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For the enemy, hypocrisy is a tactic, and the so-called soldiers are not tired. When two people are hostile and engage in a game, hypocrisy can be an advantage strategy. You have to learn to understand, and even learn to use it, without prejudice.
For example, people can choose between two strategies in this society: "sincerity" and "hypocrisy". When a "sincere" person meets a "hypocritical" person, the sincere person loses (-4) and the hypocrite gains (+4). When the "hypocritical" meets the "hypocritical", neither loses nor gains (0).
Those who are "sincere" and those who meet "sincere" both profit (+2). As shown in the figure below.
A: Hypocrisy A: Sincerity.
b: hypocrisy a=0(b=0) a=-4(b=4)b: sincerity a=4(b=-4) a=2(b=2) if, the number of people who choose both strategies is the same.
Through the calculation, we will find that if we choose the "hypocritical" strategy, our average income will be larger. And when more and more people in society choose "hypocritical" strategies, those who choose "sincerity" will suffer more and more. So caught in a vicious circle, the result is that more and more people choose "hypocrisy", making the possibility of mutual benefit and win-win situation constantly smaller.
In game science, this is called the prisoner's dilemma.
Of course, it is also foolish to be hypocritical to anyone, and it is important to distinguish between friend and foe.
And the "hypocritical" strategy of being wary of strangers is scientific and wise.
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At least be your true self and live to the point where you don't have a second self!
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Now everyone in society has to carry a little hypocrisy to a greater or lesser extent. Because in interpersonal communication, it is very important to choose people and choose the right people, and sometimes you have to do something purposefully to be successful.
Of course, many people may think that this is scheming, or the city is deep, but in fact, it is not, and it is often done with a certain purpose to achieve success to a large extent.
It's just that many people don't understand this truth, after all, they are at different heights, so the points they look at from a certain angle and position will be different.
That's the difference, those who are successful will do something with a purpose, and in the end you will find that they are often successful people.
In fact, there are sinister people in this society, but not this. We just need to do our own thing and not do bad things.
In order to protect oneself in this society, one must use one's own wisdom and courage, and it is often impossible to do without courage and wisdom.
Many successful people will have several essential life skills, courage, courage and wisdom, and life must also rely on certain skills to survive.
So there is natural selection for the survival of the fittest.
In this sentence, people who do not work hard will be eliminated by society, and interpersonal communication is an indispensable part of life.
Whether it's a friend or two, it's all important, in fact, we can deal with all kinds of people in interpersonal communication. But you have to be hypocritical, only then can you protect yourself.
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Of course, hypocrisy is to hide yourself, and if you are honest with others with your heart and lungs, others may not be good to them. Sometimes, hypocritical words can be more comfortable than advice, and if you are not hypocritical, people may sell you in the blink of an eye.
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Hypocrisy? I don't feel like it's hypocrisy, it's scheming to be precise. Entering the society, scheming is a must, not to say that you go to harm others, you also have to protect yourself from being harmed, a little bit of your own careful function to make yourself live a little better, but also a means to protect yourself, of course, this is limited to the case of not infringing on the rights of others.
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In today's society, I don't think there is any need to be hypocritical and sincere to everyone, and life will be better.
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It depends on the situation, the hypocrisy is hypocrisy, and it is necessary to adapt to the situation.
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The atmosphere and environment of this society and change and influence.
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Not necessarily, but with sincerity.
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Everyone in this world.
All wearing a mask, the world is like a masquerade, and everyone's face and heart are full of hypocrisy.
Now the world is full of unreal, false, and contrived.
Everyone has a hypocritical side, and sometimes, maybe some people's hypocrisy does not come from the heart, it may be out of helplessness, or some people are hypocritical from the bottom of their hearts. If honesty is in your quality, then what you are showing at all times is true, and the noise of the world cannot soak the hearts of honest and sincere people with hypocrisy.
The reasons for the hypocrisy of the world are:
First, the living environment:
1. Driven by interests, the nature of profit-seeking is the root of hypocrisy, which is the weakness of human nature.
2. When society is soaked in interests, people's selfish surnames are stimulated, and they are completely and comprehensively exposed.
3. The development of material civilization is out of touch with the development of spiritual civilization. The rapid development of the economy has not been matched by spiritual beliefs. People's world outlook is pale and contentless, the development of philosophy seriously lags behind the development of the economy, people lack the guidance of realistic philosophical thoughts, and completely fall into the concept of money, and the theory of money has become a guide for people's understanding and action in real life, and has become the only spiritual pillar, which is very terrible, and it makes real life everywhere There are hidden dangers of disharmony.
