Should I choose a divorce, should I choose a divorce?

Go with your own whim.

I'm afraid that arguing every day hurts the children more than divorce.

Just be confident that you can take care of yourself and your children.

Do what you have to do.

Some people are just tepid.

It may not be the life you expect.

Either include or leave.

It's useless to complain all the time.

I think your husband might be that kind of character.

If you can tolerate it, go ahead.

If you can't bear it, get a divorce.

Better a finger off than always aching.

I'm glad that you have the ability to stand on the society, but you don't love him anymore, and you definitely don't feel happy living together, but I feel that you are a traditional and beautiful person, can you accept a marriage without love?

Divorce will definitely have an impact on your children, and it will not be without you at all, and your parents will also be worried, but the current situation is that you are a foot in mud when you move forward and backward.

Does he love you, does he deserve your love, if you know the answer, go first, live together, or leave him.

Marriage is a grave, love is blind, you didn't find him like this when you fell in love with him! When you got married, you said that I was willing, didn't you think about it, I said it easily, since I have entered the palace of marriage, I can't easily come out, you can't guarantee that your next one will be good, when you return to that home, try it as much as possible! If you make the last effort, you can only say that you have given up!

You have to talk to your child well, although he is still young, the child will have his own thoughts in his heart, you have to let him understand you, you can't let him grow up and think that it was you who filed for divorce, so it's you who is wrong! Let's make a final effort.

Are you asking too much of your significant other? Can you lower your requirements for him, because everyone has their own way of life. I'm similar to you, my husband is not self-motivated, he doesn't speak at a level, he doesn't care about anything, and he gets by as if he is a monk.

Educating children only knows how to scold loudly and does not talk about education methods, so children don't like him very much, and there are many shortcomings, and they are more introverted. His only advantage is that he is considered to take care of his family and has a sense of family responsibility. Now the two of them can get by together.

Therefore, I think that if you can live it, you will be happy, and sometimes you will be happy when you are loved, don't ask too much of him. You may feel better about getting divorced, but do you plan to look for it again in the future? If you look for it again, although there are no shortcomings of your current husband, will there be other problems that you can't get along with, because there are many problems that arise when you get married, and you would never have thought that there would be so many problems before you got married.

Besides, everyone has his shortcomings. It would be best if he would make you happy in the future. This is my personal experience.

If you really can't live together anymore, just leave, it's not necessarily a bad thing.

But it's not good for the child, but it depends on whether he can change it, and the worst plan is to go with his own ideas.

Noisy! Don't bear it anymore, when your little family is about to be broken up by her, and your troubles become everyone's troubles, she will know that it is amazing. Moreover, I have to say, you married a mother's treasure man, if a man does not know how to mediate smoothly between his mother and wife, no matter how good he is in other aspects, he is doomed to be a failed man!

You are the one who will accompany him all his life, will you harm him again? Who is an outsider to give birth to his family? You are also the treasure of your parents, why did you become grass in their house?

Since it has been gentle and useless, then don't bear it anymore, just say what you should say, make trouble, but also be reasonable and virtuous, and try to pay as much as possible for the family. There are two possibilities, one is that he is afraid of you, or he recognizes you, in short, he doesn't toss you. The second is that your husband wants to divorce, and he really can't leave while he is young!

When the time comes, I will remember you well, enough for his mother and son to regret.

Dear, this is the matter of two women loving the same man. It's not clear who is right and who is wrong. But I think men should come out and deal with this contradiction.

For example, it's better not to live with your in-laws. There will always be contradictions in living with the elderly, and this is a matter of life and cognition. It's easy to hurt each other if you get too close, so it's beautiful to have a certain distance?

Otherwise, the woman's parents come to live with you, and the mother-in-law lives with the son-in-law. So it's hard to explain this matter clearly. If you're having such a good time now, I think you should take your mom over and live with you.

This will spread it out a bit.

Marriage, at the beginning of the moment, is destined to have a lot of ups and downs, and no one's marriage is only smooth sailing. When encountering these problems, it is not necessary to consider whether to divorce, but how to get through with them. In the long course of this marriage, you are destined to encounter storms, what will you choose in such a time?

You can divorce them and find another one, but are you sure there won't be any setbacks? Divorce as soon as you encounter setbacks, then get married, and in the end, do you think about who is hurt the most? When a wave hits your boat, do you choose to jump in, escape by yourself, or face it with him.

In the case of divorce by agreement, after negotiation between the two parties, they should go through the divorce formalities at the original marriage registration authority with the divorce agreement, marriage certificate and ID card of both parties, and receive the divorce certificate on the spot;

If one party does not agree or repents of non-performance after signing the divorce agreement, then the divorce shall be filed in the court where the defendant is domiciled, or in the court where the defendant has resided for more than one year, or if the defendant's whereabouts are unknown or imprisonment for more than one year, the divorce may be filed in the court where the plaintiff is located. The first instance is generally 6 months, and the second instance is 3 months. If the court does not leave the first judgment, it can file a new lawsuit after half a year, and the court of the second prosecution should generally rule away.

As a man, you must learn to deal with the relationship between your mother-in-law and your daughter-in-law, so that you can be called a man, if you can't even handle the relationship between your daughter-in-law and your mother, then there is no need for such a man to live with him, but there is an old saying, I would rather tear down ten temples than break up a marriage I don't want to break you up, I just think that this kind of man has no self The old man's words have to listen to the daughter-in-law's feelings and have to consider the feelings of the daughter-in-law Once neutralized, it's OK

If he loves you, he will be willing to believe in you, people live to be happy. Two unhappy people are really not as good as a happy one, try to communicate with your husband again. If you really can't get a divorce!

