What do people who don t cherish when they get it and don t cherish it after they get it?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-29
25 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Yes, because not getting is always the most beautiful. Losing it certainly hurts.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Yes, even if you don't get it with all your heart, you will be sad if you lose it. After all, I have also moved a little bit of heart in the process of getting it!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Yes, after all, we have been together, so there will be a feeling of distress, but the past will pass, it's useless to think about it, the sun is new every day, isn't it?

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Of course it hurts, especially when that person throws himself into the arms of others

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It should be said that the toy that I have always owned suddenly loses one day, and I will only lose it for a while, and I will not feel distressed, because I don't care at all!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you get it, you won't cherish it, and when you lose it, you will feel distressed.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You will regret it and you will feel distressed.

    But people may be like this, and they only know how to cherish when they lose it.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I think this problem is experienced by most people in love, people are so strange when they get it, they always don't know how to cherish it, that's because they don't experience the pain of loss, friend, maybe you still have it now, then take advantage of it, don't let yourself regret it in the future I regret it now...

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Of course it is, a lot of people do!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Only when you lose can you know how to cherish it, don't leave yourself the opportunity to regret it.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    To put it bluntly, I don't love it.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Yesterday is over, because I should think more about tomorrow, and I should not sink in regret, but I have also experienced this.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Nonsense. Who wants to lose it easily?!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Yes. There are thousands of people in the world, but few of them get along. It is not easy for people to come together and form a family.

    The people who accompany you through the ups and downs should cherish that the embrace of two people is the mutual trust and love between the hearts and minds, and the exchange of mutual consideration and love between each other. It took me a lifetime of luck to meet you; I gave everything to get you; For the sake of loving you, I am willing to accept all injustices.

    There is only one you in the world. How can I not cherish you? You're the soul mate I've always dreamed of, and one I crave every day.

    With you, I have the world; With you, I couldn't ask for anything more. The water moon is the day of the last month, today is the heart of people, love you without regrets, love you the most, love you for life, there is no choice. People don't know what they want at first, and can only roughly judge whether they need it based on their feelings, and then use it to judge whether they need it after gradually understanding.

    In the beginning, people may get it or them for various reasons, such as following fashion, satisfying their needs, or being recommended by friends.

    Some require a lot of effort, while others are easy. If a thousand people want to be loved by another person, if this person passes, then he will use all kinds of despicable means, oil and salt do not enter, rhetoric, and he will go down to the dust first, and once he thinks of it, he will betray himself, and he cannot cherish it. Human nature is thin and cold, and after getting it, I don't know how to cherish it forever.

    Shakespeare said:"Everything in the world is in a hurry rather than an enjoyment"。

    For example, in love, some boys are full of tricks when chasing you, and they can't wait to do their best. And you're like a level in the game, scratching your ears and cheeks when you can't get through, and that's all there is to it when it's over.

    If you look at the toys we missed when we were children, my mother didn't buy them and cried and made trouble, but bought them home, but they would go aside for a few days and ignore them.

    Therefore, a person and a thing must continue to be fresh, and we will like the sense of unknown. Getting is a process, not just a result.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    This is the defect of human nature, what you get is not cherished, and what you can't get is tried by all means, and you want to get it in every possible way. It's only when you lose it that you feel even more sorry.

    This is true for husband and wife, for a family, and for couples in love. No matter how much the boy gives, he can't get anything in return for his hard work. Girls get too easy and don't cherish it. The same is true for boys.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Don't live for one person, it is very painful for a person to bear the love of two people, only two hearts to sincerely manage love, that is true love, there is no real happiness in the world of love, and there is no eternal happiness, after all, people have feelings, there are seven emotions and six desires, there are always too many realities that make you completely ignore love, we are just a member of the world, how can we ignore the eyes of others and friends, ignore the feelings of family and friends, ignore the feelings of others to love, to chase, Maybe you will be sad and sad when he leaves, but it is better than losing your soul, because no one will be with you for the rest of your life. If you really love someone, that person will appear in your heart when you want to forget the most, and will appear in your heart when you are most sad and lost, but you think about it again and again but you can't be sure whether to tell him how you feel now, your current distress, because you care about his feelings, his thoughts, but sometimes the more you care, the easier it is to lose, the easier it is to hurt yourself, is this love? This kind of love is very painful, the more the soil in the hand of love is grasped, the easier it is to flow down, and in the end what remains is only a little dust, if love is the same, the more love, the easier it is to lose, so do you want to keep a certain distance, the distance of the heart?

