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Do it, it's up to you to choose what you want to do; If you don't do it, you choose not to do it. How you organize your life is entirely up to you. With all due respect, I don't think your problem is a big deal, but I feel that you have no goals, your life is very floating, you have no focus, and you are not willing to endure hardships, in fact, you are very clear about your own problems, but you don't want to spend time using your brain, so you are asking this question, and you want to easily get the answer you want, is that so?
Or start by asking yourself: What do I want? What kind of person do I want to be? If you can be sure of it, everything will be clear, and the rest is just a matter of whether you can do it or not.
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I don't want to move, and I want to make a lot of money (I can't look down on small money), and I'm the same mentality
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Be persistent in doing one thing, and don't give up halfway.
When you do something, you may not like it very much, and it will be a little annoying, then please don't give up, continue to do it until you achieve a certain achievement, by the way, you just lack self-confidence and a sense of achievement.
It's hard at first, and if you change jobs all the time, of course you find it difficult.
So, keep doing it in one place and do it for a longer time, so that you can have a harvest and find your true personal purpose in the process.
PS: You don't have to invite me to dinner.
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There are several major events in life, which must be done one by one:
1.A skill in life: 360 lines, you must always know one, and at least be able to pass. For example, the management of daily business. In this way, it is possible to survive in society.
2.Marry a wife and have children: have a place to live, be with your wife and children, support them, and raise your children to be productive. Otherwise, I am sorry for the ancestors, "one generation is not as good as the next".
3.My own three friends and four friends: People are group animals, they need to live with others, and they need to take care of them in life. Maybe it's a friend who is bad for you, maybe it turns the other cheek later, but it's always good to have a few.
4.Hobbies: When people come to the world, they always have to see more. Eat what you haven't eaten before, look at what you haven't seen before, and play what you haven't played before. Someone has played it before, and someone will play it in the future. The world is so big, and no hobby seems to come for nothing.
If you spend your time on these few things, you will naturally have your own gains after a long time.
I feel like you're a smart guy. Be clever in what you do. I have a smart mind, I don't want to put in the effort, I can't do anything. Success is achieved by human effort.
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Go for it. Practice your eloquence more.
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Chat with strangers a little more, but not in QQ! If you have a home, take a look at the lecture course "Chen Anzhi".
When you usually interact with colleagues and friends, you have to put aside the boss shelf!
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Hungry, feeling handsome, your mind is full of confusion, and I don't know how to say it
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How can it be the same as me, the current job is no longer suitable for young people like us, we are idealistic and ambitious people, but whenever we have such thoughts, there is always something to interrupt us. Go and do something else, see which jobs are right for you, and continue to develop in which directions.
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Take it easy. It's not bad to pick up a girl first, as long as it's not a lie. The social experience is a little bit of learning.
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