You can empathize with it, you won't be so angry, I also live with my mother-in-law, and the old man sometimes does something unpleasant, but I will endure it at the time, go away and not let the conflict increase, think about how to make things small, and never let my husband know about the affairs between my mother-in-law, otherwise it will destroy the relationship between husband and wife.

Khan, have you communicated well with your mother-in-law, and you haven't communicated well with your husband, just because of your mother-in-law's divorce, you can be sure that you will not meet a more powerful mother-in-law in the future.

No, you should think about how you loved each other at that time, using the good against the bad

My husband is a very stupid person, and it is the most difficult to get along with this kind of person, so it's better to think about it.

Sometimes looking at things from a different direction and a different perspective is not like that.

Pleasing the daughter-in-law and pleasing the mother. bought a gift for my mother, saying that my daughter-in-law bought it; Buying a gift for his daughter-in-law said that his mother bought it. Old-fashioned, but practical lol.

You should send this to the same city or circle.,It's easy to be overwhelmed here.,The post over there isn't updated so quickly.。

It's time to communicate well with your husband.

It is better to demolish ten temples than to break a marriage.

Asking questions is on the edge of separation.

I don't know what to do.

I don't know what to do.

Mom wanted me to leave, but Dad wouldn't let me go.

At present, there are two types of divorce in China: divorce by agreement and divorce by litigation. Whether a couple can divorce depends on whether the relationship has broken down. A divorce may be granted if one of the following occurs:

(1) One of the spouses is bigamy or has a spouse who cohabits with another person; Clause.

2. Committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members; Clause.

3. Gambling and drug addiction and other bad habits that have been repeatedly taught; Clause.

4. They have been separated for two years due to the breakdown of their relationship.

Ask the child that the older is 12 years old and the youngest is 10 years old.

He doesn't take care of his own money, and he can't take care of making money by himself.

If there is a breakdown in the relationship, you can choose to register a divorce or file a divorce to try your best to fight for custody of the child.

My wife can talk, is it okay to eat my husband's heart? To divorce or not to divorce?

Talk to him well and explain the misunderstanding clearly. After all, divorce is not good for children.

The word divorce is definitely a simple vent at this stage of yours.

It seems that except for your husband who is sorry for not washing diapers, the other in-laws have not done anything wrong that you will never forget, so that it can reach the point of divorce.

It can be seen that behind the story, your aunt really did not play a good role; The strange thing is that your marital relationship and your aunt-nephew relationship can actually make you entangled.

The only thing that can "compete" with the marriage relationship is the father-son relationship, and the relationship between aunts and nephews cannot reach such a height at all.

One-sidedly, I even think your man is doing the right thing.

Your aunt's enthusiasm doesn't know where it comes from, it's unexpected.

I hope you can stand firmly on your in-laws' side when there is a conflict between your in-laws and your aunt, this is the original effect of the marriage relationship, and it is also the determination you should have made before marriage.

First of all, this matter is not worth the divorce.

From this matter, your husband is too small. There is no generosity at all. However, this matter will take time to solve.

You have to make him understand that if his parents don't approve of your marriage, you end up getting married. Is it hard for you to aspire to his parents?

You have to make him understand this.

Both of them have misunderstandings.

Find everyone out, have a meal, drink tea, and chat.

Let's just settle the matter in person.

Everyone has been entangled, and you will always be the one who suffers.

If you don't make things clear for a day, your aunt and your husband's relationship will only become more and more stiff (your husband's person is not generous at all, if you had listened to your aunt and didn't choose him, do you think your current life would be so hard?). )

The road is walked by people, and when more people walk, it becomes the road.

You shouldn't get divorced. You can have a calm chat with your husband. You can't just talk about it. Since your husband gets angry every time you mention your aunt. Then you will be spoiled to him. So that he can listen to you.

It's not a big deal, you still have feelings, it's just that people are digging a little bit and are very persistent.

It is advisable not to divorce.

1.The child is breastfeeding, the law will not support.

2.The contradiction is not too deep, and society will not agree with it.

3.There is still a foundation for affection, and relatives will not agree.

There is affection between you, don't divorce because of your aunt's affairs, the word divorce is too serious, you have to do your husband's work, let your husband do your in-laws' work, and you have to do your aunt's work, and then both parties are doing it, talk about it well, and explain those misunderstandings clearly. In fact, the main misunderstanding lies between your aunt and your in-laws, which will affect the relationship between you and your husband. I'm sure you'll take care of it!

You are living with your husband for a lifetime, not with your aunt for a lifetime, I think you still have to distinguish this, although your aunt has been very good to you since you were a child, but after getting married, because of their bad relationship, they are so stiff, so that you have the idea of divorce, but in the end, your husband is still very good to you, so you still have to be ruthless, less contact with your aunt and them, and live a good life now than anything else.

It's better not to leave, so it's not a big problem, and misunderstandings between people can be resolved. You slowly tell your husband a little bit about how good your aunt is to you, and say it at the right time. Over time, your old man and his family will change their opinion of your aunt.

Your family will be happy.

As you said, I think there are the following:

1.Whether your relationship has reached the point of non-breakup (if not, take it and don't divorce); 2.Do you understand what he's thinking right now (talk to him about it)?

3.What is the real reason for his reluctance to work (tell him the truth about the specific situation of your family now, you can't afford the whole family alone, but don't mention divorce)? 4.

I think that a person who always keeps his illness in his mouth is certainly not too sick or better (just like a person who is not drunk says he is drunk). He is a drunkard, not in alcohol. But you must not mention in front of him that he is not seriously ill, and a man must die to save face).

5.Do more fun with him and make your pistachios with your children.

The above opinions are for your reference, and I wish you a happy family life.