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Wrong! You pretend not to take the girl too seriously, it is easy to break the girl's heart, maybe she likes you at any time, but you seem to ignore her, feel that you don't like her, and then you are likely to feel: since you don't like her, you don't care about her, it's better not to say it than to be rejected.
Girls are actually very face-saving and can be shy, so you'd better take a stand with her at the beginning. However, you'd better not be too direct, of course, it depends on the girl's personality. Also make sure that none of her friends like you.
Well. Of course, this can be ignored if you don't plan to take it into account. Thank you.
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Not necessarily, sometimes a girl will want you to value her, you care about her, and she will be happy. If you don't care too much, you'll think you don't like her.
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Boys like girls, don't stalk and beat them first, it's easy to be disgusted, you should show your strengths in front of girls, it's better.
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Have you seen too much?
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Go with the flow, as long as you have the courage to give...Feelings also time to prove ...Failure means that you haven't impressed her yet. Or she's not for you. The girl who is too hard to chase is appetizing...
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Women are made of water! You just have to pay more. Someday it will impress the pseudo.
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You're wrong, every time you chase a girl unsuccessfully, it's because you hooked up with a very rookie girl at the wrong time. It's not that your sincere dedication scared the other party, but that it was the time when Yue Lao slept.
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I think the problem is with the word every time, and if you don't get rid of it, you can succeed.
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Upstairs and downstairs are talking nonsense, let's see if it's really love.
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You can choose to chase your favorite, don't keep changing people.
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It can be said in two ways. First of all, girls like confident and assertive boys, if you care too much about her in the process of chasing her, many things will be indecisive, appear unconfident, and have no opinions. Secondly, anything can be measured by value, including people, the more you want to buy something, the higher the price the vendor will ask, the higher the price you give, the more the vendor will feel that it is a treasure, on the contrary, the more casual you are about a certain item, the more likely you are to start with the reserve price.
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Because the more you care about the other person, the less the other person will cherish it.
And when you don't care so much, you will do things more calmly, which is also an attraction.
So even if you care a lot, don't reveal too much in the process of chasing girls.
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In fact, a girl is often very cautious in love, because the current relationship has become fast food, so many people are afraid that the other party does not really like them when they are in love, and keeping in touch every day will make girls feel dependent on you from the bottom of their hearts. After a long time, girls will be inseparable from you, which is why many men will text or call each other every day when chasing women, which is not only to express their sincerity to each other, but also to make the other party gradually have a deeper sense of dependence on themselves in the process of acceptance. If a man really wants to chase that girl to success, this must be done, because if you often don't contact a girl, it means that you don't really like people at all, and women can't accept it from the bottom of their hearts, feeling that you don't care about yourself at all, and you won't have a sense of dependence on you, and your chances of chasing success will become lower and lower.
It's hard for you to chase girls, chasing girls requires a little effort, if you can't even contact every day, let alone what you can do for girls in the future.
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Maybe girls are shy types, if you care, she will feel that you also like her, then she doesn't have to be too active, waiting for you to chase her! But if you don't care, it proves that you don't like her at all, then of course she has to take the initiative to seize the opportunity.
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In fact, the reason is very simple, what is too easy to get does not know how to cherish. She wants to get you very simple, so she doesn't know how to cherish it. Just like another girl, she likes what you like very much, and you don't cherish her either.
People are like that, the more you pursue, the farther she will easily run. You stand still, but someone takes the initiative to give you a hug.
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The more you care, the heavier the sense of gain and loss. It will lead to unnatural time with girls, and girls will feel that you are just trying to catch him, so no matter what you do, you feel that you are not from the heart, just some tricks to chase girls. If you can't get the girl to open her heart and get along with you, then how can you catch it.
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In fact, it's not that you can catch it without care, unless your conditions are too good and the charm is huge. Otherwise, girls usually don't have a bottom line like boys chasing beautiful women, and they don't care about self-esteem in love. Therefore, it is very important that you care, if she doesn't like you so much, you will not care if it is not easy to catch.
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Because girls are willing to be spoiled, if you care, she will think that you have ulterior motives and you are very good, you don't care about him thinks, you may be disappointed in her or ** not good enough, she will reflect on herself, will stand in your point of view to think about it, it will be easy to catch up!
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Maybe it's a blessing to be ordinary, because the more you care, the easier it is to make mistakes, the easier it is to get nervous, and it won't be very good to behave, and it's easy to make the other party disgusted. If you are in a normal mind, everything will be natural and comfortable, and the chances of natural success will increase.
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The main thing to look at is why you don't care, not why you deliberately don't care. If it's because this girl is not attractive and you don't care, then it's easy to catch up, this girl is attractive, and you just don't care about it because you don't care about it, which will only make the result worse. So I still care about it to catch up.
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There is no intention to plant flowers and flowers, and there is no intention to plant willows and willows. Similar to exams, when the mind is relaxed and stressful, it is often easy to achieve the best state, showing the best side to others, this kind of casual and unintentional itself has a charm, if your own conditions are a little better, the probability of success will be greatly improved.
