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Among the new senior high school students, some children are in the third year of high school, but their hearts have not yet entered the third year of high school, and they are still high in class, practice, self-study, homework, exams and other links.
First, the state of the second year of high school, unhurried, leisurely, greedy for play.
This type of child is too careless to take revision and exam preparation seriously. When the child woke up and wanted to catch up, the other classmates did not stand in place and wait for him, and finally regretted missing the long-awaited school. In fact, only when the foundation is solid and the first half does not fall, can we exert force and accelerate in the second half.
If you don't need to work hard at the beginning, when you really want to work hard, you want to run the same distance as others in half the time, how difficult is it?
A small number of laid-back children are not nervous or hard at school, but when they return home, they are racing against time to make up for it. As a result, an interesting phenomenon emerged: although they did not study and play, they always did well in exams, which made many students envious.
Of course, such children are very rare, they are leisurely and relaxed on the surface, but their hearts are very tired, and it is also a kind of consumption. At all, it is not confident enough at all, and there is some vanity. If such a child can let go of the burden in his heart, express himself sincerely and generously, make full use of his time in school, and work hard when he should work, he may be able to achieve better results.
There are also a few laid-back children who plan to study abroad, as long as they successfully get their graduation certificates, they will be satisfied. Although such children do not need to compete too much in cultural classes, studying abroad has higher requirements for the overall quality of people, and it is hoped that these children will pay close attention to improving their reading, writing ability, self-management and other non-intellectual qualities. In this way, not only will you have something to do and live a fulfilling life, but it will also be good for other students to concentrate on revision.
Because each child's learning foundation, learning habits, personality and life plan are different, so their state when they first enter the third year of high school is also different. With the acceleration of the pace of revision and the increase in the frequency of exams in school, children who do not like to study will also be nervous by the environment and atmosphere. Parents should not repeatedly talk about the importance of the college entrance examination, and do not compare themselves with other children.
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Start by knowing and listening. Try to communicate better with your child, there is no such thing as the most correct, only the most suitable way to get along.
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Start by knowing and listening. There is no such thing as the most correct, only the most suitable.
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Go with the flow and don't put too much pressure on your child.
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1.Parents should be concerned about their children at all times.
Children in the early stages of the college entrance examination are usually more stressed and eager to receive care from their parents so as to reduce the pressure at school. Therefore, parents should care more about their children in life.
2.Don't put too much pressure on your child.
Children who are about to face the college entrance examination are under a lot of pressure at school, not only physically, but also mentally. So when the child comes home, you can let the child relax properly.
3.Be a reserve army for your children.
The college entrance examination is like fighting a war, children are stormtroopers fighting on the front line, and parents are supporting the reserve army on the front line. Nutrition is very important for senior high school children. Parents should ensure that their children are nourished.
4.Be a pump for your child.
The college entrance examination is coming, and various exams are inevitable. It is inevitable that children will make mistakes in exams, so parents should encourage them correctly to regain their confidence.
5.Give your child plenty of personal space.
No matter what stage the child is in, he has his own secrets, even in the college entrance examination, the child does not want the parents to involve their own space excessively.
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1. Provide help in life and do a good job in logistics.
For students in the third year of high school, they already have their own opinions, know how to study, and the importance of being admitted to college, so most students will race against time to seize the third year of high school and work hard to learn and improve.
As a parent, the biggest help for your child is to do a good job in logistics and give your child enough support in life. For example, pay attention to the nutrition of your child's diet, and be able to serve a glass of milk after your child learns to help relieve stress.
2. When the child's grades decline, express understanding and comfort.
In the days of preparing for the college entrance examination, students will face a variety of exams, and their grades will also fluctuate.
If the child's psychological tolerance is weak, parents should help him face the momentary gains and losses correctly when his grades are declining, so as to avoid the child's discouragement and burnout of learning.
3. Find out the psychological changes of children and find out the root cause in time.
In the third year of high school, for every student, it is not allowed to be sloppy, and a temporary desertion will affect the improvement of grades, and then lose in the college entrance examination.
As a parent, in addition to being busy with your own work, you should also communicate with the class teacher in time and pay attention to the psychological changes of your child; When children are bored with school, or for other reasons, they are not motivated to learn, parents should find out the reasons and correct them.
4. In family life, urge children to develop a good routine.
If you want to maintain high efficiency in learning, you can't do without a good work and rest, and only by sleeping well at night can you ensure that you can study during the day in an efficient manner.
If the child lacks a certain amount of perseverance, cannot adhere to the study plan, and even stays up late to study, then as a parent, you can remind him that he should develop a scientific and reasonable work and rest habit, so as to ensure that he is energetic and achieve the purpose of continuous improvement of grades.
Friends who have experienced the college entrance examination know that in the third year of high school, it is not only the time to fight for learning ability, but also for a person's comprehensive quality, so students need to study hard, be aggressive, and adhere to a reasonable schedule in order to improve their grades in an orderly manner.
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