My girlfriend is out of town, how can I communicate better

Updated on society 2024-05-24
13 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Seriously understand you.

    Send more text messages to the Internet bar, at least keep in touch often, and don't let the distance dilute the feelings. Have time to go out to see her, feelings are a matter of two people, both parties have to pay, if she loves you, she will also be desperate to find time to come back to see you.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    **, take the time to meet, if you don't see each other for a long time, it's easy to be intervened.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Me too! I like a girl now she Jiangxi I am from Hubei, I was okay with the relationship, her family did not agree, I am also worried about this, it is so difficult to meet a girl I like outside and tell me to give up I am really unwilling, you teach me!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If friendship is long, how can it be in the morning and twilight? It's good as long as the heart is by your side in the field, and it's good to be a newlywed child. It's just that if the conditions are ripe or it's better to get married, and then consider that the two are willing to be together, one is to enhance love, and the other is to avoid the pain of lovesickness, so that you will not have a feeling of instability for a moment, and then have a child to live a good life and enjoy the joy of family.

    However, if your girlfriend is out of town and is close to you, you have to mention that some things have happened, but if it really happens, then cut through the mess quickly, don't be too nostalgic, you know, there are grasses everywhere in the world.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Often** contact and bombard her with text messages to have time to condolence her.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    **Information.

    Mail occasionally.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Take the time to check it out. Not seeing each other will have an impact after all!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    There are many topics that can enhance each other's feelings between couples, such as: sharing the fun of childhood, exchanging more beautiful views and yearning for future life, etc., can achieve a more friendly level of communication and get along, so that each other can understand each other better and learn to respect each other. Therefore, it is important to pay attention to the friendly communication style.

    1. Learn to empathize. When we all know how to empathize, our tolerance will be effectively improved, and the chat will become more pleasant and efficient.

    2. Talk about topics that the other party is interested in. When you communicate with others, you have to talk about topics that the other person is interested in, which is also the common language we often say, chatting with common topics is usually more pleasant, and the resulting sympathy will make people expect more communication from us.

    3. Learn to praise others from the bottom of your heart. Wise people must learn to praise others from the bottom of their hearts, and it can only be unwise to oppose others, even if you do not agree with other people's views, but it is best not to say it in public immediately, if it is not a very important thing, you can also not say it, learn to praise others from the heart, and the communication will be smoother and happier.

    4. Learn to listen to others' opinions. Everyone has the idea of expression, when you meet others who need to express the content, you can learn to listen, remember that when you learn to listen, you will become more and more wise, and will be liked by more and more people, pay attention to what others say, listen to others' words attentively, communication will become smoother, and we will know how to respect others.

    5. Approve before making suggestions during the conversation. When we have good suggestions, we must first recognize the other party's point of view before putting forward any reasonable suggestions, and use euphemistic suggestions to achieve better communication results, and communication will be smoother and more efficient. The Book of Wanderings.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    1.When communicating with your girlfriend in the early stage, you can use text messages as an aid, because when you communicate with text messages, you have more time to think about problems, and communicate with each other in a targeted and targeted manner. After the relationship stabilizes in the later stage, you can speak freely.

    2.Do what she likes and talk to her girlfriend about something she did when she was a child. Usually girls like to tell others about their childhood, and like to share some interesting things with others.

    3.Asking your girlfriend out to hang out, go shopping, or visit the park usually generates a lot of topics worth discussing. Because there will be a lot of new things to say about a crowded occasion.

    4.Talk to your girlfriend about your future plans. You can take this opportunity to tell the other person about your ideals, which will increase the other person's good opinion of you. At the same time, the most important thing is to listen to the other person's voice, understand and affirm the other person's future plans and ideas.

    5.Find something fun to talk about. As for the content of the chat, you can add your own opinions, and it is important to praise the other person more and give the other person full affirmation.

    6.In short, the topic of chatting with your girlfriend will also change from person to person, and only by mastering the psychology and interests of the other party can you find a common topic.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Communication between couples is always not on the same channel: reflect on yourself, whether it is a boy or a girl, when you encounter emotional problems, you should first learn to reflect on yourself, know where you are not good enough, where there are problems, whether you are doing something wrong, etc.