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The main thing is that you have something to attract each other, women are like this, sometimes the more you hold her in the palm of your hand, she doesn't care about you, and when you chase after her, pretend not to care about her, and she is a little anxious, thinking that you suddenly don't like her, but she becomes active! If you want to get away with it, it's only suitable for some girls!
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This is the effect of trying to get away with it. Some girls will float up when you chase too closely, and they will even feel annoyed. When you inadvertently ignore her, she will instead remember how good you are to her and feel that you are important.
When she experiences the loneliness of the days without you, she will naturally never be able to do without you anymore.
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That's just your own delusion, chasing girls, you have to use your heart, with love, if you don't care about it, it's almost a straight man's idea, so, meet the person you love, chase it boldly, even if you fail, you will never regret it. Hope.
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That's a matter of mentality. The less you care, the better your mindset will be, and the easier it will be to handle your relationship with girls. On the contrary, if you attach too much importance to it, you will care a lot about the girl's feelings, and you will think crankily and guess the girl's thoughts, thus messing up.
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Because a girl basically has little patience, when you don't care, the more she wants to know what you think, so she starts to pay attention to your things, and after a long time, it will be successful.
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I don't care, I catch it in the end, it's because it's unexpected, I feel it's easy to chase, and if I care about it, if it's rejected, I'll feel that it's so hard to chase. It's a psychological problem.
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Because you care too much, you are easy to be impulsive when you do things, do things that the other party doesn't like, don't care and can't do it, treat it with a normal heart, not humble or arrogant, show the most authentic self, the more you can attract the other party.
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I like a girl, but she always says that she is not good or bad, but I don't care, how can I chase this kind of girl?
1. Understand the girl's personality, hobbies, lifestyle, and three views first, and the more detailed the better. But pay attention to the 'right and reasonable way', don't make the girl feel wary and scared, and at the same time, you can't get to know her just through the circle of friends. 2. Start with a friend If you really like this girl and want to develop a boyfriend and girlfriend with Yanpi, it must start with a friend.
Cultivate common hobbies, living habits, and get acquainted with each other to have room for further development. 3. Reasonable hints and guidance have gone through the above stages, and your relationship is already relatively familiar or a general friend, you should give some hints and guidance appropriately, so that the girl can realize that you like her. 4. After confirming that the other party has a good impression of you, the girl has no obvious resistance and disgust in the process of your hint and flirtation, which is manifested in the fact that the chat time and frequency have not decreased.
In this case, you can almost take the initiative to send out an invitation, ask girls to meet, come out to play, eat, watch movies, ......In short, according to the preferences and personality of the other person, choose a time and occasion that can create a romantic atmosphere. <>
If you want to decide to confess, you want to tell the other party what you think, and hear the other party's reply, in fact, the form of confession is not important, you must show your sincerity. If you're embarrassed, you can use small tricks, such as pretending to be truth or dare, to avoid the embarrassment of rejection. 5. What to do after confessionIf the girl agrees after the confession, then congratulations.
Don't be discouraged if you are rejected. Some girls suddenly confess and refuse for a while, maybe just because she doesn't know how to deal with such a sudden change in the relationship, or it may really treat you as a friend. You can Yu Yuan try to ask the girl out again, if the other party agrees, it means that the other party still has a good impression of you, even if it is a friend.
If the girl refuses, then you can go back to being friends and not be too embarrassed. <>
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When many people pursue a person, they are actually courageous, and they may not care about what he thinks of us, but they will only give them what we want to give him wholeheartedly, but when we pursue the girl we like, in fact, I think some people will also care about what he thinks of us.
It's understandable that we care about his opinion, after all, people care about other people's opinions, and then constantly improve themselves, especially when we pursue the girl we like, his opinion is even more important. When we know what he thinks of us, we can address these issues and then better pursue them and meet their requirements. Because we like him and we pursue him, of course we care about what he thinks, and if we don't like him, then what he thinks doesn't matter to us.
What's more, I don't think anyone can do it, I really don't care about other people's opinions, maybe it's just that the time we care about is relatively short, and it will pass after listening to it, and we won't take his views too seriously in our hearts, maybe we think about it in a day or two. But if the girl we like has some bad opinions, we may be very disappointed, because we like him, we want to be appreciated by him, and even hope to be affirmed by him to be with us.
But some people, they don't really care about what girls think of themselves, they think that as long as I work hard, as long as I do what I want to do, no matter what the result is, it will be good. Because I've already worked hard, I won't regret it. And a girl's opinion of herself may not affect her liking him, or her pursuit of her.
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I care about what she thinks of me, because it helps the development of the relationship, it also helps the harmony of the relationship, and it can also make the relationship between the two people very happy.
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Of course, he cares, the other party has a very good impression of himself, so that he can have the confidence to chase her.
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