Who can help me? Interpersonal relationships have high points

I think you spend your time communicating with him, it's better to study your career more, and when you succeed, I think he may come to talk to you, maybe men's things should be solved at the wine table, or maybe you are not mature enough, this kind of thing can only let time calm down, let time prove everything, some things can't be forced to be too demanding, too deliberate but backfired, like your cousin, even if you really reconcile with him, the two of them have been so unfamiliar for so long, Getting along is only superficial, so why not put some effort into other good friends? The so-called distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors, aren't they?

Ha ha! Your brother is very similar to my brother! My brother is wilted too! I always beat my little report ......I still feel like it's ...... to gnash my teeth

The above genus is joking.

In fact, I think my relatives are the most uncomfortable and provoked, and they are connected by flesh and blood - this is something that no one can deny, and my brother and I didn't have a very good relationship when we were young, but now that I'm older, I don't make trouble. After reading your explanation, I don't think your brother is a very generous person, or you are not very outgoing, it should be so! If two introverts are together, they can't speak openly, because everyone cares a lot about what the other person is saying.

So I think we should be with him in small things, and do something with him, and the relationship should be improved.

And if you really can't communicate, and everyone has different ideas, then don't force it! It's good to be an ordinary relative! Don't mess with him!

Snobbish people don't pursue it too much......

Brother, to your cousin, you can find a space with only two people, tell him openly and honestly, I believe he will understand I believe that he is also the same as you, his heart is kind!

Brother, it's not like you can solve the problem by giving more points.

It's all men, you find a friend who is better with both of you!

Go out for a drink, and as soon as you drink, you will talk about everything! ~！

Really tried and tested! ~！

Don't want such relatives.

Some things have been stuffy in your heart, and after a long time, they have become misunderstandings, and if you don't say it, the other party will not be able to understand your mind, so you need to communicate with words.

This kind of person is very snobbish, he will not be satisfied with any method you use, that is, if you give him the passbook, in the end he will rub you, there are so many friends in the world, there are too many such people, no matter how many friends like me are, no matter how many friends like me are, isn't it!

Do things well and make achievements. You don't have to bother with someone like that. When he needs you, he will come to you and beg you.

I don't think your cousin is really like a man, why is he so vindictive! A person like this is really not worth paying attention to! But since it's a relative, look up and see you, look down and see you! I guess since you're both so introverted, just use letters to exchange ideas with each other!

It seems that he is a more stingy person, and you are more generous. Then give him some benefits, such as inviting him to dinner, seeing what he likes the most, and giving it to him. I guess he won't mind anytime soon.

Both of you are introverts.

I specially invited him to a meal, and told him the words you typed out during the banquet.

Find something that needs to be done together to do ...... together

If the hair is not cut, it will become longer, and if the misunderstanding is not actively resolved, it will accumulate deeper and deeper.

If he still has to make an awkward relationship with you like this, then don't pay attention to him, it's not worth it.

Is he your brother, or is he your brother?

Is he really your relative?

If it's really like you write, then forget it, don't pay attention to this person in this life, it's not interesting! No one dictates who must communicate with whom in this world and must get along!

I don't quite know what your purpose is to accept other people, so I'll just make two points. Please refer to the following.

First, we must understand that interpersonal relationships are mutual. It's not a one-sided change that leads to good relationships. There are two points you should pay attention to, be inclusive and expand your circle of friends.

Second, people need a lot of life experience in this life, and the standard must be high, but I don't know what you think about this high definition. In short, you have to learn to be good at discovering the good points in others and absorbing them, so that you can get a higher level of promotion, and only then can you be accepted by more people. You must learn to make appropriate trade-offs between your own personalities.

The only principle is the purpose of your question. Let's take a good look!

Be open-minded, be cheerful, and care more about others.

Is it for all the people, or for the people who like you? Or is it someone who is pursuing you?

Is it commensurate with your qualifications and the demands you place on others, who is to blame?

Actually, I'm like that, but I'm stuck with the status quo. Sometimes it's easy to get along with them without thinking about them.

Scold!! At a glance, you know that you are a young man who is eager to find his other half.

You haven't met someone you like before, that's why you're very demanding of others! When you fall in love with someone, his or her shortcomings are nothing in your mind!! Yue Lao won't forget you, don't worry!! You'll find your sweetheart someday!

That's because you take yourself.

In fact, people are not perfect, they have their own advantages and disadvantages, you carefully observe, is not everyone has advantages and disadvantages, not only see the shortcomings of others, but also see the advantages of others, everyone has everyone's way of life and work, you can't ask him, this is his characteristic, you just do your own thing. Don't look down on anyone, that's a sign of immaturity!

In fact, I am a little similar to your situation, because my principles for people bind me, but nothing, as long as you think that you are doing the right thing, you should do it, and you have your own beliefs and ideals, there is nothing, and you have to be smarter in dealing with people, but not to be careful, to be smart, but to say what to say, what to do, is to be sensible, to be sincere to friends, don't be careful, especially good friends, and friends pay more attention to the kindness and level of the tone (can improve your affinity, I don't know if you understand the meaning of this sentence) Some people should pay if they should not pay and deal less with him, have to deal with a few words, I am like this now, I advise you to grasp yourself, as long as you are capable, talented, moral, and sensible, there will definitely be people who appreciate you, don't lose yourself in the circle of friends in order to get the so-called recognition of your friends, and change yourself, this is the loss of watermelon and sesame seeds, the gain outweighs the loss! I'd love to make friends with the landlord, mine.

