Interpersonal problems in school, how to deal with interpersonal relationships during school

School is actually a small society, although learning is very important, but learning interpersonal communication can not be ignored, which will lay a good foundation for you to enter the society in the future. If you meet someone in the dormitory who is not compatible with your personality, you can slowly run in or use appropriate language to express it skillfully in the appropriate environment when you really can't accept it, and try not to cause conflicts with others, because after all, they live together, and you don't see you when you look down, if the other party doesn't accept it, under the premise of not being able to transfer the dormitory, just endure it, as long as you live yours, he lives his, to avoid causing conflicts, and you don't live with him for a lifetime, and after graduation, they don't go their own way. If you meet someone who is not in harmony in the class or in a larger group, you can not get too close to him, but on the surface, you still have to maintain a good relationship, such as you can smile or say hello when you meet, if you don't like it, you will inevitably have a place for others in the future.

Also, don't compare with others, no matter how good or bad your family background is, don't look down on anyone casually, and don't be jealous of other people who are better than you, and don't say bad things about others behind others' backs, there is no impermeable wall in the world, when others say bad things about others in front of you, don't express your own opinions too much, you can listen, but it's best not to follow others to say together, so as not to leave a handle in the future. If you don't like to make trouble, you don't play with those who are fighting, and you can make friends with similar personalities. Remember, don't make enemies for yourself, it's better to get along in harmony than-for-tat.

Low-key without losing personality, self-confidence without losing modesty.

My brother tells you: Those who are close to Zhu are red, and those who are close to ink are black. That's the unspoken rule!

Hello friends, It's a simple word! Pretending to be stupid!!

Keep a low profile when it's time to be low-key, and be confident when it's time to be confident.

This kid is a lot like my friend.

Enjoy the time of your student days, so envious, as long as the interpersonal relationship, don't think too complicated, the interpersonal relationship during this period is also the purest, and when you go to the society, you will never go back to that time, treat people must be sincere, you can not like someone, but don't hurt anyone, no one is a fool, so don't try to get anything from your friends, the good friends you can make when you are a student will be a lifetime of wealth.

Being yourself well is the most practical way to be honest with people and they will know.

Be friendly and sincere!

The interpersonal circle here is actually quite simple, that is, Chinese and Australians, because usually in school you come into contact with Chinese students and local Australian students, and some schools may have other countries.

It's actually quite easy to get along with Australian classmates, their minds are relatively simple, and they are generally more friendly, but those crazy ones are not excluded. Most of the students here feel very naïve in their thinking, they are very simple and cute, and they are easy to get along with.

And the Chinese is more troublesome, now in Australia there are actually quite a lot of Chinese students, everywhere, to be honest, some are forced out by the family, generally not a good student in the country, so it is very important to play with what kind of people, after all, everyone is Chinese, it is right to get along well, but sometimes it is bad to play. I don't think you need to say much about this, you should understand it too.

Come here to make a few good Chinese friends, there will usually be something to help you, but be sure to choose the right person. I usually have more contact with Australian classmates, many of them are very good, and we can improve our speaking together.

In short, interpersonal relationships are such things as grasping them themselves, as long as they are sincere to people, I think they will make good friends no matter what.

How old are you, if you're a middle school student, then it's just like me. I also have a bad relationship, but every time I have a setback, I choose to listen to my favorite **, watch my favorite books and movies, and chat with Oh. If the interpersonal relationship is not good, first of all, you should review your daily behavior, ask the people around you what you are not doing well, need to improve, and need to change yourself, such as image, dealing with others, etc.

Try to change yourself and get closer and closer to perfection. You must know that you live not for yourself, but also for the feelings of others!

Communicate more with your classmates, in this world, you can't change others, but if you need to, you can adjust yourself appropriately.

I also don't want to go to class Now in college, in my freshman year, because I was in the student union, the radio station and other places as a minister, so I can still live in the school for a while, and now it's a sophomore, I found that part of it is due to my ambitions and hobbies, and my personality can't communicate well with most of them, but fortunately, the university I chose is in my own city, so I like to go home, listen to my favorite movies at home, study my favorite major, and take classes just to cope with roll call In fact, everything you learn in college is on your own, and as long as you have a goal, sometimes you can succeed by self-study.

There are a few of them who can talk a little bit, and they will use their mobile phones or the Internet to tell me some things about school, and if they can't escape, they can only change the withdrawn side of their personality, or the bad side, and communicate with others.

Is it with a teacher, a classmate, or who? How about metatheory, I still have to go to school.

Living with the knowledge in the book is just a piece of paper, and life can only be experienced in person.

Because those who don't study enter the society relatively early, they only have little time to contact people when they read, and the top students are only good at talking about topics. Those who enter the society earlier are more likely to play with their minds, and some people are more simple and can't say or do their rhetoric. So it's more boring.

How can it be difficult. I wanted to sleep.,Seeing this problem is real.。。 It's very touching.

I also felt that 3 years was a long time in my first year of high school, how to get by, how to survive.

However, now, I am in my third year of high school at the beginning of the school year, and my grades are also in the top few grades, so I feel very happy to go to school.

First of all, your lack of self-confidence must be changed. Listen to me, people live in the world, they want to be happy and enjoy the world. Why not be confident? It's all people.

Freshman, I really want to be happy for you. Just because it's a freshman. No one knows you, no one knows what kind of person you are, it's up to you to know what you are doing, no one knows how good you were!

When I was miserable and couldn't fit in with my classmates, I thought that if I could go to someone who no one knew me, I could reinvent myself and no one else would talk about me.

So, take this opportunity and change yourself!

