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Recently, a lot of fans have asked me about broken love, and my sisters came to share "about broken love.
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After a breakup, I usually choose to cry a lot to alleviate it, and then I stay with my good friend and complain about the other party's good and bad losses.
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I first distracted myself from Wonno, that is, I made myself very busy.
Have nothing to do and keep yourself busy. Otherwise, when your mind is empty, you will definitely remember what happened between you.
There are many things that can be done. For example, exercising, going to the bookstore to read a book, drinking coffee, watching a movie, etc. Some cuties also like to tidy up their room, do laundry, etc. In short, keep yourself busy.
And find your favorite orange and call your friends to do things that can make you happy.
Choosing friends is very important, at this time, find those friends who are positive and optimistic and sincere to you. People with negative thoughts can likewise make you feel worse. Let them take you shopping. Most girls still enjoy shopping.
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Generally, after breaking up, first of all, I will definitely clean up my emotions at home, sort out my liking for him, and then I will make an appointment with a good friend who is self-contained, go out shopping, buy things, and meet more friends, so that I may have the opportunity to meet the new other half. So don't simplify and infiltrate to immerse yourself in your ex, you should, try to make yourself. Meet better people.
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After a breakup, you shouldn't be alone at home, but talk to your friends more about your emotions, which will make you feel better and participate in more group activities. If you have time, improve yourself more before the spring balance, spend your time on meaningful things, and you will slowly get out of the lovelorn mood.
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It was through time that I got out of this lovelorn emotion. Because we have all broken up, we may have to raise our heads and face a new life again, do our own new life every day, do what we should do, and walk out of the sedan chair slowly.
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I am slowly ** myself through time, because time can make me forget all my troubles, and after a long time, I will get out of the lovelorn mood.
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After the breakup, I would choose to confide in my friends about my current unfamiliar feelings, and my friends would comfort me directly, so I slowly got out of this bad mood.
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I got out of the broken love mood through traveling, because travel can make me a good relaxation, and it can also make me forget a lot of troubles.
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After a breakup, it is difficult to get out of the emotion of falling out of love, so if you see this emotion appearing, you will feel even more uncomfortable.
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Remove traces of that person in your life so that you don't think of that person just because you see something about that person.
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The perceptual association that should be the day before the breakup.
1.Tell yourself that if you can't let go all the time, you will always be in a state of fatigue, and sooner or later you will be separated. A person can't give forever in a relationship, and this effort makes you feel very tired, sooner or later you will choose not to give, and once you don't give, your relationship will come to an abrupt end.
So if it's just because you can't let go of this long-term relationship, but it makes you feel very tired, it's better to stop the loss in time and make yourself happier.
2.Find out what makes you feel tired, if you can change it, choose to continue to stick to your love, and if you can't change it, give up in time. Everything has a cause and effect, and a relationship must first make you feel happy.
If you keep feeling tired, it means that there must be a bad factor in it, if you can find this bad factor and correct it, maybe you won't feel tired in the next time, but if you can't change it, give up, otherwise you will only fall into more pain.
3.If the other person keeps you in a state of feeling tired, it means that this person is not very suitable for you. You need to find someone who is more suitable.
Love not only requires two people to like each other, but also to be suitable, if the person is not suitable for some aspect of you. After you run in, you still find that there is still no way to accept each other. Then it is better to find another person who belongs to you who is suitable for you to laugh at, so it is a wise move.
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I think you can keep yourself busy, participate in more social activities, and also use your break time to travel, make some friends or friends of the opposite sex, so that you can make your life more fulfilling and forget about the unpleasant relationship before.
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You should work hard to improve yourself, cultivate more hobbies, distract yourself, don't think too much about the details of the last relationship, try to make yourself forget the previous object, slowly erase the traces of the other party's existence in your life, make more close friends, and go out to play with them.
