Do you know what these kinds of hearts are in the hearts of people who disturb the life of their ex?

For a variety of reasons, many people have broken up or divorced, break up, divorce, divorce, many people will actually go to their ex, but the ex doesn't want to pay attention to them at all, what does this kind of wanton disturbance of the ex's life think? What is their mentality?

First of all, I think it's very rude to disturb your ex's life, you're all separated, and the two sides don't have a half-dime relationship anymore, so why bother your ex? Interesting? Boring!

Many people divorce or break up because they are divorced and broken up, why do you say this, that is, they don't want to break up or divorce, and the breakup or divorce is proposed by the other party. In fact, this makes the person who has been broken up or divorced very unhappy, and they will have a feeling of anger. I keep thinking about why you are doing this to him, he obviously didn't do anything wrong, he will always think about your problems instead of his own problems, or he has a certain point that makes you very dissatisfied, and then he proposes to break up, but he doesn't feel or recognize.

The person who disturbs the ex is also a little selfish in his heart. Obviously you have broken up or divorced, but he still wants to disturb you and break into your life, then he is very selfish, because you have no relationship anymore, and each other has disappeared from each other's lives, but there will still be one party who will be dissatisfied, and then go to the ex to try to redeem it, why bother! Did it work?

It didn't work! People who disturb their ex's life will also be reluctant in their hearts. If you have been together for a long time, and suddenly you are not together, then one of you will definitely be very unhappy and reluctant, so you want to find the other party, but it is useless.

I guess it's a special deep love, so I can't let it go.

People who disturb the life of their predecessors are very selfish people, and there is no need to do this.

People who disturb their ex's life are generally very selfish.

Some want to get back together with their ex, and some just can't see that their ex is better off than themselves.

Personally, I think that people who often bother their exes after a breakup either want to get back together, or they are unwilling。But in short, they haven't let go of this relationship, even if they know that their behavior will cause a certain misunderstanding and impact on the other party, they are still uncontrollably close.

I want to compound. After a breakup, they regret it, there are too many situations to try to regain their lovers, and the measures they take are also strange. For example, often contact your ex and say something inconsequential, just to test the other person's mind.

If the other person shows a cooperative attitude, then he will start a further emotional offensive and become more connected. On the contrary, the other party's appearance of coldness and detachment does not necessarily dampen his enthusiasm. It is said that only when you lose will you know how to cherish it, so it is not uncommon to see the importance of the other party after a breakup.

Even if the attitude is not friendly, but he has a stronger determination and belief, and he is bound to recover it. It's just that this kind of thinking may not be transmitted to the ex, and in the eyes of the other party, frequent contact is equivalent to a kind of interruption and demand.

There is unwillingness. Especially when he saw that his ex had found a new love before him, he had indescribable anger and dissatisfaction in his heart. broke up, but still retained a strong possessiveness and wanted to prove that he still had an irreplaceable position in his ex's heart.

This kind of declaration of sovereignty is unreasonable for the predecessor, but it is really helpless to bear it silently. Personally, I feel that it is normal to be unwilling, but if you have loved each other, it will have a special meaning. The other party has successfully walked out of the haze of the breakup and started a new life, but he is deeply trapped in it and can't extricate himself.

All in all, it is very wrong to disturb your ex often after a breakup, even if you want to get back together, you should do it under the premise of respecting and understanding the previous one, and you should not interfere too much in each other's lives.

I want to break off the connection with my ex, and I also want to see how my ex's life is doing, and my heart is very entangled, and I am suspected of green tea.

I think such a person is not right-minded, he may be rolling orange wants to see if his predecessor is doing well, and then make a Tongchai comparison, if the other party is not happy, then he will be very happy, and feel that he is better than him.

For such people, they want to effectively redeem their ex, because they told the first faction to feel that their ex was the best and best for him after the breakup, so he Heng He often disturbed his ex after the breakup.

1.A peek into the life of your ex can cause unnecessary suffering. If you're still in the recovery period, seeing your ex's happy life brings you more negative emotions and may lower your mood.

2.Focusing too much on your ex's life can prevent you from focusing on your own growth. You should focus on yourself and try to be a better version of yourself, rather than focusing too much on your ex.

Otherwise, this kind of thinking may have a negative impact on you and hinder your personal growth.

