Preparatory worries for group life

Hello classmates. I think you're helpless thinking about this, and I've felt that these situations have made you unhappy for a long time.

Everyone has a lot of shortcomings, and you know this very well. But now that you're graduating from high school, you won't have to be in such a situation in your life in the future. Because although the university dormitory also has a few people living in one room, the students who enter the university have grown up, and basically there will be no more fights like high school.

You don't have to worry too much about this.

The university is like a condensation of society, and learning to communicate and get along with others is also a compulsory course. But you don't need to say what you bought, you have to give it to everyone, or someone will ask you to do something and give you a chewing gum. Generally these situations are not very easy to arise in universities.

You can keep your own habits and not have to deliberately use these superficial behaviors to maintain relationships with your classmates.

I suggest you that. If there is any opinion in the future, it can be expressed in a half-joking way. For example, if the other party does not pay attention to hygiene, in fact, you can bring it up when chatting with him alone, maybe the other party is still distressed by this in his heart.

Classmates ask you for help, this is a kind of performance that needs you, you don't need to eat his things, help unconditionally, in fact, as long as you do something to help others within your ability, you will not suffer. Do you think so? I believe that when you need help from your classmates, you will bring it up in time, and everyone will be happy to do so.

Think about the fact that you are about to be separated from these roommates with personalities, on the one hand, you have some resentment with them, but on the other hand, you will never hear the loud fights again. Isn't it? Why not cherish the last moments?

Wish, happy!

I think students can endure it, but if they can't, they can apply for a dormitory change.

Then live in an off-campus rented house

My family also said that they hated the atmosphere of the dormitory, and it was okay to play, the key is. Well, talk to your family about it. It's not worth it to have a good college life.

In fact, it's the same there, if the school dormitory is good, live in the kind of 4-person room, I haven't heard of it. I really can't rent a room outside the school, but that's more and it's not convenient. In fact, sometimes we have to be considerate and tolerant of each other.

When you get along, you will be happy in college life.

You have to adapt to group life:

First of all, be clear about the importance of collective life. The collective is an ally of your classmates, colleagues, and friends, and it is your circle of life.

Actively engage with the group. Participate in various group activities and build close friendships with them.

Develop a sense of community. Communicate with everyone, share happiness, and share responsibilities. Think of yourself as one of them.

In order to adapt to the group life as soon as possible, you should do the above 3 suggestions, and I hope you will integrate into the group as soon as possible.