The two of us get into a fight once in a while, okay with that!

Quarrels are actually a kind of coagulant of love, think about it, although you quarrel so often, aren't you still together, or sometimes you will find that you love her more than before. When arguing, you can make the other party understand that you are not doing something right. On the contrary, if two people are plain together, they usually don't quarrel, they just hold their anger in their stomachs, and think about it when they can't hold it back, they will be out of control!

But there is one point, when quarreling, one party must take the initiative to admit mistakes, and if both parties do not give in, there will be a bad result! I wish you all happiness!

As long as it doesn't go overboard, it's still good.

In fact, the highest divorce rate is: couples who look very affectionate, and they are not noisy, but they are divorced at once. I'm one of them.

If you don't understand the problem, you quarrel at the time, and if you figure it out, there will be nothing left, if you don't say it in your heart, it will accumulate for more and more, and you will not be able to clean it up as soon as it erupts.

In fact, quarreling is really a normal thing like putting salt in a stir-fry. Sometimes, we quarrel for many reasons, there are our own, there are both parties, there are parents, if we can always not quarrel and respect each other, it is good, but waiting for an apology or taking the initiative to apologize after a quarrel will increase the intimacy of each other, and occasionally get a kiss

Is it normal to quarrel, or is it an occasional situation, who won't quarrel with whom?

Good! After you quarrel, your love will be better, but it will be because of what you quarrel about...

That way, if it's a measured quarrel, it doesn't matter.

Life is all about being noisy, and that's okay.

Yes. I'm like this a lot, too. It's good to reconcile.

Two people get angry frequently, quarrel frequently, delete and block each other many times, resent each other, and finally reconcile, is this love? I tell you very responsibly that this is not love, this is a catastrophe. The two of you are competing with whose life is hard, your heart can't withstand being hurt again and again, and you will never look back if you hurt too much.

You feel that you are very wronged, he thinks he is very tired, and the problem that can be solved by hugging each other eventually becomes that you feel that he doesn't love you, he thinks you don't understand him, and he always loses his temper, and his heart is cold when he is cold, and his love fades when he is noisy, and he slowly separates.

Couples have been together for a long time, and after the hot love period, they will often be noisy, and these are caused by some trivial things.

A large part of this is caused by not understanding each other enough and being tolerant enough. Sometimes, when I encounter some problems, I don't explain them directly, but let the other party guess, and even hold the idea that "if you can guess correctly, you love me, and if you guess wrong, you don't love me", in my opinion, this is a big taboo. No one is a roundworm in the other party's stomach, it is impossible to guess right every time, this is more like using luck to decide whether the other party loves themselves or not, it is better to directly say the problem and communicate it directly, which will save time and effort and reduce mutual misunderstanding, so as to be more tolerant and more understanding.

The most important thing is to control your emotions, and don't fall into the vicious circle of quarrels and cold wars just because you can't hold back.

Quarrels can say what each other wants to say, and then understand each other.

No matter what problems two people face together, emotional stability is really important, because under the premise of emotional stability, you can better think about how to deal with or solve the problems you are facing, then if you are emotionally unstable, there may be a big dispute and make the problem further planned, which is more unfavorable to the solution of the problem, of course, this applies to all kinds of relationships.

Bad emotions are contagious.

Bad emotions are contagious, not only hurt themselves, but also hurt others, so in the case of bad mood, there are often some cruel words, or some irrational behaviors, these behaviors greatly hurt the other party's heart, just like a good word, a sentence of Zhang Dongnuan's bad words hurt people for six or six days.

How do you control your emotions?

First of all, you have to calm down, think about what to say, and don't say something very hurtful because of impulse.

Secondly, you should empathize with the other party and think about it from the other party's point of view, so as to figure out the cause of your bad mood, which is more conducive to prescribing medicine for symptoms and solving the problem.

Finally, it is necessary to communicate more, and more communication can understand what both parties are thinking more quickly.

Between husband and wife, frequent quarrels will leave an indelible shadow on the fragile and young hearts of children. The most obvious effects are the following, as a parent, you may wish to take a look!

1. Irritable and withdrawn.

Husbands and wives often quarrel, to be honest, it is nothing more than the child who is hurt, for a long time this will affect the child's character, the original well-behaved and sensible baby, if you often see your parents quarreling in front of you, the personality will become more excited, irritable, and even become grumpy and withdrawn.

In the inner world of children, they often think that other people's families are so harmonious and beautiful, and slowly form a lack of good speech in front of classmates, isolation, etc. There are many words and deeds that imitate us adults, because the child's first teacher is the parents, if the vicious behavior of quarreling in front of the child, then, the look and behavior during the quarrel, the child will also see it, but also remember it, so that over time, the child's personality will become very irritable.

2. Lack of sense of security, gain and loss.

I believe that there are many irrational parents, as soon as their heads are hot, they start to yell regardless of who is around, and the children must be scared to cry and be scared when they see it, and even think about whether you will separate, then there may be a lack of mother or baby company and so on.

Parents quarrel in front of their children, it is best not to do this kind of very hurtful quarrel in front of the child, because this will make the child feel very frightened and helpless, and seeing the parents quarrel again and again makes the child seriously insecure. In fact, at this time, the child's heart is very fragile and soft. I have read a relevant statistic, 80% of adults who are afraid of marriage have the experience of discord or frequent quarrels with their parents in their early years, and they are disappointed in marriage, and even fearful, which is an insecure factor formed in their early psychology, which has an impact on the child's life.

3. Learn to use it for oneself and not be filial.

Cause the baby is not filial piety is not false at all, often see the parents' quarrels or behavior, usually will be transmitted to the child, not used to the parents every quarrel, when they also have emotions or can not control the emotions, the little guy also has a temper, even to the parents tantrums, over time, the child will become unfilial, do not know how to be grateful, in fact, is not the child's problem, the root lies in the parents, really should not quarrel in front of the child.

Suggestion: In fact, the love of parents will be inherited, if a family is harmonious and never quarrels, children will feel the love of their parents, and they will follow suit, so that children are full of expectations for marriage in the future, and let children grow into a person with love in their hearts, warm and confident. In fact, it is good to give the baby a good education rather than spending more money, nor how much knowledge to learn, but that the father loves the mother, the mother loves the father, and this love is passed on to the child, which will play a positive role in all aspects of the child's life.

Hello, two people often quarrel together, make awkward noises, and feel very tired. But after the two separated, they felt reluctant and felt very sad. In fact, the two are not tolerant of each other enough.

Couples often quarrel over trivial matters, with one feeling that the other is unreasonable and the other is disheartened. In fact, lovers themselves are not reasonable, and when your reason is clear, the feelings will fade.

Men always hope to resolve conflicts in a reasonable way in the process of quarreling, but they find that women don't listen to those reasons at all, they just rely on their own feelings, they understand the reason, and they care more about your attitude. Quarrels, men quarrel, women quarrel, and in the end men feel that women are unreasonable, and women feel that men do not love themselves. Therefore, it is actually a very unwise thing to reason with a woman.

Instead of waiting for them to start crying and settling old scores, try to compromise and accommodate.

They don't fall in love with you to listen to your chatter and reasoning, they just want you to be able to spoil and tolerate yourself unprincipledly. That's when a hug and a "I was wrong" will work better than anything else.

Are the two of you in a relationship? If yes. It is recommended that you deal with it as soon as possible, or break up, otherwise you will regret it for the rest of your life.