This is actually a kind of historical and realistic sadness. It is very worrying about what will happen to human relationships.
Second, the reasons for personal quality.
1. Self-advocacy under inferiority complex.
2. The camouflage of the emptiness of the heart.
3. Helplessness that sometimes arises in life.
4. The need for self-expression.
5. Selfishness and falsehood.
6. Caused by great vanity.
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The real society forces people to be hypocritical, and conversely, hypocrisy just caters to this real society.
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Society is too realistic! There is nowhere to talk about reason! Powerful and rich is the way! Helpless!
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Society has progressed, but people have regressed.
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We used to cherish it very much, because the invisible hand of the years slowly stripped off the halo of love, and also made the original vow fall into a shard of crystalline glass. Love is to be rinsed in time, either precipitated into a yellow**, or it blooms in our simple life. We don't meet in the water, happiness is not a momentary feeling, it melts into the sweetness of our hand-holding, and melts into the seemingly mottled life.
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Society has progressed. Sixties rustic.
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The landlord calms down! Now is the time!
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Society is not hypocritical.
Only hypocritical people.
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It's because there are too many hypocritical people. Otherwise, how could it be so hypocritical
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Not all, the world is beautiful and to be discovered. There are many hypocritical people, but we can't generalize, and society really needs to be improved.
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Don't be too kind in this society.
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- MC** "Titanic Rap Electronic Music".
Today's society is too hypocritical.
Everyone has a layer of skin on their face.
The attitude of life can only be said to be too vicious.
Sad and helpless, I won't admit defeat.
I love this network and give me a stage.
Whether or not is still waiting, with all the dreams.
Freedom to fly, whatever the future holds.
Hypocritical people, hypocritical masks, you have been judged out by me.
In the end, the desired result is a kind of relief.
The silhouette of the past is like an unquenchable fire.
Burning in my heart, how small I am.
Like a small bird, it can never fly high.
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Because the times are changing, people in ancient times advocated the way of sincerity, but in modern society it is not possible, because if you are not hypocritical then you will be hurt, and in order not to be hurt, people will begin to learn hypocrisy, and later they will not be able to remove this mask.
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False, desperate for money or some kind of profit
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In the real world, people are becoming more and more hypocritical, and almost everyone wears a veil and acts as an insincere self. The word "friend" has become more and more abstract. The meaning of friend has different concepts in the eyes of different people.
Friends, no matter how long they have known each other, no matter how many times they have met, as long as they treat them with sincerity, they are friends. Some people, when they use friends, try to compliment them, and when they achieve their goals, they scoff at them, and even ridicule and ridicule you in front of other friends, and belittle you in front of others, in fact, this is not a friend. It's just a tool he wants to take advantage of when he's in trouble.
Friends, not every day to contact, although the world is all over the world, but when will the other party not lose contact with you will not forget your mobile phone number to ask who you are, maybe because of each other's busy work alienated relationship, but the holiday text message is also a warm thought, friends, not everything has to be reported to you, friends, the longer the more true, the more plain and pure, the more sincere the longer. A true friend, when you make a fool of yourself, he will not laugh at you coldly, he will not look at you coldly when you are in trouble, he will not help you, and he will not run away like a ghost in fright, a real friend will not be jealous of you when you are excellent, when you tell him the secret. He won't spoil you or even take it as a handle.
When you are sad, he will persuade you with sincere and simple words, and when you are worried about work, he can accompany you to relieve your boredom and tell you some truth. A true friend, only one step worse than a lover, only one level lower than your parents, a true friend can accompany you through your life until forever. True friends are of no age, no matter whether they are male or female, nor are they classified as ranks, nor are they rich or poor, as long as you are sincere enough.
A true friend, when you are in a difficult situation, listens to you, he will not just take it as someone else's business and listen to the joke. True friends will try their best to help you, understand you, and pull you along! A true friend will not cross the moral bottom line to occupy your love or physical object!
True friends, let alone scolding, because friends respect each other, even if there are any contradictions, they are held in their hearts, at most they are estranged from the relationship, and they will not scold, if you can scold your friends, then you are not real friends. True friends, there are many sayings, in my eyes, this is a real friend, if a person has two such friends, then I feel that this person is really happy and lucky. However, lucky people are always rare, so when you have such a friend, you must cherish this kind of friendship, treat all kinds of emotions with your sincerity, and true friendship will last forever.
I wish you good luck
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