    But in that case, what will be the intersection between the two? Those natural intersections, what a pity to miss! We are always waiting, those footprints of happiness, when you look back he has disappeared, it turns out that happiness is in front of you to pay, don't regret losing that feeling, no one only falls in love and doesn't do anything else in his life, maybe just when you turn around, he leaves you, such things are unavoidable, it happens every day, don't believe in those loves, because we live in reality, not in fairy tales, no one will wait for anyone for a lifetime!!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Because I didn't experience everything I got with a grateful heart, I didn't know how to cherish it; When you lose, your heart is shaken, and you realize the beauty of losing something, so you feel lost.

    People are often like this, they don't know how to cherish what they get, and they don't know how to cherish what they get once they lose it. So, in the long life, how many people sigh like this: it is difficult to recover the water, regret is beyond reach, the sun and rain, the birds and flowers, give everyone fairly; Joy and joy, troubles and sorrows, but they belong to the private property of individuals.

    Life is always beautiful, it's not that there are too many troubles, it's just that we don't understand life; It's not that there is too little happiness, it's just that we don't know how to grasp it. Once, many people asked me the same question, why people always wait until they lose to know how to cherish it, and when they regret it, they often can't go back.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    1. No matter how big the blow is, as long as life is still there, please believe that the sun is new every day. Fulfillment is not a virtue, and rejection is not a sin. Don't always blame others, you should reflect on yourself. If you don't work hard, don't blame life for being hopeless.

    2. With a clear conscience, life without experiencing Tong Chikai's love is incomplete, and love without experiencing pain is not profound. Love enriches life, and pain sublimates love. Often what you can't get is the best, what you get but don't know how to cherish it, and it is a pity to lose it.

    3. In life, who sees more scenery on the way forward, and who takes a few more steps on the bumpy road, these are the values of living in the world. Life already carries too much regret and helplessness, giving others a smile, regardless of the full moon and lack of the moon, no matter where fate comes and goes.

    4. People must be able to take it and put it down. Affordability is survival, and letting go is life; It is potential to be able to afford it, and it is wisdom to be able to put it down. Some people can't take it, so they don't care to put it down; Some people can afford it, but they can't put it down.

    If you can't take it, you will achieve nothing; If you can't let it go, you'll be exhausted. In the end, everything outside of life can't be taken away at all, and it's better to let go late than to let go early. Let go of unnecessary burdens, so that you can be at ease all the way.

    5. When a person is dedicated to himself, his desire to pursue happiness can only be satisfied in very rare cases, and it is by no means beneficial to himself or others. A little bit of learning from one person, to tens of millions of people, is like reading a lot of books, naturally you can see things clearly, and you can master more life skills.

    A paragraph, a philosophical call, a spiritual journey once a day.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I think it's generally like this, men are amorous, and women are generally infatuated, I'm surrounded by living examples, a person pedaling several boats everywhere, so don't pay too much for a relationship, the more you pay, the deeper the hurt will be, and it's not that you don't care about us except for your boyfriend, why put all your heart and soul on him.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    No, it depends on whether the man gets or gets the o(> o

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    The first possibility, not lost, so not cherished. The second possibility is that it is too easy to get, so I don't cherish it.

    The third possibility is that what they get is not precious enough for them, so they do not cherish it.

    The fourth possibility is that they don't pay enough attention to what they get, so they don't cherish it.

    Fifth. Probably, they may still want to get more and better things, so they ignore what they have gotten and don't cherish it. The above is my analysis, it may be a little repetitive, it may be a little inaccurate, it may be a little incomplete, but I hope it can help you, of course, if you think it's good, you can.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    People don't cherish things that you can easily get, this is a common mentality, and it is also a very easy to understand kind of thinking. We must pay attention to this in love and in life. When encountering feelings, don't be too proactive, just according to your heart.

    It's okay to consolidate your feelings a little, a little bit, don't put yourself in it all at once, so that you will appear. The situation of being despised by others, so love must also have a tough battle, but also have resourcefulness, and don't blindly give yourself.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Yes, because there are some things that you think he got too easily. So you don't think it's possible for him to leave you. In fact, it is wrong to think this way, and what is easy to gain is easy to lose.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Do you not cherish what you get easily? There is a certain relationship in this regard, there is a good saying, what is hard-won must be cherished, and this is the truth.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Easy to get, I don't care. It was the snatching of my own hands that excited me - "Faust".

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