What should I do if the financial situation affects my dealings with friends

It is recommended that you go out and find a part-time job while studying your homework, and the time can be more flexible. As long as your time is tight, you don't have time to think about things like that. I had this experience when I was in college, and then I got a job in the school library as a book organizer and a tutor, so I had little free time.

Even when I have free time, I go to play with fellow villagers who are not from my school, because they are still easier to communicate with. It's not like everyone else is out to play, and you're alone in the dorm room, or you're reluctant to go out with others, and you're looked down on by others because of your shyness. In any case, we must learn to be self-reliant and self-reliant.

Poverty is temporary, but you must have the ambition to change your poverty.

Stay away from them, you're going to school. It's not about spending money. Your loneliness is temporary. It's like you don't have money in your pocket for a while. Study hard and repay your hard-working parents with good grades is the right point.

Don't care about this, don't be too inferior if you don't have money, puff up your chest.

Blend in with your sincerity if they look down on you.

Then you look down on them, because they don't deserve your respect.

I think you're thinking too inferior!

I also feel that it is not the economic conditions that affect the interaction with friends, but your thoughts that affect the interaction with friends.

On the other hand, because you don't have any money, you look the other way, and I don't think there's any need to have a relationship.

Friends are handed over, not spent with money!

Is your family poor?

Then earn your own money

The school has a lot of grants, as well as scholarships, work hard in the school, you will be more wonderful than them!

In reality, find a life circle that suits you! Things gather in kind, people in groups!

Believe in yourself, the power is in your heart!

Making friends pays attention to heart-to-heart, and economics pays attention to profit-seeking, which is something that is not related to the wind and horses.

Can't go too close, can't go too far, pay with your heart!

It's up to you to get along!

If you have a good relationship, it's not so easy! Because you can't be too clear between you! Because if you calculate it too clearly, you will lose that kind of human touch, but if you don't count it clearly, it may damage your interests! If it's a regular friend, that's fine.

Forget about the small economy, forget about the big one. But it's best not to have interests with friends, many of them have become enemies because of money! Remember

Look at how good you are to her, if you really love her, why care about the family situation of both parties, I like a girl, his family is very difficult, but I love her the same! Love is spiritual, money is material, just distinguish it clearly! Oh, bless you

It's stressful, but you have to secretly determine your relationship with her in your heart, and then ask her how your development will be, you can also bend a little and ask you if there is that possibility, and also look at her personality, whether she is willing to have a deep friendship with you, and then look at the weight of money in her mind, maybe it will be better to have a relationship again, relax and try, everything will be answered with your own efforts, and if you don't work hard, you are daydreaming.

Hehe, there should be, otherwise he wouldn't be a normal man. However, it depends on the woman, if you pay more attention to material things and immediate interests, of course, it will put a lot of pressure on the man. So, the first thing to solve is not the problem of men's psychological pressure but women's, or to give men enough confidence, since you decide to be with each other, many things, especially material, don't pay too much attention to immediate interests, because this is very hurtful.

As long as both parties care and love wholeheartedly and work hard to maintain this family, then some material shortcomings in front of them are nothing.

It's a bit stressful.

But the key is how you feel about this kind of pressure, you should show more of your strengths, after all, your girlfriend likes you, and there must be some advantages in you.

So you have to play to your strengths and avoid weaknesses and play to your strengths.

As long as you have faith, you won't run out of money for the rest of your life.

It should be a little bit, but don't belittle yourself and elevate others

I hate boys like this the most.

See if he (she) has a hatred of the rich. Don't show the power of money in front of others. Fellowship with your heart, treat people equally...

You need to be careful with your words and don't make your friends feel inferior.

Pay attention to your words and deeds, the way you do things, and pay your fees.

Generally, girls from rich families are mostly vain and love to compare! Since you're planning to be with her, you're prepared for this. Just like what I said upstairs, it still depends on your own efforts, and time will prove that she is not wrong in choosing you!

There are also 2 people who love each other, and one of them does not need to have an inferiority complex.

Just work your own How important is the background of the family The key is that you have to work hard, if you don't work hard, no one wants.

You said it yourself, girls like to be motivated, then you struggle, she can see your efforts.

A real girlfriend won't look at your pocket! He's interested in your motivation! Let's struggle!

Just work hard and I wish you happiness.

Money is not everything, no money is really impossible, even true love will hope that their man is a sufficient economic foundation, and if the economic conditions are not good, they should work hard to improve, instead of dwelling on the question of whether your girlfriend is with you for money, whether true love is only you can experience, and no one else can help you.

Care more about her, occasionally buy something for her to show your heart, ** within the range you can accept, not too expensive, otherwise she may think that you spend a lot of money or think that you have enough money.

Chat with her more, don't make people feel too lonely, let others take advantage of the situation, talk to her more, share the bits and pieces of your life together, and she will feel that her status in your heart is not low.

Don't talk about it, or talk less about what he can't usually afford, and don't talk about what other people's boyfriends bought and gave away, and ask him to buy you some cheap little things, trinkets, etc., so that he can be confident.

I have boyfriends, and I don't know how to get along?

It's very simple: let him pay outside, if he can't pay, don't buy (or treat) without outsiders you pay, and secretly give him more material support.

If he doesn't have machismo, it doesn't matter, it's all about feelings.

You have to think about it, you will have to face a lot of things when you live together in the future, will you dislike him for not being capable? Not as good as yourself? Is he worthy of your relationship? Life is very realistic, think it through.

I advise you not to get along with her, just like young people over 25 years old, every relationship they talk about now should be premised on marriage, and before starting every relationship, you should carefully consider whether there is a need to start the relationship. In fact, I think what the ancients said is really reasonable, such as "the door is right". Of course, I'm not saying that you should find someone with the same family conditions as you, at least the education and salary should be about the same.

Listening to your tone, I think you should be a doer, you should be a very responsible person, and I suggest that you do not associate with this woman as you have just described. Like this kind of pampered only daughter, the eldest lady's temper, can you stand it? Even if you get married in the future, you will be bullied by her everywhere, you are going to marry a wife, not to marry a big Buddha to go home and offer, and how do you know that her character is really gentle, which woman can't pretend.

If you really start a relationship with him, it's better not to start it.

Brother, you are a real person, I appreciate it. In fact, people are very practical now, I think the one you mentioned is very good, she can say that she is excellent in every aspect. As for academic qualifications, those are all false, you can earn money, and having a house is king.

4,500 a month is already a very good salary, which is said that the salary of the vast majority of people in Beijing is 18,000 is with a blowing component. Brother, you can get along with her.

Trust me, she won't take a fancy to you. Beijingers, well-informed, what kind of people have not seen, how can they take a fancy to you.

It's okay for you to be narcissistic, but don't be too unrealistic either.

Friends, there is also garbage in college.

But I want to ask you if it's appropriate to use it on you.

It's good to be able to find one like this.

With all due respect, I think LZ is naïve, you're looking for a girlfriend, not an employee.

Do you still expect your girlfriend to support you for the rest of your life?