My mother objected to my love and threatened me with suicide, what should I do?

If that's what you say, your mother is very selfish! There are such parents who use their daughters as tools to marry large sums of money. I don't think your mother doesn't see the good in your boyfriend, she just thinks he's poor.

Ignore her threats, she won't really kill herself, just scare you. Always remember that your life is your own, and you have to hold it firmly in your hands. You can behave very much in front of the big money introduced by your mother, and let him buy expensive things every day, he will always be scared away, o(o....

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Affection? Love? Which is more important?

Weigh it yourself! My point of view: It is not too much to give up love for the sake of family affection, and it is also forgivable to give up family affection for the sake of love.

Since you love him so much, stick to your own point of view, and discuss it with your parents more, so that your parents can see that you are happy in the future, and they will not be unreasonable. It really doesn't work, the last resort: follow their example and threaten them with death!

If there is love, there will be results, persevere, or give up, love is a matter for the two of you, and your mother can't interfere!

Like you like him, try to make your mom find out too.

If you really don't agree, you have to listen to your mother.

It is very likely that people will marry someone in this life who is not what we really like in our hearts.

This is this society, dark and ugly.

Don't regret it after giving up, parents have to do ideological work, not necessarily you. Your relatives and friends. All ...

You're the best away from home! Your mother won't do stupid things if she can't see you! She's just threatening you!

If it's true love, remember to bury your mother.

Find a man and take your mother to fun.

First of all, in love and marriage, the protagonists are both men and women, whether it is suitable or not, the two of them know best, the choice made by both men and women, regardless of poverty or wealth in the future, it is also willing. And if the parents force it in, what is it, it's not the parents who take their wives, it's not that they choose someone to live, to put it mildly, how many days can they live, and who will be with whom for life in the end.

2. What is the intention of those parents who kidnap their children with filial piety, just because they don't like it, what is the standard for them not to like? On what basis do they set this standard, and why do they impose their standards on their own children. What's more, are their standards right?

When children grow up, they have their own criteria for choosing a mate, and parents and children have different cultures and educations, and they are together because of their parents' choices, which is called helping their parents get married.

3. Parents have raised their children, and children are obliged to support them, but they can't use this to control their children's lives. As a child, there is no need to accompany your life because of filial piety.

Having said this, I mean that as a modern young person, you have to have your own opinions and ideas, and if your partner is not with you because of your parents' opposition, congratulations, you are out of danger, and you have to be glad that you did not marry him. Because such a man can be kidnapped by his parents once, there will be countless times, and his wife will live with his parents in the future, and there will definitely be many conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in the future.

If your partner is firmly with you, it proves that he is a responsible and assertive person, and he is still worthy of your trust, but at the same time, you should pay attention to the fact that his parents oppose but he is still with you, this matter cannot become a bargaining chip for you he pays you, and it does not become a conflict in the future, he will say that I have turned against your parents and something like that to kidnap you, and if he wants to be with you, no matter what he does, it is a matter of course.

Since this is the case, it is better to break up, even if you are together in the future, there will be various things that make you unhappy and happy.

Leave him, and don't let him bear the charge of unfilial piety.

You don't sentence much, at most you have a troubled conscience, let's be honest! You'd better break up with this girl! It's too extreme and sloppy, this phenomenon will appear in the future, your parents' opposition is right, after all, they are more experienced than you and will know people!

There will definitely be unsatisfactory times in the future, and there will be a lot of trouble with her character and approach, especially between your parents and her! You have to think more! When you see a discussion, you will make a decision.

To prevent him from committing suicide, you must kill him before he does. STOPPING SIN FROM HAPPENING ... Or go tell his parents, and then play missing, and find another one after a while

Hurry up and persuade her to come back and persuade her not to do stupid things.

If you really love him, go up and hug him and run, cry, talk very moving, tell him that you love him, and if you can't, call the police quickly.