Although the summer vacation has passed for a long time, there is still 1 month left, please pick up the book, read it carefully, you must do better than others. Learn ahead of time. The root of self-confidence is capital, and you accumulate capital in 1 month, which is enough. Then you will move towards a virtuous circle.

Go open and communicate with your friends, really, they are all people, go and take the initiative to talk to them, self-esteem is left in your heart, don't lock your heart when you are hurt, be proud, rest assured, don't forget to go in your heart, you give them respect, they will return it to you.

Now, I enjoy high school and my friends are sincere, because I also treat them with a lively and honest heart.

Don't think that you can't do it, people who think you can't do it must not be able to.

Also, take advantage of the summer vacation to go outside to communicate with people and smile. Life is really good. You can get into college. It's really not that hard. It's just two words: perseverance. :）

I took the liberty of being a senior in high school, female, 17, a student in school. I can do my best to help you with your studies if needed.

Chapter 1 Basic Interpersonal Skills.

1. Don't criticize, blame or complain about others.

2. See the advantages of others and give sincere and sincere appreciation.

3. Stimulate the needs of others' strong inner desires.

Chapter 2 Six Secrets to Making People Like You.

1. Genuinely care about others.

2. Smile.

3. Remember a person's name.

4. Be a good listener and encourage others to talk about themselves.

5. Understand the other person's interests and talk about topics that interest him.

6. Make others feel important—and do so sincerely.

Chapter 3 Twelve Ways to Get Approval of You.

1. The only way to win a debate is to avoid it.

2. Respect other people's opinions and never blame others for their mistakes.

3. If you're wrong, admit it quickly and honestly.

4. Start in a friendly way.

5. Make the other person say "yes, yes" immediately.

6. Make the other person talk more.

7. Make the other party think that it was his idea.

8. Sincerely look at things from the other person's point of view.

9. Be sympathetic to the thoughts and desires of others.

10. Stimulate people's noble motives.

11. Dramatically express your thoughts.

12. Present a meaningful challenge.

Chapter 4 Nine Techniques for Changing Others Without Hurting Feelings1. Start with praise and sincere appreciation.

2. Indirectly remind others of their mistakes.

3. Talk about your own mistakes before criticizing the other person.

4. Suggest the other party instead of giving orders directly.

5. Make the other party save face.

6. Praise the slightest progress and praise every progress.

7. Give people a good reputation and let them work hard for it.

8. Use more encouragement to make other people's mistakes easier to correct.

9. Make the other person happy to do what you suggest.

You're going to change schools and get your first year of high school. Leave former classmates. You've changed, so don't be cautious anymore, don't worry too much about everything.

Don't keep your head down in class, you can talk to male classmates (you should know how to talk to me, if you don't know, just ask me.) If others ignore you, you must be too "calm". Be cheerful and learn from those naughty boys....Come on.

First of all, to know that the future is bright, how do you know that you will be left out in the cold? Then, since you say you don't care so much about dignity, you can try to communicate with others. In fact, when I saw your question, I felt very similar to me before, when my classmates were very enthusiastic.

Brother, you look a lot like me. I'm also afraid of being lonely, so it's good to get used to it. If you are afraid, you are afraid of what others think of you.

People are different, as long as you don't harm others, it's OK to be yourself. When you are in pain, you rely on boiling, and you can't expect it to always go well. Grow up and be stronger.

A lot of things have to be done hard, and it will be easy in the future. Take your time and you'll see the change.

In fact, it is mainly your personal personality that affects you, you can change, but you must sit up from yourself, people can not change the environment, but you can adapt to change, you know the problem, why not try to solve the problem.

Everyone does a good job and believes in themselves. What does it matter if you do something wrong, people are not immortals. A new environment gives you a new motivation to find all that is good, and you are not the same person you used to be. Come on!

Smiling is a good thing, it can bring you closer to others at once, and it is recommended that you start by smiling at people every day.

Don't break yourself down first, it's hard to do very simple things, just ask you if you dare, be brave to face yourself, just like helping others, bravely stretch out your hands that feeling, find yourself, a little lost.

The future is today Do you understand this truth, do one thing, never think about waiting, only things are waiting for you, and, face bravely, you are now facing brave, believe that you can do it, find the right way and do it bravely, do it bravely, bear it, pursue it, do it all that should be done today, the future will be good, don't be afraid of the future, don't hesitate, don't be afraid, don't think about it, do a good job today, have a good future, stretch out your hands.

People always have to come into contact with society, and I am the same, I was very confused at first, but I still have to face it

If you're a boy, don't be afraid'After all, they are all freshmen in high school'Everyone is not familiar with each other'You can outwardly be optimistic'Love to laugh'Try talking to a freshman'Sit together'Or whatever'Slowly, everyone became acquainted'If it still doesn't work'Not bad yourself'Boys are not afraid of loneliness'Don't be confident'First of all, I can focus more on my studies'You're the first in your shift'Everyone will be impressed with you'I was a high school classmate'I learn there every day'Didn't get up'It's at the same table'It was also him who sent a few words'All counted'However, the overall exam is the first'We didn't snub him'A lot of girls still ask him questions'So if you really can't let go'Let's get ahead in your studies'Eventually, you can get into a good university'Kill two birds with one stone.

The quality of learning can not only be achieved through hard work, there are many choices in life, going to college is just one of thousands of choices, find your strengths, don't care too much about the eyes of others, you must have the spirit of two hundred and five, if you have been like this and do not change, after high school, and four years of college, graduation and work, then you will have endless suffering, while you are young, hurry up to adapt to the environment, and do not let the environment adapt to you.