If your boyfriend says to you, get married! If you don t get divorced, you won t be able to catch up

Manifestations of immaturity.

Not everything in this world can be joked about.

Either he doesn't go through the brain, as it always is.

Either marriage is just marriage for him.

Does he really love you, so much so that he wants to be with you for the rest of his life before he says he will get married.

How does it feel like getting married for the sake of getting married?

You must be more mature than him, definitely.

I was so excited, I thought about it, and I regretted that I couldn't be with my wife forever, because we, like every human being, are going to die of old age, hehe.

My boyfriend is also urging me to get married, and if he says this to me, I will definitely think it is a joke, but after tasting it carefully, I feel quite stressed. In today's society, marriage is very fragile and difficult to test. In fact, I feel that I should be prepared accordingly before talking about marriage.

Hey, I'm also very worried, in fact, it's not easy for women.

My understanding is to get married early and leave early

At least when you get divorced, you're younger and easier to find a partner.

I don't know, this is the first time I've heard anything like this.

Maybe your boyfriend is joking with you.

Think about your future path, if you can't do it, don't tie it, otherwise it will be more bitter after you get married.

I want to joke when I hear it, why don't you get married?

Hehe, then leave him, if this is not a joke, I heard a true story, it was the story of a classmate's aunt, her aunt had a man who liked her when she was young, she didn't agree, and when the aunt took over the marriage, the man also went to get married, but when the man knew that the aunt later divorced, he immediately divorced his wife and continued to chase the aunt

In fact, your heart is tangled, because you can't let go of the feelings that have been paid for so many years. But a woman's natural vanity has a side knock.

You're just scared of your breakup, and it's an emotion to hide from the pain.

In fact, you love him and pay so much for him, you just don't dare to be firm, is this the end of this life? In fact, what you hesitate is not whether to be with him, but whether to live like this.

Your boyfriend loves you, how do you know that he won't be able to give you a good life in the future?

Those people who are glamorous on the outside, are they really happy from the heart, but it is actually a question of whether you are content in your heart. He loves you and will fight hard for you.

I don't think you should be so hesitant.

You have been with him for so long, you should be able to see if he is self-motivated and has that ability.

There is also his character and quality.

Through these, you will know.

After all, the present is the present, the future is the future, and don't look at the world with a three-inch gaze.

I hope you think about it, if he's not motivated or something, then I don't think you have to suffer, I think so, hehe.

I wish you happiness and a happy family.

b y : Advice for a 17-year-old boy.

It's better to leave early. You and him have no good results with your character, you are a woman who can talk about feelings, but not life.

Life is your own, and so are your choices....

Think about what kind of life you want and give yourself the happiness you want!

Make up your mind earlier and be responsible for both parties!

Everything is fate, you can't tie it when fate is over, fate is here, not to mention a year, ten years are the same. Don't be afraid, God must have arranged the right one for you. What can you do if you break up, what if you are old, as long as he loves you, everything is not a problem.

I still want to find someone I like to marry! If you find the right person, you won't be disgusted by your age.

It's better to get to know each other better.

Since the age of both parties is not specified in the question, I speculate that there are several scenarios:

1. The man is older, and you are younger. In this case, it is understandable that the man is unwilling to wait, and there is a custom in some places that if he is the eldest son, his younger siblings cannot marry if he does not get married.

2. You are about the same age, but you are older. I don't know what the physical condition of his grandparents is, but there is usually a problem to consider when it comes to children, that is, grandparents are generally anxious to hold their children. In addition, after two years, you will get married for about three years before you can have children, right?

Is there anyone in his family who is worried about the child's affairs?

3. Are the conditions you are considering premature? What conditions? The relationship is not running in well?

No job stability? The family relationship between the two parties is not very harmonious? If you haven't been dating for long, then it makes sense that you want to take a break, but you can't just say two years.

Two years is really long! If you have known each other for a while, think about it, will you be able to solve a problem that has not been solved for a long time in two years? Is it realistic?

Finally, I wish you happiness

I don't know how old you are or how long you've been together. First of all, why do you think it's immature? Is it because of the condition, or because of the family.

Or do you just want to start a family with this man at all? There are many factors, and two years can change a lot of things. If you're young, you can be two years late, if you're not young.

I feel like it's time to get married. If there is nothing wrong with all the factors, why not get married. At the same time, I wish you happiness.

1. Not reaching the level of true love.

2. The man is indeed older or has other options.

3. The reason for his parents.

It's clear that something is wrong between you, there is less love, there is no trust. I don't even have the bare minimum foundation, so I don't have the confidence to wait.

Your boyfriend is very realistic, two years is an unknown variable, he doesn't dare to bet, the most important thing is that he doesn't love you deep enough and has no confidence in you.

You're not wrong. In fact, two years does not necessarily mean that it will definitely take two years to consider marriage. It's good that no one can afford to delay who separates!

It depends on the age, some people really can't afford to wait.

It's better to think more about each other.

If you're old enough, you can't afford to wait, you're too willful.

It is not possible to simply determine "can't wait" or "don't want to", but it is necessary to analyze it in combination with various aspects.

If he's really old, then it's saying that his parents are pushing him too hard and can't afford to wait, but if he's not very old, maybe it's a different story.

Most men are under pressure from their parents, but then again, not everyone can withstand the material test.

How old are you birthplace, rural, urban?