She's not happy, otherwise she wouldn't want to commit suicide, you have to make a decision quickly.

This idea is too extreme, it's a bomb.

Often like this, you can leave it to him, so that it is spoiled him.

You won't be sentenced, anyway, your girlfriend is tiring enough.

If you have a psychological problem, if the problem is serious, you should call the police.

Ask an emotional expert to solve it. On the battle of love defense, let Tu Lei talk about it.

Try to slowly cold her, ease the relationship with her, and slowly change from lukewarm to cold to me.

There's no other way, just communicate with him.

I would like to give you a piece of advice: there are many cases where women break up and propose suicide, and they are generally fake deterrents. Just be calm. Of course, this answer is not absolute.

Your story is also playing out on a lot of TV, question 1There is nothing wrong with your parents loving you. 2.

Your boyfriend should be encouraged to be more aggressive, or you should work together to achieve something. 3.Even if your boyfriend is a poor boy, whether you can rest assured about his character and all aspects, and whether you will be happy with him.

Listen to what your friends say about him, because you are the authority, and the decisions you make in a relationship are not necessarily pertinent.

I understand the landlord very well, and it is difficult to give up after 5 years of affection, but a marriage that is not blessed by parents will not be happy. Parents are also the people we can't hurt the most, we can't afford it, I myself caused a lot of harm to my parents in marriage when I was young, and then I encountered a lot of problems, as I grew older, there were some opportunities for me to understand that they were the retribution of unfilial parents when I was young, really. Now I don't dare to be disrespectful to my parents at all, and I regret my past willfulness.

Recommend a book to the landlord "Life is your own little bit of hard work", you can search on the Internet, it is a biography, the landlord can take a look, it will be helpful to you.

After all, my mother is a person who has come over, she will know more, and she will think more, she must love you and worry about your future.

As a person who has come over, I advise you not to be too naïve, no matter how good your relationship is, you must have a certain material foundation to support it, and poor couples mourn everything! Your mother thinks a lot about it, and of course it's for your own good, think carefully about your future!

Do what you think is right, but you must be clear-eyed beforehand, in other words, see if your boyfriend and you are real. Suppose you ask him, like if we were to go and start a self-made business on our own, would you still be willing to join me? In short, see your boyfriend clearly before deciding.

After all, it's not easy for anyone to find a true love, and if it's really true love, then your parents shouldn't be too embarrassed.

That's how my girlfriend and I got apart. In today's material society, love may not be as important as money. Divide it, even if you get married, your family will look down on your boyfriend for the rest of your life, and he will feel that he owes you and can't be with you on an equal footing.

If you want to believe your mother, don't look at her bad attitude, very tough but it will never be wrong, maybe your mother can't listen to what you say, but what you owe your parents will never be paid off My mother is the same as you, and now I have a child who knows the suffering of my parents.

I'll tell you, I also recommend that you don't get tattoos, one of which is that my friends have a lot of tattoos, and now they all regret it, it's not easy to find a job, it's hard to find a wife, tattoos are not good for the body, and parents are very opposed to children's tattoos, if you get tattoos, it will put psychological pressure on your parents, they will think if we gave birth to you, you are not satisfied with your body, it hurts your parents' hearts, so it is recommended not to get tattoos, it's not good, it's good, it's so good, it's clean, I hate tattoos! I hope I don't get a tattoo!

Do tattoos look good?Swimming?If you're still filial, don't get a tattoo...

Love! Even if his actual actions to you always hurt you, you don't need to give him a chance, no matter what he does, he has to be responsible for his own actions and has nothing to do with others, (including suicide.)

The most important point is not to believe in any promises made to yourself lightly in the future, the promise is nothing, because you can't do it to promise yourself, the most important thing is to look at the action

Don't worry He's just talking, there's no need to worry about him. Even if he really committed suicide, he can't blame himself, it's his psychological quality problem!

If there is a real relationship between them, you can consider getting along.