What it s like to be in a dorm every day in college

In college, I feel very decadent and bored in the dormitory every day, I have nothing to do every day, and I am also very distressed, but I always can't lift my spirits, and I am also very helpless, and I will be looked down upon by others.

Now that I'm in college, I've experienced the charm of my dorm room, and I'm just lying there motionless in my dorm room, just like when I came home from high school, I wouldn't study again. Staying in the dormitory all day long, not exercising, not studying, either chasing dramas on the computer, or swiping the space Weibo circle of friends on the mobile phone, you will find that time flies super fast. If you stay in the dormitory like this, you will find that before you know it, your four years have passed, and you can only remember the memories of the dormitory, and nothing else.

I had such an experience, but I didn't last for a month, for the simple reason that it was too tiring. In college, I have a lot of free time, except for classes, I basically stay in the dormitory during that time, and sometimes I even skip classes, I don't want to go to the classroom, I don't want to study. But what are you doing in the dormitory?

In the beginning, I had to do four things every day, play games, eat, sleep, and watch. even to the point where I can't extricate myself. Meals are all brought by classmates, not getting out of bed at all, playing games and getting tired of going to bed to watch **, watching and falling asleep.

My heart is conflicted. On the one hand, I don't want to study, but I have more than two months to take the exam, and I also want to get a high score; On the other hand, sometimes I want to learn in my heart, but the whole person is soft and doesn't want to move at all; Also, after being corrupt for a long time, I feel bored, and naturally I want to do something else.

In addition to dizziness or dizziness, I didn't go home during the holidays, I slept in the dormitory every day until I woke up naturally, and after waking up, I was playing with my mobile phone.

College in the dormitory, once very much looking forward to things, I think, should be very comfortable, freshman and sophomore, I have more classes, and other things, there are often things when there are no classes on the weekend, at that time I really want to be able to have nothing to do in the day, just stay in the dormitory. This semester's self,There's nothing to do.,Classes are relatively few.,It's not yet to the level of a dead house.,If you don't have classes, you don't go out for a day.,There's nothing to do when you go out.,Just don't go out.,And then I'm disliked by my roommates.,But I'm able to live at home.,Although there's nothing to do in the dormitory.,I often find things to do for myself.,It's quite comfortable in the dormitory.,Probably want to make up for the time that I didn't have enough time in my freshman and sophomore years.。

I love to stay in my dormitory, and I don't want to go out at all in the hot summer, so I order takeout every time I don't have a class. You can stay in the dormitory all day. Basically, I just go to play with my mobile phone, and most of them are watching**.

I like to watch Tanmei**, every time I go to Jinjiang Literature City to look for **, I find a good-looking **I can keep chasing, chase it until it is not updated, and then add it to the collection, update it and continue to read. After looking at it for a long time, the eyes are tired and you will sleep, and you will wake up and continue to look, or then find a new ** to see, in short, you can stay in the bedroom and watch **.

The general idea of this kind of person is very simple, that is, life is a day, and in their eyes, college is not used for learning and improvement, but for chic play. These people stay in the dormitory and only know how to play games, call takeout when they are hungry, go to the toilet when they have something to do, and the rest seems to be nothing more interesting than playing on the computer. They don't care about grades, so they all skip classes, and many people have hung up on a lot of subjects, since they are already like this, they will break the jar and break it, and there will be no worries about playing.

If you want to be self-reliant or stay away from such people, even if the process is lonely, because you have to know that if you really want to study, this is a process that you have to go through, and the dormitory is not a place to study, and it is very likely that you will fall like them.

I would feel that college life was so easy and stressful.

I don't go out of the dormitory every day, I can't breathe fresh air, and I feel that the outside world has nothing to do with me.

The people in the house are night walkers, they sleep in the dormitory during the day and come out to look for food at night, I don't understand, I also want to know why she is like this? Don't you feel like you're wasting time? Interesting souls will always meet, and the premise of this should be to become good and go out for a walk, rather than staying in the dormitory.

Life is really boring, you can see the end at a glance, and you have nothing to do except sleep.

College dorms are like opening a blind box, and you don't know what kind of people you're going to be with. This can be seen as a training camp before you officially go out into the world. You're going to grow up with several people and learn how to get along quickly when they're immature.

2.Focus on the weaknesses of human nature. There are many weaknesses in human nature, and everyone has some.

It's not that someone is bad, but human nature is **. For example, most people will be vain, jealous, and so on. You may have a good family, but if you spend lavishly, others will think you're showing off, even though you've lived that way before.