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I think you can distract yourself by other things, like going out on a trip, participating in some volunteer activities, keeping yourself busy, learning some new skills, and improving your abilities.
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Keep yourself busy, work hard, regain your self-confidence, and open up a new battlefield in life.
Because the loss of love does not actually affect a person's survival and actual life, it is only a sensory pain.
I have observed many friends around me who have achieved success in their careers, and many of them have been able to succeed now, many of them have had a failed relationship experience in the past, and that emotional experience has inspired them to work hard and improve themselves.
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In people's emotional awareness, do you often inadvertently think about a woman you once loved or had a crush on in your leisure time?
Love is actually a very beautiful and fragile emotional relationship between men and women.
It is necessary for both parties to attract each other, appreciate each other, accept each other, integrate with each other, and finally achieve the purpose of living together. In this process, two living beings with different ideas will definitely encounter stumbling and conflicting collisions. If the conflict between two people can be resolved and absorbed by each other, then the two people will be closer and go all the way.
Conflict is actually two people's different views on things, which creates a disagreement. Here, we need to have the right pipeline to resolve conflicts. If the conflict is handled well and a consensus is reached, we will work together together, and if we do not handle it well, we will feel suspicious.
If the conflicts are not handled well again and again, the gap between the two sides will become bigger and bigger, and the quantitative changes will produce qualitative changes, and the final result will be that the two will part ways.
It's okay to invest in a new relationship.
When you love someone, you feel that everything is beautiful, as if the other person is flawless. And when you don't love anymore, the advantages become the disadvantages. If that person is too ruthless to you, you can think more about his faults and shortcomings, and find that the other person is not flawless.
In this way, you can slowly hate him psychologically, so that you can alienate yourself and come out of the shadow of broken love.
You can find a new and more attractive friend, and maybe you will find that there is someone else in this world who is more suitable for you. Many people just say goodbye to their former lovers after losing, adjust their mentality, and face the reality in front of them. Your life has been enriched by this.
As a result, the relationship will become deeper, and from then on you will forget about this person and find your true love anew.
Don't push yourself, the so-called be the best version of yourself.
The premise is that you can come back and be a normal person. Let's stay in your locked house and focus back on ourselves, the bilateral relationship of love is really over, and only you and yourself are in the relationship. The matching of all relationships, the core is still the value, spiritual, material, appearance, social relations and family, such as all kinds of constitute a you, others fall in love with those who can be seen, roughly equal value is the most solid foundation for maintaining the relationship, and love to be long-lasting, both parties need to be happy most of the time.
It's like sleeping in a hot day, and you feel uncomfortable with each other, but they push you away first, and even if you don't, you will push them away in the end, and you understand that it's not who gave up on whom, but that the relationship between the two people itself has problems.
The breakdown of a relationship is largely due to the fact that the problem cannot be resolved in a short period of time or can never be resolved. After thinking about this, you can probably start to let go of resentment and unwillingness, calmly review all the things that happened in the relationship between two people, and carefully find the reasons from beginning to end.
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You can do something that you enjoy doing, divert your attention, don't let yourself be idle, and have time to think about the bad things; I got out of the period of falling out of love by going out with my friends and comforting them.
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After falling out of love, you can go out for a walk more, thank your emotions for help, or participate in some activities to divert your attention, and reflect on the reasons for the breakup; After falling out of love, I will go out to travel with my friends, or communicate and communicate with my friends, and I will let myself learn more, let myself learn more, enrich my abilities, make myself better, and divert my attention.
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You can do something that interests you, you can go out and travel; I was always with my friends, and my friends were always enlightening me.
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You should first think about calming yourself down, then maintain a relatively calm state of mind, and then spend time alone to consume your emotions.
Liang Jingru. Happy Breakup" is a song in Liang Jingru's ** "Sunrise I Like", composed by Guo Wenxian and lyrics by Yao Ruolong, which was the ending song of "Toast Man Kiss 2" (Taiwan).
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