What to do if a friend does something unforgivable to you 20

She doesn't see you as a friend, and you don't have to.

Judging from what you said, you are very troubled and embarrassed by this matter, so you will not be happy. Of course, whether a person can be his friend or not, only he knows best. Friend.

I think it is possible to sustain it by bringing something beneficial to both sides, both spiritual and material. Material things aside, in terms of spirit alone, it is not possible to make the other person feel happy, to be comforted, to trust each other, to help each other, or even to attack, make things difficult, and deceive. Will such a person be a friend?

People have something to ask for in their lives, they don't ask for something, I think a friend like this can be forgiven once or twice, if it's always like this, I'm sorry, you are not the only one in the world who can be my friend.

I don't think you should think about it anymore, it's better to put this person among ordinary friends, because friendship requires two people to complete each other.

First of all, I still have to forgive him for you.

You have to learn to be tolerant Tolerance is like a ray of sunshine Learning to be tolerant will improve your moral cultivation Learning to be tolerant will make you smile with a smile throughout your life.

So there's nothing wrong with listening to me.

A friend is a selfless dedication, without asking for anything in return, sometimes better than a boyfriend, a true friend will not do something to hurt the feelings of a friend for this little benefit She did it, and before you were hurt more, hurry up and leave such a friend because it is not worth it

Hum! With such a friend, it is your misfortune to know each other! I have a good friend who played from elementary school to junior high school, and when he arrived in junior high school, he went to make up classes and didn't call me, saying how well he played at night during the day, and then he secretly studied at home at night.

None of this is anything, but in the end his behavior is getting more and more disgusting! So I don't have any nostalgia, you think about it, she treats you like that, what is soft-hearted or not, soft-hearted is just you running away from ,!!So don't hesitate any longer, it's like you're going to die without her in this world Ignore her, she's not all you have to live!

You had this friend at the beginning, you must have his goodness, I think you still treat people with courtesy, be more tolerant, and then take a good look at his advantages!!

Break up with her! I just want my own person to have something to be a friend of, a friend is a person who will not annoy you, how can a person who annoys you be a friend, at most a person you know!

She is not the only one in the world who can be your friend!

Why should that kind of friend still ignore her, but it's okay, don't treat her well anymore, just treat her as if she doesn't exist.

Let him know that you are still his friend and will not change or you explain the reason to him so that he understands that it is just a joke of yours and does not have to be taken seriously.

Friends are very important objects in interpersonal relationships. A friend is someone who has developed a relationship that is not related by blood, but is very friendly. A true friend is usually honest, loyal, loyal, and considers the other person first.

Their interests may be similar and they may often be active together. They may also help each other, for example, by listening to each other's problems and giving each other advice. For most people, friends are partners who can be trusted, and they are also angels who can help each other.

Only a friend, he will even step into society to help you when you are in trouble.

What is a friend.

Whether in life or on the Internet, everyone will have friends, what is a friend, a friend is a person who has a relationship with each other, and a person who is good to each other.

Friendship is the purest, noblest, most simple and ordinary feeling, and it is also the most romantic, moving, solid and eternal emotion.

Their interests may be similar and they may often be active together. They may also help each other, for example, by listening to each other's problems and giving each other advice. For most people, friends are partners who can be trusted, and they are also angels who can help each other.

Only a friend, he will even step into society to help you when you are in trouble.

Then you don't write him that kind of note again. Sometimes, friends are like this, after a little misunderstanding, the feelings between each other will be deeper, it's good for a long time, don't deliberately care about him. After that, you will slowly get closer to him in life and study, just talk to him, and I believe that you will get better.

You take the initiative to help him with a little thing around you, for example, he is a class representative, you help him carry the exercise book or something, if he is on duty to clean up, you don't say anything and silently help him, don't show off, he will be moved.

You can write comforting words on a small piece of paper, or give him a small gift and explain to him, that's it, I did that.

Apologize to him first, and then give him a certain amount of compensation. (This kind of friend is stingy, it's better to stay away from him).

You can think as much as you can about what you did wrong. Then go and write a letter of guarantee. Then give it to him.

Grind him again. When I say grinding, I'm being coquettish with him. Understand?

He should forgive you. I've done this before. (I'm a woman)...

In fact, it's not surprising that men are coquettish, and there are a lot of them in our class. Hehe.

Boys are very generous, first you have to admit your mistakes, let him know that you are sincere, and then don't make such mistakes in the future, it's a small thing, but it's hurtful.

Tell him: I don't want you to forgive me, because I can't forgive my own mistakes, if you can be angry, you can do whatever you want to me, so that I can feel better.

If he just wants to make you feel bad, stop dating, what's wrong with the lack of a friend?

Between classmates, there is nothing to forgive or not forgive, being together is fate, let's communicate with him again.

You can explain to him many times, he will have a showdown with him if he doesn't listen, remember, be sure to organize the language well!!

A man is more stingy than a woman, and it doesn't matter if you don't have a relationship, even if everyone is in each other's feelings, put things aside, and should be forgiven, buddy brothers.

It's okay, you'll be reconciled in a few days. It's just a child's temper.

Go and admit your mistake to him in person. That's how you can show your sincerity

Forehead... How do you feel full of feelings? . . In other words, isn't the so-called friend just the existence of a quarrel on the first day and a better relationship on the second day?

About 3 days after this happened (probably at this time), talk to him, if it doesn't work, write a letter to him, analyze the cause and effect rationally, and state your original intentions, speak softly, analyze yourself as if you were a bystander, and admit your mistakes, and tell him that you don't want to lose his good friend. If he doesn't forgive you, then you just let it be... After all, there are many things that cannot be forced...

Wow, your experience looks like mine, except that I'm a girl. You begged him to forgive him, but he didn't forgive you, probably because you were sure that you wouldn't break off your friendship with him. If you have groveled to him.