3.Putting time and energy into snooping into your ex's life can affect your ability to build new relationships. There may be more opportunities and better possibilities in your life, but if you are immersed in the past, then you will not be able to seize the opportunities and discover your potential.

To sum up, even if you break up, you should let go of the past and focus on your future, which will make you more positive and confident, and at the same time, you will encounter more opportunities and usher in a better future.

After a breakup, I won't peek into my ex's life. In fact, no matter what the reason, since we broke up and don't want to continue, we really don't have to. There are two reasons why I think I am so disgusted.

First, whether the other party is good or not is irrelevant.

Former lovers, after breaking up, if the other party is doing well, better than before, we will feel uncomfortable, and we will think that it is not our own credit, as if we delayed each other before.

If the other party is not having a good time, we will also feel very bad, even if we don't love each other, we will still hope that the other party will not have a bad time.

When we are always easily touched by the other person's current situation, this is of course not a good thing, originally, no matter how the other person is doing, it has nothing to do with us.

Focusing too much on it doesn't make us feel conflicted and uncomfortable all the time.

In this case, just retreat to the position of a stranger, don't be unsettled because of the other party, and don't appear in the other person's life again, disturb the other party, and remind the other party of the past that was put aside with great difficulty.

Some people, to be able to meet, love each other for a while, and have a common memory that only belongs to each other, it is enough, after that, say goodbye completely in your heart, don't pay too much attention to each other, and don't participate in each other's lives, that will be better.

Second, I have been paying attention to it, and it will not be easy to get out.

It is true that two people will break up, it must be because something happened and they didn't feel right for each other.

However, even so, it may be easy for each other to make up their minds to break up, but it will not be so simple to come out immediately after the breakup and no longer be influenced by the other party.

It takes a lot of time to forget a person and get rid of the habit of owning each other, so we don't have to be too anxious, we can take our time, but at the same time, we also have to try to touch everything related to each other as little as possible.

If we can not see each other and no longer see each other's messages, it will naturally be easier for us to let go.

However, if we break up, we have been inquiring about everything about each other, whether we have encountered anything, whether we are in a good mood or not, whether we know new people, and unconsciously, our focus will always be on each other, and we will always think about the past, and we will not be able to let go.

Yes, if you are separated and continue to pay attention, it is not conducive to letting go, and it is easy to make your emotions very bad, a person who is destined not to belong to us, a relationship that is destined to no longer have a future, we really don't have to be affected by it all the time.

If you break up, you definitely don't have to go to your ex's life, and anything about your ex has nothing to do with you. Since it is the predecessor, it means that it is already an orange line, people should not live in the past, but live in the present and rush to the future.

If you have already broken up and are still peeking into your ex's life, it will only bring troubles and burdens to yourself and make yourself stop, or your pace of progress will slow down or even be hindered, because your time is spent on snooping on your ex, and you have not learned and improved, or you have no right to learn and progress.

What would you do if you were snooping into your ex's life and you found that she was happier than she was with you before you disturbed you? Will it be very uncomfortable in the heart, or will it be very comfortable? If you find that he is not having a better time with you, what kind of state of mind will you be?

If you feel that you regret it and shouldn't leave him, will it also affect your later love life or emotional path? But if Yuan Li Haoguo said that you are in a state of schadenfreude, it also means that your character is not good. But I don't think anyone wants to make their character worse, so it will still affect your life or emotions, so why peek into your ex's life?

So as long as you break up, let it go, don't look back at the road you have walked, look at the beautiful future, not only move towards the bright future, let yourself live freely and chicly, and live yourself out of the feeling of "I am the most beautiful boy on this street".

This thing goes without saying, since the two of you broke up, then you should live your own lives, there are not too many intersecting virtual bumps, just talk about the stove should not bother each other, maybe the other party has better things for themselves, so it's better not to do this, there is nothing special, just argue stupid and don't need to intersect.

I can't go, that's not to bother him, but I'm old and bothering myself, and I'm late to get promoted.

Unless you want to redeem it.

will contact Heng Yi.

If you don't want to get back together with the other person, or if you don't have the possibility of getting back together, don't bother her life anymore.

In the face of a person who does not love himself, a smart person should know how to let go in time instead of pestering the other party.

Because you can't entangle for a lifetime, your entanglement will not only make others disgusted, but also reduce your own value. Even though that person used to love you very much, that's all in the past.

