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I really didn't expect there to be people like you in the world! Your requirements for yourself are too low, and the manly man has no sense of responsibility at all! Don't say that you think about your parents, you don't even plan for yourself, do you think it will be okay after work?
Planning not to buy a house for the rest of your life? Not married? Don't want kids anymore?
Do you think you're a rebel now? To follow this is to be stupid! Instead of being angry, it's better to be angry, have you made a little effort?
Want to live in peace? Do you think society is full of charities now? If you don't change your personality, you won't be able to get along.
There are also people who think that your parents are wrong to scold you, what's wrong? It seems that your parents are wrong, they should cut off your financial ** and drive them out directly, and you don't have to think about whether to be noisy or not.
What else to talk about "uncompromising", even right and wrong, if your parents forbid you to hang yourself every day, do you have to hang yourself every day?
Are relatives and bosses the same thing, so you can not care about your work?
And say something "it's also painful, I don't want to do it either", you just want to change your parents so that they can watch their son who has high hopes become more and more useless, and support them happily! Why don't you think about how to change yourself, read more books, and do more?
People want dignity and freedom, but it doesn't mean that they can hurt their parents with impunity!
And say that "you have to resist, because I don't think an adult should be bound by such a strong constraint", it's just laughing to death! Do you know you're an adult?
If you really have so much self-esteem, get out and feed yourself, don't rely on your family to starve to death!
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Parents, Family, Responsibility, Awareness, Concept, Understanding, Understanding, Communication, Dedication, Empathy.
Truth implies adjustment, recognition, bearing, love, feeling, confronting, avoiding, self-criticism.
Understand the hope mindset of thoughts.
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It's not a big deal, no matter what your parents say, you won't really look down on you, let go of your baggage, work hard, and when you make your own achievements, you will find a sunny patch. It's just that you have to turn pressure into motivation, and you have to really work hard, and don't indulge in the world of nothingness anymore. Believe in yourself and you will come out.
Relatives are just angry with them, and the breath and atmosphere that make you uncomfortable will naturally disappear when you come out. This is my personal experience, I was also scolded and now I have a very good relationship with my family. I wish you a happy growth!
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Your parents' approach is not very right, but you have to change yourself, I have also had a rebellious mentality, more serious than you, I want to know how I solved it, that is, to endure a moment of rebellion, try to meet their requirements, so that they no longer annoy you, create a good environment for yourself, and then work hard yourself, no matter how hard and tired you are, you can't be afraid to remember that there is only a starting point and no end Work hard, you said that you have taken a book, and your studies are not bad, then I believe that you are very smart Just didn't find the goal You must have self-confidence Remember that you are the strongest in the world Let them look at it differently I'm sure by then, your parents will never do that to you again, because you're good, you're better than them.
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It's a long article, but I've read ......You have to work hard, no matter what, your parents can't choose, they bring you into the world and you have to be grateful to them, the rich, the prisoner, or everything needs your love and care.
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Make money to support yourself and move out.
This will definitely get along.
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Either way, it was your parents who gave you life and learned to be grateful. Your parents are also at fault, but you must reconcile with your parents, I used to quarrel with my parents when I was a child, and the reason was also because I spent too much time playing with the computer, not to mention that I already had glasses. At that time, when I saw my parents ignoring me and doing their own thing, I didn't feel good in my heart, so I admitted my mistake to my parents and promised them that I would grow up to be a useful person and not rely in front of the computer all day long.
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If it's a man, go out and fend for himself.
Don't think you'll be able to get a job after graduation, many college students are unemployed after graduation.
Men should be responsible!
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If you can't be independent economically, you can't be independent about your personality....
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Escape Hide in your haven and think about pie in the sky.
You try to let us do everything at home, and see what they say
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Use your kindness to resolve conflicts between you and your parents.
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What should I do if my parents quarrel?
1.Remember the role of a concoctor, not a role that adds fuel to the fire.
Remember that you, as a child, should persuade them, not to this side, to add fuel to the fire, which will only make the relationship between your parents worse and worse, and we must be a conciliator.
2.Parents quarrel with each other has its own right and wrong, you should patiently listen to your parents' complaints, comfort your parents, instead of reprimanding one party.
As children, we need to reconcile between them, first understand the reasons for the parents' quarrels, and then do a good job of reconciliation.
3.Don't try to change your parents' minds, try to understand your parents' thoughts and experience the difficulties of your parents.
It's not easy for parents, don't change their minds, learn to accept their ideas.
4.Say more words of comfort to your parents, so that each other can be angry as soon as possible, after all, people are angry and easy to say impulsive things.
As a child, say good things about one side and not bad things about the other.
5.Communicate with your parents more often to keep abreast of their changes in mentality.
Communicating with your parents in a timely manner will not only increase your relationship with your parents, but also increase the relationship between your parents through your communication.
6.Learn to adapt to your parents, listen to your parents' voices, and try your best to make them psychologically happy.
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