Loved a friend who had been with me for 7 years! What should I do?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-03
60 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Think clearly, if you start chasing her, the situation will change, are you mentally prepared, how will she react, how to deal with it, whether it is acceptable, please think about everything before making a decision, don't act rashly, after all, it is like a lake, breaking the peace, everything will change, you have to anticipate it first! Don't be kind and half-bad, mess things up, and make the relationship stiff! That's not good!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Chase. Such feelings are reliable and solid.

    This is true love.

    Don't miss out.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's wonderful that good friends turn into couples.

    Everyone knows each other better, so let's go out if it's suitable.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Don't act rashly, lest your friends can't do it You should first tentatively find out how he feels about you If he also has the intention of course, it's good to hit it off If people don't have this heart for you You belong to the unrequited love type Or let go as soon as possible Otherwise it's yourself who suffers In fact, it has become a habit after being together for a long time The so-called long-term love is not outdated, and habits become natural As long as you don't think cranky, you won't fall into it Sometimes thinking is really terrible.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's a good relationship over time, and everyone knows a lot. It's much better than love at first sight, and love at first sight is ruthless.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You're going to spend 50 points asking about this kind of thing?

    It's a shame. Just confess directly.

    Be generous.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    See people's hearts for a long time, brother.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    This is called a childhood sweetheart.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If you feel that your feelings for her haven't changed at all in half a year, then go for it.

    However, don't affect your study life, I think.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Love to speak out loud!(Although this is a bit earthy, but this is the truth) tell your friend to go back to the fierce offensive first, and fight to the death.

    Then I suddenly became cold again, and I saw if the girl would suddenly feel lost.

    Then after a while, ask your friend to contact her.

    Eh!But in fact, whether you love it or not, it depends on that girl

    Ah, if you don't feel it, then it's the same result in the end.

    Barely good .

    However, don't give up easily.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    There is no special skill for this kind of thing.

    If she knew it was still like this, it would be difficult.

    One more sentence to advise him: Don't hang from a tree.

    Learn gogo!!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Oh, the relationship question Bai asked me. I'm amazing.

    The first thing is to get the favor of the female classmate zhi (note, don't go once.)

    Chase her from the beginning. This makes it harder for you to get along with her).

    Second, you need to understand your classmates' hobbies, temperament, and don't make people angry with nothing.

    Third, talk to her once in a while. Be careful not to be too smiling. After slowly chatting and getting acquainted, I started chasing her.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It seems that your friend is very introverted.

    Du, what girl do you want to like to be with a taciturn boy who doesn't understand the mood? Rong may have a lot of boys in his class who are better than him, who do you think she will choose?

    If you want to solve such a problem substantively, you have to try to change yourself. Have more contact with friends, but pay attention to your words and deeds, don't backfire and don't know how to talk nonsense. I don't have many words, the main thing is that I will see through other people's hearts!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It's just that you like it, and you say it's a friend, you don't even have the courage to say it here!

    I know that no matter how emotionally I am, I will "support the bold and regret the faint-hearted".

    See for yourself.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Take him and a few girls Bai often go out to play, and he feels bad about it when he has a lot of time

    Well, don't die on the five trees.

    After he has been in contact with the answer for a long time, he will have his unique views on these things, and I think it will be useful for you to tell him how to do it at that time, which is much stronger than you can reason with him!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    What you're saying is not realistic, if a girl is admitted to college, what about your buddy? If that girl doesn't study well, the best way is to be accompanied, it's good for a long time, there's no good way,

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    He should take the initiative to talk to that girl, at least they have to understand each other. It's just that it's just like this blind zhizhidao, it doesn't work at all!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Let's ask what kind of boy she likes first, and then slowly make your friend's popularity rise, so many people will reply.

    Say that your friend is good, answer that she will be tempted, will not ignore you so much, maybe can talk, slowly become a friend first, and then slowly develop, it's good, boys chasing girls is a very troublesome thing, especially if the other party and you don't call, it will be even more depressed, then you will find a chance to get close to you Good luck pulling.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    You can tell your friends that the girl doesn't necessarily dislike him, it's just that she focuses on studying, and you have to tell your friends that if you study well, you will naturally get her heart, and you will think about it when you are admitted to college! Remember, as long as you study hard, you will have anything.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Slowly care about playing together.,There's a feeling after a long time.,No matter how much you confess.,If you don't agree, you can't give up.。。。 I can't give up even after graduation. He will succeed!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Don't believe the fake upstairs.

    It's really hard to change, it's normal, time grinds slowly, be confident.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Why did you want that woman to like him???

    It's the most beautiful thing to hide in your heart!!

    If you get it, it's hard to say.

    Looks like your friend is an introvert.

