How to compliment a woman 40, how to compliment a woman

If a woman is pretty, praise her for being pretty; If she is not pretty, you praise her for her temperament; If she is neither beautiful nor temperamental, you praise her for being kind; If you meet a woman who is neither beautiful, nor temperamental, nor kind, she says, "You look healthy! ”

Say her: Say that she is beautiful, beautiful and moving, has a good figure, is the most beautiful you have ever seen, has good makeup, good clothes, has a good figure, looks good in whatever clothes she wears, etc.

You have to praise her for being beautiful, if she is not beautiful, she will praise her for having temperament, if she has no temperament, you will praise her for being gentle, if she is not gentle, you will praise her for being kind...

In fact, there is no need to boast, as long as the words can speak to their hearts. If you compliment, you should be tactful, too explicit will arouse the vigilance of the other party.

Well, well, I also read this article... It seems to be 07 years old...

But if you really want to get to that level, you can read two other books.

The weakness of human nature. And the most talkative people in the world.

Because, the above two books are to change you into a person who is liked by others, and it is also for you to understand human nature better.

Beauty, followed by saying that she not only has external beauty, but also inner qualities are more beautiful.

Pretty - gentle - thoughtful - loving.

Here's how to praise a woman:

1. You can't hide if you like someone, and this person's every move can't escape your eyes, including which white shirt she wore one day, painted a light makeup, etc. These subtle changes may not be worth mentioning in the eyes of others, or even unnoticed, but you already know it.

2, in order to find a platform that can really show his own retribution, Shang Ying used the royal road to test Qin Xiaogong twice in a row, but in fact, what Shang Ying really wanted to admire was domineering. Therefore, just because a person expresses an opinion does not mean that she necessarily agrees with it. On the contrary, perhaps she wanted to hear a different but just right voice from the tens of thousands of people.

That is to say, she is deliberately talking back to find her confidant, the one who understands her.

First, you can use some idioms appropriately, such as praising her for closing the moon and embarrassing flowers, beautiful as a fairy, sinking fish and geese, or sentences with connotations, such as fluttering like a frightening and graceful like a swimming dragon.

Second, you can say your praise in a humorous way, as if you were joking, for example: There must be no moon today, because the light of the moon is obscured by you. Or if my mother has a daughter-in-law like you, she won't worry about her grandchildren being ugly.

Or, I want to say a few beautiful words to coax you, but after thinking about it, only you are the most beautiful.

Third, the most important thing in praising a girl is sincerity, even if it is the most ordinary praise, as long as you praise sincerely, the girl will be happy.

1.Praise the details.

It's too boring to talk about the beauty of the other party, it's like a drop of water dissolved into the sea, and it can't make waves, because she has heard the words of lead too many times, and she has lost the excitement she heard, even if she is happy, it's just a little bit, so you can praise it from the details, your hair is good-looking, you can praise your hair today, and your facial features are good-looking, such as your eyes are so bright and beautiful, **really good, right? I believe that we will definitely be able to find a point that can be praised, we just want to hit the pain point, if you don't know where the other party's pain point is, you can start from the usual chat, or her circle of friends to get information.

2.Not deliberately.

Many people praise each other, and when they see that the other party has sent a **, they will say something like beauty, so beautiful, etc., but it is too deliberate and has no new ideas. To praise the unique, the place that no one else has discovered. Don't boast for the sake of boasting, this is reducing your value, you have to have your own framework, so you can inadvertently, when chatting, suddenly praise a sentence, and then don't wait for a response, continue with what you just said, as if it didn't happen.

If she continues to ask why you say that, then your compliment will be effective.

3.Larger than life.

As we said above, you can't always praise each other in the same way, you have to praise some things that others rarely praise, and what she herself cares about. If you praise a different place at this time, for example, if you find that she has a good voice, you praise her for your good voice, which makes people listen very pleasant, or praise each other's hands for being good-looking, praise each other's temperament is very good, get along with people to give people a very gentle feeling, etc., etc., many places can be praised, and it will make women very useful, because you praise her own one of the advantages of not knowing the pure stove, which is very satisfying to her vanity. Maybe she will look in the mirror to observe the points that you have praised herself, and then you will successfully enter her heart.

Praise them for being beautiful, lovely, gentle, intelligent, and virtuous. Wait, the first one is fine, but in the end, the word "virtuous" may anger your girlfriend, so you need to be cautious when using it!

In the past, we all thought that "virtuous" was a compliment, a compliment to women's good qualities, but now, more and more women regard it as a derogatory term.

According to a survey on the Internet, nearly 8 percent of the "post-95" women are not limited to the role of "good wife and mother", and most of them aspire to become "financially independent strong women" or "maverick cool women".

The word "virtuous" used to praise women for being virtuous, so that they could follow three virtues and four virtues, and three outlines and five constants; Today, it is a metaphor for a woman who is virtuous and wise, who loves her son and runs a family, and who teaches her son well.

From ancient times to the present, the description of virtuous can be said to be a combination of all the advantages of women, but for contemporary women, praising them for being virtuous means requiring them to focus on their families and live according to people's expectations, which is the shackles of the old society.

Here's how to praise a woman:

Women have very different character traits than men. Women are mostly kind by nature, and they are more delicate and gentle. Women are natural emotional creatures, she looks calm on the surface, but she is not silent inside, they crave the care and greetings of others, they want to be listened to and praised, but because they are rich and delicate, if they are not praised properly, it will cause them to be disgusted.

Therefore, when praising a woman, you should pay attention to observation and praise it appropriately and appropriately. Men praise women is an affirmation of women's value, and it is also an appreciation of women's charm. In the eyes of men, there is always something beautiful and moving about women, either **delicate, or slender, or beautiful and affectionate, or well-dressed.

So you have to be good at discovering and capturing her beauty.

Praise others for their benefits

Praise is to think more about the strengths of others, find more of your own problems, and add more connections for yourself. Praise is to avoid substituting blame for solving a problem when encountering it. Between colleagues, between the upper and lower processes, and in the final handover of work, it is easy to have related problems due to the coordination of work.

Sometimes it's a poor work process, sometimes it's a lack of clear responsibilities, sometimes it's a lack of quality assurance for the product, and so on. After the problem occurs, it is necessary to find out the root cause of the problem through the analysis of the phenomenon, and at the same time summarize the problem and propose remedial and avoidable measures.