Our lives will come to an end eventually. Thinking that there are so many Top Gun unpaid, why waste your time on one thing that has no result?

Everyone who breaks up, please lock the door that faces the past forever.

If a relationship has ended, then please completely disappear from the other person's life, without leaving any trace.

In fact, if you want to figure it out, you can meet once in this life, as long as you are okay, it doesn't matter if you contact you or not, it's all a life experience.

For people who have become the past, it is best not to see again, to disturb, to entangle, to slander, just as the most familiar stranger, and it is also the best explanation for the previous relationship. Fu Seoul said such a sentence about his predecessor in "Wonderful Sayings": "Every qualified predecessor should be like dead."

For those who have maintained contact with their ex and talked about new feelings after a breakup, do you respect your current one? If he has a suitable opportunity, it is very likely that the old love will be rekindled.

Since you have broken up, you should let it be a thing of the past and put it in your own memories.

The end of a relationship is the complete end of Mu Tan from the moment you break up, and there will be no more to do with it. Instead of getting drunk or in a bad mood at night, I have to go to him to hit **, as if I still love him.

Even if you want to brush up on your presence, you shouldn't look for it from your ex. Otherwise, you may not only hurt the two of you, but probably more people. It is not easy for two people to meet and know each other, and if they can go to the end, it is also a beautiful thing.

However, many couples break up for various reasons. After a breakup, some people can keep a normal heart and treat their ex, while others desperately denigrate each other.

In fact, it should be like the lyrics sang, "Breakup should be decent", no matter what, after all, it was because of love that they came together, and after separation, there should be more respect and decency.

Don't bother, don't slander, don't entangle, this is the best gift for past relationships.

As the saying goes, it's good to get together and disperse, but some people don't think so much, but continue to harass them in various ways, which makes people even more disgusted. 1. Asking the other party to turn back and hope that the other party will change their minds, or even to force the other party to turn back, is a very cheap behavior in the eyes of the other party, such a move will not only not make the other party cherish and feel distressed, but will make the ex more resistant and disgusted. Regardless of whether there is still a chance to get back together after separation, if you are too eager to go back to the beginning and let the other party retract your decision, the tighter you press, the more counterproductive it will be.

People are animals that seek advantages and avoid disadvantages, when they are no longer sensitive, and they can no longer see the charm and value in you, it is really difficult to have other self-righteous warmth except disgust and avoidance. 2. Use temptation and sacrifice to prove that there are still feelingsSome people find a new love immediately after breaking up, not really meeting a suitable other half, or being emotional, but wanting to use this way to stimulate the other party's potential feelings. There is a high probability that the breakup is a decision made by the other party after weighing the pros and cons, or even saying that the other party has a sense of disgust with you.

This kind of detection method will not only not arouse the other party's jealousy and good feelings, but will make him feel that you are abusive. This kind of one-man show will not be cooperated, and it is likely to get yourself into another relationship entanglement. 3. After breaking up, spreading unfavorable scandals about the other party may have grievances in your heart, or it may be true that the other party has hurt yourself, but since you have broken up, who is right and who is wrong is actually not so important.

What's more, the end of a relationship cannot be a one-sided problem, if you want to wantonly spread scandals about the other party everywhere after separation, in addition to making the other party more disgusted with you, it will also make the people around you feel that you have a problem with your character. Don't let others be your emotional judges, no one can empathize with your heartache at all, do you think your hurt, your pain will anyone care? No one really cares about your feelings and experiences, it is nothing more than a joke after dinner, or thinks that your character is poor, and spreads rumors and stirs up trouble because of love and hate.

4 After a breakup, a slump is a long life, although falling out of love is also a setback, but it really doesn't prove that there is no hope in life, the state of slump is insignificant in the eyes of the other party, people may not pay attention to it at all, only their parents will really feel heartache, and what is really ruined is their future and life. If the loss of love has really made you pay a painful price, then the collapse at the moment is the accumulation of misfortune in superimposed pain. What will people have a good impression of, one is the value you can bring to yourself, on the other hand, you are really good enough, with the advantages, ability, appearance, and figure to attract the other party, and it is more likely that just because you have a good job, but after the breakup, you give up on yourself, so what disappears together is still attractive.

The next way to make your ex regret it, and even want to re-ask for conditions for getting back together, is to make yourself better than before, and not how miserable and depressed you are. Finally, I wish a lover to become a family member, and cherish it!!