Any kind of person can do foreign trade, as long as you like this industry, have confidence and perseverance.

Of course, interpersonal skills can help you adapt to the job more quickly, but they are by no means necessary.

Foreign trade is mainly through mail and ** and foreigners to communicate, if it is to do domestic sales, you need interpersonal skills.

I used to be that kind of person. Actually, there is no other way! Exercise more! Don't be afraid of being embarrassed, embarrassed, etc., socializing more will really help you a lot in the future!

Relationships are intrigued, and no one answers them. Learn to make relationships that serve all life.

Try to speak to yourself in the mirror when you're fine, and practice your ability to speak in public.

First of all, you have to learn to communicate, talk to others more, or just go to sales, let go, and say everything.

It can be said that I am the same as you, and I can say that it is different, I am very introverted, and I also like one.

How to improve interpersonal skills? Keep these three points in mind to get you out of trouble.

I don't think I have a high emotional intelligence, but I know how to manage relationships.

If you want to get along well with others, it shows that you are a person with a good nature. So that your problem is well solved.

What's the use of talking, chatting? Providing meaningful information to others is the most important thing. Getting information from others is secondary.

If you genuinely care about others, understand their needs, and provide useful information and other help, you will be able to speak to others in a warm atmosphere. And it's not limited to the length of the conversation.

The above things have been done, and you will have more and more conversations in group chats, because the principle is the same.

Does someone else matter? Significant. Because it is our parents and society as a whole who raise us, we should repay them, which is much more important than the enjoyment of our personal lives. Understand and agree with this, and no one will feel that you are indifferent anymore.

I'm the same as you, but don't worry, but I haven't met anyone who is really worthy of us opening up, and I just treat people you know or don't know with a tolerant heart on weekdays, and you don't need to care what others think of you, but you have to ask and remind yourself from time to time, be a kind and honest person!

The so-called like-minded....Your interests are different from theirs...The first skill of communication is "appreciation"...You have to grasp this well

The status quo has been formed, and you and I cannot change it.

Now you need to do: first, remove her! Set permissions as you wish in your own space settings.

Avoid people you don't like to visit and disturb. Second, ignore her and live your life. Young people, the prospects are very good, why spend a lot of energy on the past things in space.

She doesn't have that kind of mind, whatever she thinks and says is all self-talking, and she can be used as exhaust emissions! Stay away, don't be affected, and live yourself. Third, since you have broken up, don't have any intersection with your ex-boyfriend, otherwise it will affect your future happiness.

The current face is a good example! The world is so big, the world is so vast, why bother to lose your future happiness for a ruined relationship? With him, and her, cut through the mess quickly, and always have an emotional intersection than one!

She has a strong feeling of jealousy, specifying that your boyfriend is not very good to her. For her, you just block her, out of sight and out of mind, why suffer for yourself.

Also, you reflect on what is wrong with you.

Tell her: Please take care of your boyfriend and whether you like others or not.

What is a human relationship? It's not your relationship with others, it's your relationship with yourself.

Actually, I don't know how to you, because I think you are similar to me, but I think you can consider ignoring these things, no matter what they do, just ignore it, because such classmates or friends are not worth socializing.

After listening to the lecture "Mindset Changes Destiny", you can improve your interpersonal relationships.

Take a look at Professor Liu Yongsheng's book, which may be helpful to you.

To be angry is to punish yourself for the mistakes of others and forgive your enemies, because this is the last thing they want to see.

The struggling in the society has infiltrated for a long time, and it is natural that the spine of the chamber can be polished sleek and sophisticated, left and right, and exquisite, do you really want to become such a person, interact with people more, and summarize experience in various occasions to increase your personality charm; (I can't write it, I can only write 100 words).

Interpersonal relationships involve many abilities of individuals, which can only be analyzed by looking at specific examples.

Communicative skills are very important for a person, if you want to improve your communicative skills, you must understand the psychology of people, I recommend you to read two books: Carnegie's "The Weakness of Human Nature" and "Posture and Slowness Square and Circle" by Ze Ding Yuanzhi, which will teach you what to do. It's all about comprehension. Hope it helps!

Something annoying and unavoidable.

Of course, some people like it very much.

For that female classmate, you don't have to think too much, a true friend won't betray you easily, but you also have to be sincere to her is Naizhou, we can't decide what others do, all we can do is be worthy of her....For that male classmate, you Chang Minyu can make your thoughts clear, but don't be too tough, junior high school students are easy to be impulsive.

Hang out more with the female classmate in parallel to find out if there are any conflicts or misunderstandings between you. As for the boy, maybe you should talk to him. It means that you have no plans to fall in love now. *^

Go with the flow, being together is fate, and sometimes you can't force it.