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Because some people feel that quarrels are not interesting, and feel that quarrels are immoral, there is a cold war, because the cold war can cost less and the damage caused to people is psychologically traumatic and the attack power is stronger.
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Because in many cases, talking too much is useless, talking too much will only make the two people more embarrassed, and talking too much will lead to more contradictions and stimulate hidden contradictions, so people will be keen on the Cold War.
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They don't like to quarrel too much, maybe they are introverted, and they don't want to fight, so they want to do some cold war, so that the other party can understand what they mean, but the result is generally very bad, so they will accumulate their grievances for a long time.
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The relationship has become weaker, the character is very stubborn, not convinced, both sides have enough self-confidence, and feel that the other party will take care of themselves first, ps: There is more cold war, and the feelings are gone, and the direct cause of the cold war is in my opinion that I don't want to splash my head and cover my face.
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The Cold War is only because people are impatient with some things, which causes people to be unwilling to care more or say more things, and choose the Cold War, so indifference is the best response to people's attitude towards some things.
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The immediate cause of the Cold War, in my opinion, was a quarrel that I didn't want to throw on my face. The relationship has faded, the personality is very stubborn, unconvinced, both parties have enough self-confidence, and feel that the other party will take care of themselves first. There are more cold wars, and feelings are gone.
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Because I feel very uncomfortable, I don't want to deal with each other, so I can only punish each other and myself in this way, but I think this way is very wrong, and it will harm the relationship between you.
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In many cases, this phenomenon should happen to two people who have very strong self-esteem and do not want to bow to the other, because they feel that they are not wrong, so they will not take the initiative to admit their mistakes.
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In general, the personality traits of this group of people are generally silent, introverted, and melancholy.
Not good at expressing emotions in words.
Cold violence is essentially the avoidance of existing problems, people who like the Cold War believe that avoiding problems to alleviate conflicts is more effective in alleviating the feelings of both sides than directly facing problems, they do not know how to communicate and communicate properly when encountering conflicts, and are not good at expressing emotions in words.
The ability to express emotions is related to early family experiences, and if parents or other family members lack the right communication patterns during growth, it often affects children's ability to express anger and dissatisfaction.
Enjoy the Cold War process.
Quarrels are characterized by strong emotional explosiveness, short duration, and quick venting; The Cold War, on the other hand, is a time bomb hidden in reality, which is silent but long-lasting, and is a mode of attack like quarrels.
But such people are often selfish and do not consider the mental damage caused by such behavior to the other person.
In addition, people who like the Cold War tend to be very headstrong.
In communicative psychology, inner dissatisfaction does not affect the attitude and relationship with others, which is a social skill.
And for wayward people, cold violence is their strongest **, not only will they not suppress their dissatisfaction with others, but they will also show each other in an isolated way through the torture of the spirit orange spirit: You have provoked me, so I hate you very much. Nonsensical anger is the most unpredictable, and the result of cold violence is to make the other person feel exhausted.
Solve problems sensibly.
If the argument is inconclusive, it is better for both sides to calm down in their respective worlds first.
Likes to evade responsibility.
If the contradictions between each other are not enough to destroy the relationship between the two parties, people who like cold violence can use this way to evade responsibility, so as to passively solve the problem and achieve their desired goals by evading.
Cold violence will make the other party feel oppressed and suffocated, and in the end, in order to escape this terrifying atmosphere, they will reluctantly stand up and take the initiative to solve the problem and clean up all the mess.
Signs of immaturity of mind.
People who like the Cold War may not be really angry with the other party, they may just want to win the attention of others by ignoring others in a violent way, and insecure people like to use cold violence to prevent being ignored by the other party. Similar to the situation of a child who has a round temper and asks for attention, it is a manifestation of immaturity.
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The biggest difference between kissing and kissing is that the two sides directly use hot weapons to attack each other, and there is a loss of life, a loss of territory, and a conflict in the real sense. The Cold War, on the other hand, was more like a balance of terror between the two sides, each developing its own military strength and deterring the other side, but it did not really go to the point of fighting each other, and it was a kind of hidden competition and confrontation. The real confrontation and development of the Cold War is the mutual consumption and comparison of the entire national strength, and the side that has gained the upper hand has a greater advantage in the event of a real hot war.
For example, the leading technology, such as the best reserves, logistics support. Therefore, the cold war provided support for the hot war, and the mutual restraint and balance of the cold war constrained the outbreak of the hot war to a certain extent.
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Many people have friction with their partners, often they have something in their hearts, but they don't know how to express it, which often causes language jams. In the long run, when you encounter problems, you will develop an attitude of avoidance. Like an ostrich, when in danger, it buries its head in the sand.
This way of dealing with it is extremely bad, and after a long time, the accumulated negative emotions will affect your physical and mental health.
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No one will like the Cold War, the general Cold War person is because he is not good at communicating with people, or he has tried to communicate, but he has not achieved the desired effect, but it makes the mood more collapsed, it is better for two people to calm down and think about it before dealing with it.
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