What seems normal to you may be another in the eyes of others. Again, there are grades and so on, it's all the same. Actually, this is normal.

You need to pay proper attention to the feelings of the people around you so that it doesn't hurt too much.

3.If you do have roommates who are difficult to get along with, don't push yourself. To put it bluntly, everyone happens to live together.

It's fate to be able to get along. But after all, there are differences between people. If they don't deal with each other, that's it.

If you push yourself too hard, think about it every day, and be overly sensitive, you will become more and more uncomfortable. Just jump out and don't take it too seriously.

4.The human heart is a bottomless pit. This is true not only for roommates, but also for anyone.

You don't want to be kind to others, and others will treat you just as well. Don't try to be honest with everyone, but stick to the bottom line. Only by having the right expectations for people can you not let yourself be disappointed by expecting too much.

Be yourself and worry less about others.

University accommodation is to forcibly put several people with different values, living habits, hygiene habits, and character quality levels together.

It is inevitable that there is a contradiction, and there is no contradiction is an accident. Besides, no one wants to always take care of others in their lives, for example, I have to play games in the middle of the night on the one hand, and I have to sleep at night on the other hand, and this is how the conflict comes.

And to be honest, no one owes anyone, and it's really better to live alone in a dormitory. However, this is unrealistic in terms of the number of teaching facilities in schools today, and there is no practical and effective solution.

Therefore, I think that any mutual tolerance is self-comfort, and collective life is a word for forbearance, which is not meaningful. If you want to talk about what you have learned, it's really cool to rent a house by yourself.

I don't like to think of conflicts and contradictions as "learning", I hate a lot of roommates, and I hate group life, so I can learn so much.

Edit 1, people are grouped is a normal sock scatter, not necessarily others don't like you. During college, in fact, adolescence has not yet ended, and I will pay special attention to the evaluation of others, which is easy to have self-doubt. However, the time of each Kai predecessor is limited, and the people who can be close to him are also limited.

Therefore, we are naturally willing to spend time on people with similar interests and temperaments, and in a dormitory, there will naturally be good friends in twos and threes, and there are also people who are alone. You can't be good friends with everyone, because you can't be recognized and liked by everyone, and it may be that others don't have the time or opportunity to be friends with you.

2. To have a good environment, we must first respect others. The university dormitory has a more relaxed schedule than the middle school, but there are also lights-out times. If you want to have a good night's sleep, don't keep chatting after the lights go out.

Roommates may also come from different classes and majors, and their course schedules are different. Some need a lunch break, and some stay up late at night and need to catch up on sleep; Others have to do their homework on the computer.

When others are resting or doing homework, please be quiet. Another focus on the outside, the dormitory hygiene needs to be maintained, if you love to be clean, don't litter; If you can't clean in shifts, don't complain if you do more by yourself, otherwise the work will be unpleasant. What you want is not necessarily what others want, negotiation, start with respect.

1. Cherish the relationship between roommates, don't quarrel over trivial things, especially because of things like cleaning, cleaning out trash cans, etc., which is very unworthy.

2. Don't try to take advantage of your roommates: don't use your roommate's cosmetics, eat your roommate's fruit snacks, don't give money to your roommate's food, wear your roommate's clothes, etc.

3. Be self-disciplined, roommates come from all over the world, you must respect each other's interests and living habits, as well as the problem of work and rest time, you must understand each other, and the other party is sleeping, don't make a noise.

4. Some freshmen may not adapt to the new environment, we should care about our roommates, find friends, and help each other together: such as helping each other to bring food, help fetch water, etc., a little thing can enhance the relationship between roommates, why not!

5. The garbage near your bed and desk should be cleaned, the trash can should be cleaned in time, and the sanitation shift of the dormitory must be remembered, and cleaning is worth paying attention to!!

6. Try to go outside to play at night, especially if you have boyfriend and girlfriend, it is unknown when a porridge pot will be, so go out of the dormitory door, and then go to the balcony or corridor outside the corridor to play **!

7. When entering the dormitory, try to knock softly on the door and push the door in case someone is sleeping or studying, if the sleeping classmate is woken up or the study is affected, the other party will be very unhappy.

8. If you are used to going to bed late, you must remember to do a good job of washing in advance to avoid disturbing others.

9. If someone in the dormitory is taking a nap and you are using the computer at this time, you must try to tap the keyboard softly, because too loud the keyboard will affect the roommate's rest.