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Is it time to get divorced? No, think about your current daughter and unborn baby, can you bear to give them a broken family? I know that you are troubled and depressed because of your in-laws' problems with you having a boy and a girl, first of all, a wise woman should know how to adjust her mentality not to affect the health of her unborn baby, so you should try to maintain a cheerful attitude!
You can see how much you love your child. Then, you should first open up to your husband about your feelings, your depressed feelings, see what his reaction and position are, if he is a reasonable person, he should help you be a mediator between you and your in-laws, and ease it down; If his attitude is hesitant, you have to grasp his heart tighter, let him feel sorry for you, love you more, and let him stand in your position step by step, because the baby must be born, and it is not up to you whether it is male or female.
I wish you happiness!! ^
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You have to talk to your husband about this unborn child and your family. Tell your feelings and let him share them with you, this is what he has to do. You are still pregnant, so mood is very important, for the sake of your baby you have to adjust your mood, a good mood is essential for the development of the child.
So you have to be strong, children are your lifelong dependence, don't let yourself have regrets. What a blessing it is to have two children, and two daughters are a blessing to you. Leave anyone else's mind, even your mother-in-law.
If your husband still loves you, he will help you, the key is to see how you talk to your husband.
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You can't get divorced, and it's not a problem between husband and wife, why do you want to divorce, you take marriage too lightly, right? It's not up to you to give birth to a boy or a girl, so is it possible that they won't want to give birth? And having children and daughters are all your own, as long as the two in-laws have a stable relationship and firm confidence, no matter what is born to a man or a woman, you will stand firmly, that is the crystallization of your love.
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In fact, there are fewer feudal old people now, in fact, such a trivial matter will not be divorced, can you tell your mother-in-law that she is also a woman? Now, if your daughter has the ability, she can take care of you in the future.
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Have a good talk with your husband or in-laws, after all, having a boy or a girl is not something you can decide, you can't put too much pressure on yourself, and it's not good for you or your baby. There is no need to divorce if you and your husband have a good relationship, both men and women are the crystallization of your feelings, the old people are feudal, do more ideological work with them, and have children really can't be forced, you can only follow fate.
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This is not your husband's fault, don't divorce, or beat the child, and get pregnant again, there is no way to do it in a traditional habit like China!
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If this family is really so serious, and your husband listens to them like this, then I advise you to leave early
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As long as it is your own baby, they should like it, you are married to your husband, not to his parents, and you still have to live your own life.
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Boys and girls are the same, let them change their minds, don't divorce, and there is no problem for two people.
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Daughters and sons are the same! Your in-laws' minds need to be greatly liberated! Tell your in-laws how much it costs to have a son!
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They may not be able to accept it at the time of birth, but it doesn't matter, they will like it as they grow up.
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First of all, do the husband's work first, and then let the husband patiently persuade the parents and the old man to change their views.
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What age is it now, I think the concept of the elderly needs to be changed, and it is the same for boys and girls.
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Why should the two divorce if they have a good relationship, the children are their own, and they are the same for both men and women.
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Dear, as long as you have feelings, you should not choose divorce.
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Let's talk to your husband. See what he thinks.
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What the doctor says is not necessarily accurate.
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It's none of your business to have a boy or a girl, it's not your husband's business, who is it.
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Legal analysis: Divorce without leaving home means that the man and woman still live together after divorce, and a cohabitation relationship is generally formed in the case of divorce without leaving home, and a series of problems arising from the cohabitation relationship are generally not protected by relevant laws. The law does not specifically prohibit cohabitation, but it is also necessary to guard against the legal risks that arise from it.
Legal basis: Article 1076 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China Where a husband and wife divorce voluntarily, they shall sign a written divorce agreement and apply for divorce registration in person at the marriage registration authority. The divorce agreement shall clearly state the parties' expression of intent to divorce voluntarily and the consensus on matters such as child support, property, and debt handling.
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Legal analysis: After divorce, a person can have a single independent household, which belongs to a separate household registration and cannot be regarded as a family in the legal sense. The family is the basic social unit that is bound by marriage and blood, including parents, children and other relatives living together.
Hukou, also known as hukou, refers to a legal document produced by the administrative organ in charge of household administration of the state to record and retain the basic information of the household population. It is also the proof of identity of each of our citizens.
Legal basis: Article 5 of the Regulations of the People's Republic of China on Household Registration is based on the household. Where they reside together with the person in charge, they shall be established as one household, and the person in charge shall be the head of the household.
If you live alone, you will be the head of your own household. Households residing in government agencies, organizations, schools, enterprises, institutions, and other units and public dormitories are established together or separately. The head of household shall be responsible for filing the household registration in accordance with the provisions of this Regulation.
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After the divorce, it should be counted as an individual.
After the marriage relationship between a man and a woman is dissolved in accordance with the law, they no longer have a legal relationship as husband and wife, and the relationship between a man and a woman is no longer treated as a family relationship, but can only be counted as an individual. If a man or a woman has a dispute over common property and goes to the people's court to file a civil lawsuit, the people's court will handle it in accordance with the provisions of the law on joint relationship, and the property acquired by each party shall be treated as personal property, and the property acquired jointly shall be divided between them; Generally speaking, only in the case of children, the man and the woman are considered as families, and as the parents of the children, they should bear the obligation to support the children and pay maintenance to the children.
Legal basis] Civil Code of the People's Republic of China
Article 1049:A man and a woman who wish to marry shall apply for marriage registration in person at the marriage registration office. Where the provisions of this Law are met, they shall be registered and a marriage certificate shall be issued. The marriage relationship is established after the marriage is registered. Where marriage registration has not been completed, the registration shall be re-registered.
Article 1080:When the registration of divorce is completed, or the divorce judgment or mediation document takes effect, the marriage relationship is dissolved.
Your second child is only four months old! Now your wife is a little bit of a sign of depression! You really should spend more time with her, the warmth of home is not just a person to pay, you work very hard, she is not idle at home with children, empathy, it is not easy! >>>More
Maybe it's still too young, and the handling of many problems is still lacking, and it has not yet reached the legal age of marriage to get a license, and maybe you can't really understand what marriage is when you hastily enter the marriage, these may be the antecedents of the problem, of course, it is useless to talk about these now, the problem now is that you have to have a good talk with your husband, you say that you still love him, then look at his thoughts, if he still loves you, then you have to work hard for your future life, (As for the house you are talking about, you are still so young that you can do it by your own efforts, as long as you have faith in each other and your future, then these so-called problems are not a problem.) If he doesn't love you anymore, that's okay, pack up your own mood and start over, you know? For a man who doesn't know how to love you, doesn't know how to love you, the smart girl's approach is to leave him as quickly as possible, dear you are still so young, there is still a long way to go, I believe you will find the one who really loves you, bless you!
This kind of man is easy to do extreme things, so find an opportunity to secretly record his threats to you, as long as there is evidence, call the police immediately.
You are so realistic, and you already have your answer in your heart, you don't need us to say it, I know my answer will not be the best, but I want to explain, since you have your ideas and your decision, don't come here to ask, we said let you continue to do you, not to mention that we are not you, love or not is not a question you consider at all, you just hope that we say let go, so that you will leave the peace of mind, you are looking for spiritual sustenance for yourself, maybe it is not right, if I say it wrong, you will be when I haven't said it.
Go with your own whim.
I'm afraid that arguing every day hurts the children more than divorce. >>>More