Can she be a former friend from college like this?

Of course you've had friendships! It's just that you didn't know her very well at the time. In fact, everyone has their own shortcomings.

Bear with it if you can, after all, it's a dormitory, right? And the relationship was good before! Of course, she also has a lot of bad faults, selfishness, laziness, and she must have treated you too much as her own if she didn't give you money later, right?

Ha ha! I'm also a college student, and I understand what you say!

What do you think? Do you think you want to treat her as a friend?

The past is gone, and if you are now dwelling about the past, you are wasting your time.

Whether a person is good or bad is not absolute.

There are two sides to everything.

If you think she's a friend, then there's nothing to worry about what she's doing, and you'll accept her as a friend.

All I can say is selfish, it's true, people are selfish.

Selfishness is man's protection of himself.

But don't go too far with anything.

If her selfishness spares you, then you can walk away from her.

Nodding acquaintances can still be done.

I can be a friendship if I have been together! Because you are friends, and if you are friends, you will have friendship! What kind of person she is, I don't know! This is something you need to judge by your own observation!

Friends need to tolerate each other, as long as there is no problem in the general principle, no one is perfect!

How to say, as soon as I go to college, the process of interacting with classmates is originally with the color of knowing each other, understanding each other, and seeing if you are compatible with yourself. Is.

When I was in college, my dorm mates rarely had anything like this.

Remember one sentence: many friends stink because of money.

And don't speculate about what others will do by your own standards. Because that's often with yours.

Expect the opposite. I graduated, and so did my colleagues.

If you don't like it, don't come and go, so why force yourself?

When the water is clear, there are no fish, so why should it be so clear?

The man is still so stingy, it's time to do it, stupid.

I don't think college students have an experience in society, and they don't need to make some friends with alcohol and meat, or some wine tables that they have to go.

College students you are a young person, youth, a young man has friendship development and so on, the development of all aspects of the academic qualifications, ability of all aspects of development of an opportunity and platform, in the university, you can enjoy making friends, enjoy to talk about your own thoughts and exchanges, and that is to say that you can say that you rely on your own efforts to achieve a goal in the university. Of course it's good, you have to make friends who you think are better, or you think we are better in terms of thinking, including mobility, including and so on, then you can be friends for life, right? Even if he works outside, you may need his help, and he may need your help to help each other, which is a good foundation and platform for cultivating a relationship and deep friendship.

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I think it's precious to be able to make a friendship during my college years. Students who have just finished high school will be eager to make true friends when they enter college. The friendship in high school will slowly fade due to the separation of college.

Friendships last a long time during college, because the location of the university is likely to determine the city where you will work in the future.

Even if you go out into society in the future, this friendship will continue. The friends I made in college are very pure, and there are not many interests in the friendship. When you go out into society, you will find that the friendships of the university years are really valuable, because there are many interests involved in the working relationship.

You may even encounter those who betray their friends for job opportunities. If you are lucky enough to meet one or two sincere friends during your college years, you must cherish them. So, how do you start a friendship while you're in college?

When dealing with friends, be honest with each other. We all know it's hard to feel cheated by someone, so be honest with your friends. If you deceive your friends, then your friends will not treat you sincerely.

I think making friends is a mutual thing, and what you do to others, others will do to you. If you want to make sincere friends, you must learn to listen. People who can listen patiently to others will make others feel like you're sharing with them.

Many people in life yearn to meet someone who is a good listener, so that they can talk to him about anything.

If you want to have a very pure friendship in college, you also need to take the initiative. The establishment of any relationship requires one party to be brave and pursued. Whether it's love or friendship, if you want to have it, you have to be bold.

For example, when everyone first meets in the dormitory and the atmosphere is awkward, you invite them to dinner. In this case, it will make your roommate feel like you are an easy person to get close to.

I remember when I was in college, the class had the first class meeting, and the instructor said: In the freshman year, it is normal to have four people in the dormitory on the road, but in the senior year, if there are often four people together on the road, it is very abnormal.

It's true that in college, college is the only way to go to society, and you will meet all kinds of people on campus, but whether it's good or bad, I think it's fate, and we don't have to worry too much about it. But in my personal opinion, college friendships make you grow, although some people say that people you know in college don't really treat each other. If we meet like-minded friends, it will definitely help us a lot, and in the four years of college, we will help each other and grow each other.

But in college friendships, it's not like before high school and junior high school, where everything is done in a group, and you will find that many things in college are done by you alone, and don't expect too much from others. One reason is that there are many electives that are different, and the other is that everyone else has their own time to spend alone. But that doesn't mean it's bad.

Our friendship in the university, in my opinion, must be to make some very positive people, so that it will bring you a lot of help, for example, there will be a lot of seniors who will win awards, and students who have not many professional classes in the class, we will communicate and learn from them more. Learn from others' strengths and make up for your own shortcomings.

When I go to college, my principle is to try to find someone who can make progress and study hard together in a good situation, and I can arrange things every day. If it's unfortunate and I accept my fate, then I'll be myself, it's nothing. I actually don't care, I think I'm a little bit transparent as a college student, there is a saying that "if the water is clear, there will be no fish, and if the person is observed, there will be no fugitives" In modern language, people live too well and they will have no friends.

