I don t like all kinds of parties after work at night, isn t it unsociable?

It's not that you're not social, it's that you're different, but instead, you're special because you have your own mind, and you know what's right and what's wrong!! You know what you like and don't like, you can have a party, but you have to see how meaningful it is, if it's a party that you have to go, for example, if it's just for fun, you don't have to go, because the party will definitely drink, and drinking will make you a bad person, and it's good to be a different self!

No, it's normal to want to have a little time for yourself after work, and it's not necessarily unsociable, anyway, I think so.

Maybe the personality just doesn't like to be lively and introverted. Me too, it's okay that the three of them are my best friends in groups, but when there are many people and most of them don't know each other, I get bored. Although it's not unsociable, it's still a bit bad for communication, and if you don't have a really resistant emotion, you can go for it, and you can have fun when you get acquainted.

It's just a personal hobby, and I don't like all kinds of parties, and I'm so tired after work!

Everyone has their own way of life and ideas. It's not fun to have too many parties. Occasional chatting together can also enhance the relationship, and the daily party loses its meaning, and the party is a comparison and bragging. Nothing else.

Not necessarily, maybe your personality is a little more introverted......

UFO for a minute seems to explain the situation.

To put it simply, I don't want to be forced into a group and do things I don't want to do. Neither bad nor good, just proof that you are someone with a purpose.

In the workplace, it is not enough to rely on communication at work, many times, the deepening of the relationship between people is often in activities after work, such as the private communication such as dinner parties and ** you said. Because this can relatively quickly shorten the distance between each other. But seriously, if there are too many such activities, one is that it will really affect your life and waste too much of your energy; Second, it may also cause unnecessary waste.

My advice is that if it's your first dinner party at a new company, it's better not to say no and try to attend. After all, it's a great way to quickly integrate into the team. Especially if the dinner party organized by the boss is better not to refuse, it may be a kind arrangement that he wants to help you integrate into the team, so that everyone can get to know you and make your work better in the future.

If you push back the arrangement in this case, you will disappoint the good intentions of your boss, and it will also make your colleagues think that you are too maverick, which may cause some distress to integrate into the team and communicate well in the future.

But for veteran employees, there is no need to enhance the relationship through frequent dinners, after all, everyone knows each other, and everyone wants to enjoy their own private space after work. If you really don't want to go, you might as well refuse it. However, in the specific treatment, it is still necessary to pay attention to the art of refusal.

One is that you are indeed busy and have important things to deal with at home, so you might as well be honest. Both colleagues and bosses should be able to understand this situation, so even if they refuse, it should not cause communication and emotional distress with colleagues. On the other hand, if you do feel that you are delaying your time too much and are causing an unnecessary burden on your finances, you may want to politely refuse, for example, if you are in a study course, you have to pick up the little limbs, or you are busy with other things.

There is no need to lie, similar things happen every day, you don't have to tell the time, just say you have it, and then end the conversation quickly, don't let the topic of the dinner continue, or extend to the topic discussion where you reject your colleagues.

But to be honest, I think it's just as bad as going to all of them when it comes to eating out of work. If there are conditions, it is better to do it occasionally! A seemingly boring dinner party is not just as simple as getting together to eat, but is actually another extension of working life.

If there is an argument or misunderstanding at work, sometimes a dinner party is often an opportunity for you to remedy it. If the class has the meaning of competition with colleagues, the dinner party after the Shimono split shift can be regarded as an effective way to get close to colleagues and eliminate estrangement.

Every time I don't want to participate in a dinner party between colleagues in the office, I feel like I'm working overtime, and I want to have my own private space after work, if I don't participate in something, my colleagues are very happy to say this and that, what is a date, fall in love, bring your boyfriend to a stool, let's talk about it, if you participate, colleagues love to ask, why don't you find a boyfriend, is it a secret talk. I don't like the class dinner party that is really annoying, and I like the feeling of two or three people going out to order food according to their preferences and then having a big meal than the jujube rubber chain.

Because I am already very tired from work, I want to go home to rest after work, and I don't have the energy to go to dinner, and it costs money to have dinner.