doesn't feel like it was back then, and the heartbeat is no longer the heartbeat it was then. It's better to miss each other than to see each other, and goodbye is always sad.

At that time, we were in the ignorance of adolescence, and the love at that time was just a gentle collision of spirits.

At most, I feel that I can talk about it more, and I like the one in my heart who envisions him. And the most important thing is that I now have my beloved partner, how can I still be like that? Feng Gong once said that "first love doesn't understand love", and how can the ignorant love at the beginning be expected to remain unchanged for a lifetime?

Everyone's situation is different, and my word, no. Because thoughts will change, some are just emotional, and they will bring back some memories of the beginning, after all, that is the road they have walked.

The two people who haven't seen each other for a long time have changed a lot on the outside and inside, he is still him, but he is no longer him. Different experiences lead to different ways of dealing with the world. The person you have in mind is just the person in your heart, and it has nothing to do with the person in front of you.

It's better to honestly cherish the people around you. Affection is not as good as long-term companionship, someone shush you for warmth, someone cooks for you when you are hungry, and someone brings you water when you are thirsty, this is the real happiness. It will not be toppled by the raging wind, nor will it be worn out by the rain, she will wait there, and the moment the former lovers look at each other again, this rock-solid memory will permeate and touch each other's hearts.

I don't think I'll feel like I'm going to feel like I'm going to be a stranger at all.

No, but my thoughts will go back to the beauty of my first love.

No, it's my young self who likes him, it's not me now, I've grown up completely different, and my thoughts have changed.

If this person is simply making you feel like your first love, but doesn't have the urge to be together, then go with the flow.

But! If this person once again makes you feel the urge to fall in love, then I think it's better to be brave, after all, it's not easy to meet

First love is a relationship that most people will remember in their lives, because in this relationship, both people have their sincerity and are free from material interference. But perhaps because of this, first love is often fragile. If two people don't agree with each other, they may miss each other.

According to relevant statistics, the probability of the first love eventually going to the marriage hall is very low.

However, I always felt thatThe kind of heartbeat in the face of first love is actually rare。For myself, except for one such heartbeat, I have never met the person who made me feel this way. So if I can meet someone like my first love again after many years, I can't wait to take the initiative.

Then get rid of those willful bad habits back then and have a good relationship.

But these are just some of my thoughts, and it's possible that first love doesn't feel that way for everyone. If your first love didn't bring you such an unforgettable feeling, and you have been hurt enough in this relationship, then I think it's better not to meet such a person again. It would not be good to meet again and then repeat the same mistakes.

In addition, I really think that if two people like each other, they must be very brave. Because the older you get, the more you understandIt's really not easy to meet someone who makes your heart flutter。The relationship in the future may be far more than just heartbeat.

I hope that so people who give their hearts can meet the person who makes them happy.

Then you also have to choose to leave, if the first love is suitable for you, the two of you will not break up, so even if you meet someone who is very similar to him, it is the same, you still have to choose to leave him.

At this time, you should be sober, even if the person you meet after many years is like your first love, it is impossible for him to bring you the same feeling as your first love.

If it were me, I would meet the same person as my first love, and then if neither she nor I had a partner, I would definitely pursue her like crazy.

If you are not married, you can boldly pursue it, because the first love is beautiful, but there will always be various reasons that lead to not being together, and you can be together if you meet the same person again.

Now that you've come across it, don't miss it. To make good use of this opportunity, if you like him, you should be brave enough to confess. Stay with him well.

If you don't have a girlfriend or family at the time, you can choose to pursue it. But be mindful of your emotions.

Just look at it from afar, you are no longer the same person you used to be, you already have a complete family, and you have to take responsibility for this family.

If you are single at the time, you can consider pursuing it, and if you already have a boyfriend and girlfriend, you will be responsible for each other.

Seeing my first love again, especially after many years, not everyone in my memory is getting better.

In the passing years, some people not only do not become better adults, become more responsible and responsible, but only become more and more mediocre, not only full of vicissitudes of life, life is very unsatisfactory, but also always full of anger, and people have become sleek and calculating.

When the first love we miss in our hearts is no longer what we remember, but a very bad look, worn away by the years, and it has become a look that we don't like very much, the moment we see each other, all the longing will really be disillusioned.

For the other party's appearance, it will be a little unacceptable, and even begin to question what they once liked.

I don't believe that the other party has become what it is now, and I began to understand why I liked each other in the first place, I don't know if it was because I looked away at the time, so it was like this, or if the other party was really good at the beginning, but it changed later.

At the moment of goodbye, no matter how much you miss, it will only turn into nothingness, and no matter how much you say, you will only want nothing more.

From now on, there will never be a corner of each other in my heart, and I will never miss the beauty of the past again, because everything is no longer beautiful.

We really feel that it is better to miss each other than to see each other, and it is better to hope that we have not seen each other again than to collapse everything.

This breakup, one is a person who is forced to break up and still retains the other party's position in his heart, such a meeting will be a pity and blessing, and there is a feeling of blindness, and he will question his vision at the time.

If you really let go of your heart, there won't be much turbulence, and if you still have illusions about him, then you will be a deer!

It is more embarrassing and surprising to see your first love after many years. Because the first love was still young and didn't understand feelings.

You still can't let go of his words, your heart stinging fiercely. Let go of his words to see how he lives now, fortunately or not.

I don't feel it, he has already said that he should apologize to me, so he can let go of the indignation of those years in his heart.

It feels like he's changed, and there's a sense of curiosity about his life. I hope that I live better than him, otherwise I will have low self-esteem.

I don't feel anything, after all, I have children.

Without the feeling of the time, life is lost.

That kind of heart-warming feeling will make men remember it for a lifetime, in fact, nostalgia for the first love is nostalgia, the self who fought for love at the beginning, and missed the youth at the beginning.

I miss each other at the beginning, and I miss the girl who grinned when she saw her. When you see your first love again, you will inevitably be tempted.

Second, I am full of regrets and want to make up for it.

Xiao Xiao in the movie "Later Us" said: "Later we had everything, but without us." "I was very impressed that it was really this first love, when we were both young and had nothing but love for each other.

Maybe the two of them haven't even eaten a decent meal in the family, and they haven't even given a precious gift, and the most regrettable thing is that the two of them separated because they were young at the time and didn't know how to cherish it.

So when a man meets his first love again, he feels very regretful, and feels that now that he is together, he can do a lot of things that he couldn't do before, and give her as many beautiful things as possible.

3. I love my current girlfriend or wife very much.

No matter how beautiful the first love is, no matter how unforgettable, it is in the past after all, and sometimes the relationship cannot be returned, because even if they are together again, the feelings of the two people have changed.

In addition, now that I have met my true love, my life is also very good, even if I miss it, I won't be tempted, because some things that should be given up will eventually return to dust. Thinking too much, thinking too much, it is yourself who suffers, and it hurts the person in front of you.

Fourth, the memories of first love are not good.

Most people's first love is beautiful, because the two are out, there is no conflict of interest, they both blindly want to give each other the best, and they want to love each other with their hearts. But it cannot be ruled out that some people's first love is not beautiful, and it is also a painful memory.

Some men may never dare to fall in love again after experiencing their first love, because they are afraid of getting hurt and falling into endless pain again.

First love is a hurdle in everyone's heart, a deep or shallow hurdle, whether it can be passed or not, the past is the past, the important thing is to cherish the person in front of you.