    It's okay to communicate with couples when they are not on the same channel: take the initiative to communicate with each other, speak slowly, don't be in a hurry, first discuss together why they are always not on the same channel, whether they have too little common experience with each other, or get along too little, etc. Especially for couples who have just been together, it is normal for this problem to occur, and it is best to discuss it together first.

    Communication between couples is always not on the same channel: try to communicate and communicate with each other in a different way, in fact, it is normal for couples to have some contradictions, after all, there are still great differences between people, and sometimes what you want may not be what others want. At this time, try to communicate in a different way as much as possible.

    Communication between couples is always not on the same channel: make concessions, do not dispute where they can not argue in the future, try their best to change what can change together, and the most important thing is that couples should learn to tolerate and understand, learn to care and make concessions.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    1. Share life materials.

    We can start with life, for example, if you watched a movie today, summarize a few good points and share them with each other. Or if you encounter a few challenges in your work today, you can also talk about them as a topic. In the final analysis, Mega Oak is to constantly absorb new things and share them when communicating.

    Keep injecting new material into the relationship, and the new books, movies, or insights you have at work can be converted into new content to communicate with the partner. The point is still to have the awareness of constantly accumulating and sharing, bringing new things to the relationship.

    2. The ** of a certain thing itself.

    The first type is news events, such as the two sides, both the confrontation of values, and the process of achieving harmony and unity. The second type is things between friends, such as so-and-so divorced, you can talk about opinions. The third category is the perception of movies and books.

    3. Look forward to the future together.

    Let's talk about future plans, understand each other's needs, see if there are more things we want to do together, learn to paint together, go shopping together, climb mountains together, etc., to enhance each other's sense of participation.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I don't care about the appearance when I fall in love, I think two people get along together, can learn respect and mutual understanding, can overcome difficulties together and meet a better future, then it is a very good relationship.

    Therefore, it is very important for couples to learn to communicate with each other and respect each other, and we must master the correct communication methods.

    1.Keep a calm mind when communicating.

    It is important not to be emotional, because being emotional may make communication stuck halfway and unable to communicate, and even lead to abandonment and failure of communication. If you feel particularly irritable and restless in the process of communication because of your emotions, you will have to stop communicating and wait for a period of time to calm down before you can continue to communicate, which will actually make all parties in the communication unhappy.

    2.Abandon your self-esteem when communicating.

    Unnecessary self-esteem and pride can only become a stumbling block to communication, so at the very least, you should abandon your so-called self-esteem when communicating. Don't say "My self-esteem won't allow me to ......In that case, it will only make communication impossible.

    3.Listen when you talk.

    Listening is also a bright point to pay attention to in communication, when talking to others, we should take into account the feelings of others, and listen to what the other party expresses, so that we can better communicate in language, otherwise the communication will not achieve the effect at all, and it is easy to misunderstand.

    4.Don't always be self-centered.

    When talking, you should also pay attention to an important point, don't always think that what you say and do is very important, always take yourself as the center, and other people's is not important.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    When we are about to start a long-distance relationship, we must prepare a good way of communication and discuss more important ways to get along with each other, so as to achieve a good, stable emotional effect.

    Therefore, we must learn to communicate with each other, and when we don't understand, we can learn from professional teachers, so that the communication effect will be better.

    1.Be sincere and humble to ask your teacher for advice.

    Ask the teacher for advice, learn knowledge must be serious and modest, carefully grasp every knowledge point, and record what the teacher said, so that you can better grasp the knowledge.

    2.Ask your teacher for advice and listen attentively.

    It is very important for teachers to listen carefully when talking about the content of knowledge, only by listening carefully to the key points of the content, can they seriously understand and master the knowledge, and it will be very beneficial to the use of knowledge.

    3.Be polite to communicate.

    Communicate with the teacher, learn knowledge must be polite, smiling, humbly ask the teacher for advice and questions, the teacher will feel our serious and hard work attitude, and the explanation of knowledge will be more serious and meticulous, so that our grasp of knowledge will be better.

    4.If you don't understand, ask questions humbly.

    For questions that you don't understand, you must ask the teacher clearly, so that the teacher can better explain and analyze the relevant knowledge content to us in detail, so that we can better grasp the relevant knowledge and key points. Therefore, to learn from the teacher, we should not only pay attention to humility and courtesy, but also learn to listen carefully, so that we can master the knowledge, and we will use the knowledge flexibly to achieve better learning results.

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