Communication is an important product of friendship, communication arises, friendship deepens communication. College students have a strong psychological need to find friendship and desire friends, which is a very common and prominent feature of college students' interpersonal relationships. Only by fully understanding the connotation and characteristics of friendship and striving to pursue sincere friendship between classmates can it be more conducive to the healthy growth of college students.

It is the norm to be in college, and it is not easy to have one or two close friends, and the high school classmates who have a good relationship with you are all distributed in the north and south of the country, and they have carried those lonely days by themselves. College friendship is a wonderful thing, I thought I would not be able to handle this kind of thing, but it is not, my roommates are super girls, I am lucky to meet them, I met in the middle of nowhere, and I happen to be in the same dormitory, the relationship is really a complex and simple emotion.

Others say that college life is difficult, especially in the dormitory, six people and eight groups are the norm, and it is common for people to be in pairs of threes and threes, but it is more common for one person to be alone. I don't understand how to define friendship, it seems to be a difficult emotion to deal with in other people, it is difficult to deal with it, but I think I have a good relationship with my roommates, go to dinner together, go to class together, wash up together, and so on, in short, there will be no loneliness. In my eyes, college friendship is a very beautiful thing, it is not the kind of emotion that high school has, the circle of high school is very small, there are so many people in general, it is easy to get to know each other, and college is different, all over the world and the north get together, so ah, college friendship is really important in my eyes.

Now this society is very common to make friends, it is rare to find a confidant, we must refuse to tie up with the rich, refuse to be close to the powerful, not to make friends, but to grasp the balance, the so-called friendship, is to hope that each other can understand each other, tolerate and trust. Friends are when we encounter difficulties, never give up, will pay for us, we help each other, even if we do not contact for a long time, there will be no such estrangement when we contact again, and we will not drift apart. Although we met in college and missed the time of high school, every relationship is worth making friends with our hearts, and we must learn to be considerate of each other, and I value every friendship I have.

I would cry because my friends and I were drifting apart, and I would be happy because I made new friends, so ah, college friendship is a wonderful thing, she can make me forget the unhappiness of being separated from my high school classmates, and now my dorm room is full of laughter every day, and I am very content with the current state. I hope you think the same way about college friendship, and I hope you can make your own close friends.

College friendships are more mature. Everyone has their own trajectory and arrangement in college, and it is rare to have time to get to know a person for a long time, and it is difficult to make friends, however, the friendship in college is more mature because everyone is no longer annoyed by friends who do not reply to messages for a long time, nor will they have conflicts because of some hours, because everyone is an adult and understands the difficulties and sufferings of adults. You don't have to hope to make close friends in college, because life is lonely, but these mature friendships will make people more comfortable.

In fact, as long as you remain sincere with everyone and leave a path for yourself that you can exit at any time.

I used to think of universities as an ivory tower.

The friendships in the university are very innocent, and there is no crooked care.

But after going to university, I realized that university is a small society at all, and there are all kinds of people. I have always believed that part of people's personality and qualities are in their genes, and part is shaped by life experience. People with poor character will not become good students with excellent character and learning just because they go to college.

On the contrary, some honest people may learn badly after going to college. As people often say: it takes three years to learn well, and only three days to learn badly.

The hustle and bustle of the world is for profit, and the hustle and bustle of the world is for profit, and it is also applicable in universities. Alas, don't treat others as true friends because of a certain established situation, otherwise you won't know if you are sold by others. It's realistic to wear all the source pants in college, and if you can make one or two real friends, you're already lucky.

Other people like roommates and fellow countrymen, who don't get along or don't, and living in the same house and being born in the same city doesn't mean you can be true friends.

I'm only a freshman now, and the people I have the most contact with are my roommates and the friends I came into contact with as a former volunteer. The feeling for roommates is that as long as they get along harmoniously, there is not so much communication. They are all natives of Chongqing, I am from other provinces, it may be the influence of my family and all aspects, I always feel that I have different views on many things, not very compatible, and sometimes even a little disliked.

The other two friends are also from other places (one is from Jiangsu, the other is from Shandong, and I am from Anhui) may be from other provinces and close to each other. I like them a lot, so I'm willing to pay attention. Chun Chun is also very fortunate that I was able to meet friends I could play with in my freshman year.

Or divide people, but first of all, you have to correct your mentality, most of your friends are passers-by in your life, maybe the relationship was very good before, you may find that suddenly he has changed, correct yourself, put your emotions and seriousness on the worthy person, don't consume it on the unworthy person for no reason, feelings are a hail to point to a truth, don't wait until the worthy person appears, and finally you have no strength.

I don't know how to pour out all my feelings, but I won't be hypocritical, I am a passerby on the road of life, if I can, I hope that friendship will always be there. Wang Minzhe: Friendship is very important at any time. Of course, university friendships are particularly special and important.

After all, the friends we made during the potato wheel are all believed to be friends we only met when we became adults, and we will know how to cherish each other. In addition, after being trained by the university, the ability will be relatively wide, and everyone can support each other.

I think the friends I made in college are all the ones I keep in touch with in the future, and we all have the same values and can help each other. So college friendships are important.