He still doesn't forgive you, and I advise you to break off your friendship with him. This kind of person is a person who must be seen by you to kneel down and beg him, and he will be happy and reconciled. In fact, there can't be only one brother, and if one goes, a large group may come!

Now I just have one less girlfriend and more than a large group of female girlfriends and male girlfriends. What a nourishing life. Why die on this crooked-necked tree!

Now in the second year of junior high school, I have a friend who is the representative of the Chinese class in my class. The first day of the new year has just begun...

Tell him sincerely, tell him that you didn't mean to, although you are friends, there must be distance between friends, don't you?

Uh......It is worthy of being the representative ...... of the language class

Anyway, why did you just write this and he was angry with the birds?!

Won't forgive. But I'll try to understand her so that I'll feel better. I'm going to make myself stronger, work hard, work hard to earn money, don't rely on anyone, and make no one hurt by anyone.

If this is a must-have or a macro calendar, I will accept it.

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I think you must have cherished your friendship with your friend, and when you did something sorry for him, there must have been a reason to force it, people will do something wrong, and often you don't know the preciousness of friendship until the result happens.

I think you must have used a lot of ways to redeem this friendship between you and your friend, but he doesn't forgive you, and it's understandable, and from his standpoint, he may not be able to forgive you for what you did to him.

What should you do if you do something sorry to your friend and she doesn't forgive?

Hello, I am a co-teacher who asks a question, a peach running on the road, I am a psychological counselor, good at adolescent and marriage and family counseling, I have been engaged in the psychological industry for 8 years now, I am very happy to serve you, I hope to help you with my profession. I have seen your question, please give me a little time to text and reply to you immediately. I think you must have cherished your friendship with your friend, and when you did something sorry for him, there must have been a reason to force it, people will do something wrong, and often you don't know the preciousness of friendship until the result happens.

I think you must have used a lot of ways to redeem this friendship between you and your friend, but he doesn't forgive you, and it's understandable, and from his standpoint, he may not be able to forgive you for what you did to him.

Things have been done, they have already happened, and they have to bear the consequences. Choose a suitable time, ask her out for a good talk, make the misunderstanding between you clear, express your apologies to him, even if she doesn't forgive you, it's her choice, as long as you do your best to save this friendship and make yourself not regret it.

I feel that it can be forgiven, as long as you make a mistake, change it, start over, give others a chance, forgive others is a kind of open-mindedness, forgive yourself is a relief, learn to forgive you will find that you are relaxed, happy, confident, mature.

Sometimes, some words and practices of friends may hurt you, family members, colleagues misunderstanding and return to make you distressed, there are many things in life that make you not as you wish, or even painful, why not change the way of thinking and learn to forgive? Forgiving others is an open-mindedness, and forgiving oneself is a relief.

If you don't forgive, the hatred or resentment buried in your heart because you don't forgive is often due to our own narrow-mindedness, low self-esteem, vanity, inability to let go, and lack of objectivity. Just like we often don't forgive someone for unintentional hurt, don't forgive others for the inconvenience they accidentally cause to themselves, don't forgive the blows of competitors, all of these will make us miserable and unhappy, we often have a knot of depression in our hearts, we carry the burden of the past and can't let go, and it affects the happiness and happiness of the present and the future. You step on the blooming flowers, and the flowers leave you with the fragrance of flowers; You pushed open a door and window, and a fresh fragrance blew outside the window; You have climbed over a mountain, and the scenery on the other side of the mountain is even more charming; You wade through a small river, and when you see the ocean, you will feel so wide ......

Think about it quietly, is it necessary? Everyone's life passes in a hurry, just a few decades, it's too late to enjoy it, it's hard to be a day, and it's a day of happiness, why let these trivial things always exist in your future life? Why let those unpleasantness disturb our vision?

Why should those who have abandoned you and will not appreciate your blindness still exist in your mind? Learn to forgive.

I will find that those who are confident, fulfilling, open-minded, generous, and happy in life are more likely to forgive others.

But according to what you said, you apologized afterwards, and the sincerity of the apology; The extent of previous affection with him. Choose to accept his apology or not, friends can't slap people in the face, right? Even for various reasons, his apology was accepted.

In the future, it will not be as good as before, and it will also stay away intentionally or unintentionally. Since there is a crack in the bond between friends, this crack cannot be repaired by an apology. If you want to really repair this bond crack, you need to apologize for more actions in the future before it can be completely repaired.

I've gone through my whole life, and I think I'm still a big heart. Most of my true friends turned out to be on the same path as me because of my loneliness and sometimes a little pride. Some used to laugh at me, some used to look down on me, some used to be cautious and deliberately embarrassed me, and some used to be competitors.

Why did they come together again and become true friends? Basically, they have a problem with me. After listening to their troubles, I thought that although they did not apologize for offending me at the beginning, they asked me, that is, bowed their heads to me, and I would not hesitate to choose to help.

Needless to say, they became true friends. Whether I am at home or not, as long as there are them, I can't escape their eyes when I have something at home, and I will take the initiative to help. Sometimes it's really touching, and the care they put into helping is more thoughtful than when I was at home.

In particular, the degree of concern for my parents will not be as lenient as that of me as a son. In this life, I am grateful to have them by my side, and I feel infinitely happy to have them by my side. Of course, I will also give back and help them as much as possible.

The situation you are asking is not easy to forgive, and it is forgivable that you are friends, not friends. It's a friend, what kind of friend is it, a friend is a two-way transmission of friendship, you come and go, and one-way is allowed under special circumstances. You have passed on your precious friendship to him with all your heart, treating him as a friend, but he has not treated you as a friend, but only used the term friend to get his own needs. Therefore, it is difficult!