The psychological pain of a lie

Hello. After reading your message, I feel that you are really a good child who is filial, capable, and can think. You feel that you have deceived your parents with one "beautiful lie" after another, and you feel bitter that your conscience is reproached.

I think any parent wants their children to be happy. I think your parents are too! You agree with that, right? So they send you to study in a foreign country. Do you allow your parents to have such wishes?

If so, what are you like now that your parents would like to see?

I guess the happiness of their children is more important to a parent than anything else, isn't it?

And the question is, are you really happy, are you really happy?

If not, why?

Do you think it's just because of your cheating parents? Or is there some other reason?

Is it because of a diploma that doesn't mean anything but proves that you have completed the course of the major?

If you have a college diploma, you will be happy in life, and you will be happy.

If not, what does that look like?

Don't use your parents as a shield, stump your parents to shelter you from the wind and rain for a lifetime? Stumped that your parents just want a diploma with no contents?

You are responsible for your own life. The real joy of living is also shared with your parents, and I think this is what your parents would like to see.

As for how to do it, I think you're planning well!

Not only to start a business, but also to get the graduation certificate, and more importantly, to live a happy life and share it with your parents.

Wishing you happiness and happiness!

What is the difference between self-examination and specialty?

Don't take it seriously.

Specialties are also good. Even the three undergraduate books are not worth mentioning.

In fact, the two undergraduate books are not much.

One has to be a good one to be worth mentioning.

Now that I have entered the society.

Then go to death for your education.

Hello, first of all, you are a very psychologically healthy man, who knows how to feel sorry for your parents, and is very independent, and is a role model for many peers to learn!

In fact, a college diploma is not much use, know that sympathy for parents is more precious than that piece of paper, if you can't get it, you don't get too angry, the body is the capital of the revolution, the road has taken a wrong step, it's useless to regret it in a hurry, listen to you describe that you are doing business, the body is the capital of the revolution, and you can repay your parents if you do a good job, learn to use, parents hope that their children will succeed in school, in fact, they hope that you have a good home, since you can be independent, it is a good thing, It's better than many undergraduates graduating from home and keeping their computers at home.

In addition, it's not the end of the relationship, there is still hope, so don't you torture yourself anymore.

If you think of the worst and really can't get it, you can hide it for the time being, and then concentrate on your career, and find an opportunity to admit your mistakes to your parents when they are happy or your career is improving, and I believe they won't blame you.

Finally, I wish you all the best.

How can parents and children have an overnight feud? You better confess, confess to your research, or your business!

Try to win the exam first, if you really can't tell the truth, what else do you have to hide from your family, be frank and lenient. Hehe.

Analysis: You can't have both fish and bear's paws. Compared to the self-examination diploma, your business is really good.

Suggestions: The self-examination can continue to be completed, and the business must of course be better and better. The purpose of taking the diploma is nothing more than a higher quality of life, and your two-step walk is a good thing and something you should be proud of compared to the steps of other students.

Lying, for me, is nothing more common, sometimes it is said unconsciously, without going through the brain at all, it is directly yes or no; Some make up some lies to satisfy their selfishness.

What does it feel like to lie to achieve your goals? Obviously, of course, I feel very satisfied, because as long as I say a panic, I can do what I like many times, and besides, it doesn't take much effort to lie.

Of course, the lie is considered to be a successful completion of the task, but once the lie is exposed, or the lie will be covered up with a lie in the future, the heart will begin to get tired. After debunking or making obvious outbursts to make people see the flaws, they will no longer feel how clever Cayde's own lies are.

The problem is that so far, what makes me uncomfortable is not my lies, but why I wanted to talk to people related to Chaosencha in the first place. People can tolerate their own lies, but they can't accept letting others see through them.

I think the most poignant lie is the lie that Mom and Dad tell for themselves. It's that I'm studying in college outside, and I'm likely to go back once a semester, and then my parents won't shop online, and many things will be bought in life, but maybe I won't buy them because it's expensive, because it's cheap online, and I will often ask them what they lack, and then they will say that they don't lack anything. I still often ask me if I have enough money.

If it's not enough, send me some money. I know that there is no shortage of things, and they are afraid that if I buy things, my living expenses will not be enough for me to live on my own.

I also have a super sad thing, also because of a lie, that is, when my grandmother died, my parents didn't tell me, they were afraid of affecting my studies, because I was in the third year of high school, and then I didn't go to my grandmother's funeral, it was a week after my grandmother died, and then they told me when I got home on Saturday and Sunday, in fact, they thought it was for my good, but I really think that seeing my grandmother for the last time, or even seeing the last side in the crematorium, is more useful than me reading a book for a day or a month, Because I think that kind of thing is an emotion that can't be measured by how many books I've read. Then I felt that this kind of lie was also quite sad.

"I don't love her, I have nothing to do with her, don't worry about it".

Many guys will say such things to girls, but the girl's eyes and sixth sense clearly know that he is in love with another her. Boys always don't admit it at first, when girls ask about him and another her, boys always answer like this and blame girls for a day of suspicion, girls know it's a lie but still don't dare to think about it, psychological hope that all this is their own thinking too much, sad or scared, always have to lie to themselves, know that they can't deceive until they can't deceive. When you see your boyfriend looking at another her, you know that your boyfriend is in love with her, and no one is more familiar with that look than you, because at the beginning the boy also looked at you like this, you want the boy to answer like this and hope that he will boldly admit that you are sad alone in your own world.

You know it's a lie but don't dare to debunk it, you think that as long as you don't say it, it won't happen, and you can definitely go back to the past, but the girl's sixth sense is really scary, all your feelings will not be groundless, your relationship has come to a head, and the ending has long been doomed, it must end with his empathy and don't fall in love. You want him to admit it and hope he doesn't admit it, but you are very sure in your heart, whether he admits it or not, the way he looks at her will not deceive, and he will not die to be seen by you, all the tenderness he once gave you is now given to her, you never dare to think about it, I hope it is all an illusion, he still loves you, as before. I hope that every girl will not hear such a lie, let alone experience such a sad feeling, the fear of the heart hanging on the cliff, whether he admits that your heart will eventually fall into the dust and be torn apart.

I hope that every boy is absolutely infatuated, absolutely loyal, and never abandoned.