    What you can't get is the best, what you keep in your heart is the most beautiful, and you can't experience it when you get it.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Landlord, you're talking about yourself. o( o haha

    Crush it,

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    It depends on what kind of person she likes.

    du first of all, she has to be a good learner

    Then you have to study hard (girls like to answer themselves better).

    And don't go out of your way to talk to people. It is easy to cause disgust. Occasionally, you have to pretend to be handsome.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    It's not okay not to like to say bai, no girl du likes to be with wood.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Then be friends and continue to cultivate relationships. Opportunities arise by accident. Who could have predicted what would happen next? If there is a suitable opportunity, don't let it go, otherwise you will regret it.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Then don't cross over, I used to be like this, but after we got together, I found that the feeling was wrong, but I couldn't go back to before, and I lost a good friend...So be sure to think it through.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Is it really only good friends with you?

    If you are 100% confirmed, don't confess, it's really bad to be embarrassed or not even do it with friends.

    If that person has a melancholy attitude towards this issue, does not deny it and is not sure, then seize the opportunity and don't regret it for life!

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Take your time, feelings can be cultivated, it's just that they don't feel that way for you for the time being.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    In fact, it is harder to be a close friend than to be a boyfriend and girlfriend.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    The best friends can stay together forever, and lovers may be separated.

    It's up to you to choose.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    If the emotional thing comes all at once, will it give people a very fake feeling?

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Alas, emotional problems, now I know that it is really annoying,

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Tell him, so that you will not leave regrets for yourself, otherwise when it comes to separation, you will regret it, maybe you will be rejected, but regret in your heart, the same is a result, confess, why not?? As for not being able to be friends, then I also tell you as a man, a man who can attract people (boys will definitely continue to be friends with you, if you can't be friends, then this person is too stingy and not worth your liking!)

    Finally, I wish the landlord happiness!!

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Don't say it, it's nothing after failure!!

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    After all, I want to say it!! Otherwise, are you going to hide it for the rest of your life? Maybe he'll like you too?

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Then it depends on who he likes.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    It's barely coming, it's up to the person.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Love still has to be fought for by yourself.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Love is selfish, and if the protagonist loves himself then he must not let go.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    A person may have 10 or 10 suitors, but he or she has his or her own choice, whether it is 1 or 10, he or she can choose one of them or none at all. Whether it's you, your friends, or more people who like this person, this person has their own options. He or she can choose to be a friend or a lover or...

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Love is selfish! Good luck! ~

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Call your favorite candidate.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    It depends on the situation, see what the girl's attitude is, if she likes you, of course you have to compete.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    This has been experienced. I like a girl at the same time as my best brother. (He didn't know I liked it) I rotted it inside. It's been 2 years, and they're separated.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    To fight, if you don't want to hurt your feelings, go find another wing.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    If it's a good friend, he will bless you if you succeed, and I am...

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    If he likes you, take it.

    If he likes your friend, why let himself fall deeper and deeper.

    If he doesn't like fair play.

    If he who likes to leave him this person can't want.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    Have you ever heard of humility in love?

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    Care about her, take care of her, become friends with her first, and then slowly develop it will be better, and then observe her reaction, if she also has a good impression of you then boldly confess! If you can't eat hot tofu in a hurry, rely on your sincerity and personal charm to impress her!

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    If you have nothing to do, go shopping

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    It's just to get along with friends, and then go to friends' houses all the time.

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-18

    This is not very easy to do, if you have the opportunity to **, send a text message, talk more, and see what people think!

  54. Anonymous users2023-12-17

    It depends on what you pay attention to, if you pay attention to friendship, you can only give up love!

    I make my own love decisions, and I will fight for whoever I like, at this time.

  55. Anonymous users2023-12-16

    Does the premise be that you know each other? If it is, then there's nothing to let this thing go, don't let something go wrong and let your friends blame you for the rest of your life.

  56. Anonymous users2023-12-15

    Oh! You're so complicated, if you encounter this kind of thing, it's better to be friendly -- you can just reject the guy and then make it clear to him, you can talk to him about her good things and match him with her. She, you can say to her:

    I don't like him! Don't be like this, I really don't like him, I've rejected him... Something like that.

  57. Anonymous users2023-12-14

    Tell your best friend that you don't like him, and go to see the guy together, (because it's you all together,) and be honest about the relationship between the three of you, and your best friend will be very grateful to you.

  58. Anonymous users2023-12-13

    Emotional matters are not something that can be humbled, grasp your own happiness, and don't hurt three people.

  59. Anonymous users2023-12-12

    And the explanation of the inner man -

  60. Anonymous users2023-12-11

    Go and talk to the man, and it's better for the man to talk to your friend, and you have to make it clear.

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