If a boy or a girl quarrels, both parties are at fault, and whoever takes the initiative to talk to

Both sides are at fault, and you should think about the mistake first.

Actually, there is no such thing as a man or a woman. It should depend on who usually takes the initiative to admit mistakes more times, and then it should be replaced by another person who admits mistakes first.

There's nothing to be ashamed of in this kind of thing, and it's mainly a reflection of the fact that love doesn't have the idea of being embarrassed.

It must be a boy.

This proves that you care

Boys should take the initiative, girls are embarrassed to be thin-skinned, boys must find a step down first, don't delay it for too long.

I think it's a matter of mutual tolerance, and since we both understand that something is wrong, then someone will say it first, and the other person will not be indifferent. The question of who takes the initiative first depends on the usual behavior, if you are a boy, I suggest you first, man.

The most important thing for the two to be together is to communicate, usually to understand each other, empathize more, and there is no so-called who must admit their mistakes and apologize to each other every time.

In fact, this matter is not about who comes first, what matters is who knows how to make a step, you had better communicate calmly, untie the knot, and don't regret it later.

Female, because ladies are preferred!!

Take a step back, take the initiative to speak, have a good chat, don't stiffen, I wish you all a quick getaway.

For the sake of the relationship between the two of you, someone must bow their heads first, quarrels are inevitable, one person at a time, this time you go first.

It doesn't matter who wants to speak, the key is that the one who wants to open must care the most.

Looking at the personalities of two people, there is no single answer to this kind of thing.

This still needs to be asked... It must be a boy.

The one who cares about this relationship the most!

I think it's not a bad thing if you care about this relationship and take the initiative yourself, but you can't develop his pampered and arrogant personality. Once in a while, I want you to embarrass him, hehe, I hope mine can help you

It doesn't have to be a boy to apologize first.

In a couple's quarrel, apology should not be determined by gender, so it should not only fall on the responsibility of the boy. It would be unfair to think that men and women were equal, and that only boys should apologize first. When two people have a dispute, both parties should reflect on themselves, if it is their own fault, they should have the courage to take responsibility and apologize, and take the initiative to solve the problem, so that the relationship can last for a long time.

What's even more important is that in order to resolve disputes, there is a need for communication and understanding with each other. Men and women alike, don't take a hard-line, uncompromising approach. If you're arguing, try to put yourself in someone else's shoes, as this will help ease tensions and possibly reach a consensus.

Therefore, in a fight between couples, the first thing to do is to listen to each other, understand and apologize.

No. There is no right or wrong in love.

As the saying goes, it is difficult for a clean official to decide family affairs, and there is no right or wrong in many things, but everyone understands from different angles or focuses differently. And the ideas of boys and girls are naturally very different, so it will produce the effect of "chickens and ducks talking" and "going in the opposite direction", don't ask me how I know, it's all tears when I talk too much.

Since this is the case, so I think, right or wrong is not important, trivial things, just play haha and pass, feelings are the most important, don't have to argue about right and wrong because of some trivial things, let one person apologize to another person, this will hurt the feelings of two people, and the gains outweigh the losses.

Two people who love each other, why do they have to distinguish between right and wrong? Sometimes, it is not the spear itself that hurts people, but the process of separating right from wrong. If you really love someone, and you are even willing to give everything you have for the other person, then, even if you know that she is cheating, you will still tolerate her with compassion.

Admitting mistakes, just not ruining them is just a means and way for couples to express their love, and there is no need to stop it from rising to the height of theory.

However, when it comes to some principled issues, such as how to deal with feelings and whether they are single-minded, these must be explained clearly and cannot be confused. However, these issues of principle are not as simple as emphasizing right and wrong, and it is very likely that once they occur, they will be quite serious.

No, you don't. First: When quarreling, two people have different perceptions of time.

If you say that a girl does find that she is wrong, she will turn on the old account mode, and her memory is super good.

You say I'm wrong, what do you say when you're chasing me? Last year, the year before that ......, March of the year before last, do you remember? Today, today you say I'm wrong.

How will we live in the future? What happens after five years? What about 10 years from now?

What should I do when I'm old? ”

At this time, the man's reaction to a question of eight key points in time was: "Huh? So that's the first reason why boys can't win.

Second: The body is early, and the boys can't win in physical strength.

Zang Kefei has been here for two years in "Wonderful Sayings", and he feels that he is a very talkative person, and he was very naïve and naïve to think that there must be a right and wrong between lovers.

For a while, Zang Kefei thought, can't I win against you? Two or three times he screwed her girlfriend and dog, arguing from 10 p.m. to 11 p.m. the next day. From "what, to such a tired person is about to lie on the ground, and I feel that my mouth is grinding."

In the end, it was really noisy.

Third: Men are arguing about logic, and women are arguing about emotion.

Once, his girlfriend quarreled with him, and was caught by Zang Kefei with a logical loophole, thinking "You kid, it's finally in my hands", look at you, how wrong you are, first, how wrong you are, second, how wrong you are, and third, how wrong you are. Said sensibly and arrogantly, and then thought to myself, are you convinced?

And the girlfriend seemed to acquiesce to the mistake just now, and then the girlfriend said: "That matter just now is no longer important, you tell me now, why are you yelling at me?" ”

Suddenly changed the debate topic, so that the boy couldn't change it at once, and he didn't notify the change of question, which made people scramble.

Every shrew is tempered in every quarrel, and every lady is cultivated little by little by relying on a man's gentlemanly demeanor.

What kind of person do you want to be with you for the rest of your life? Is it a shrew or a lady? If you want a lady, a man should be a gentleman first. I'm sorry, but if you want a shrew then you can keep arguing.

When men and women quarrel, girls don't actually need the boy's remorse to recognize right and wrong, but the difference is that they want the boy to think that they are wrong, and they want the boy to coax themselves to apologize.

When men think about the signs and women quarrel, girls really need the boys' reputation to know right and wrong This is for sure, no matter what, it is the boys who are scolded by the girls. I'm sure I'll admit my mistake.

When men and women quarrel, I still suggest that men should not quarrel, after all, you are a man, and I think you understand the truth that good men don't fight with women.

Nowadays, whether it is a young couple or a husband and wife, the man is generally required to bow his head and admit his mistake after a quarrel. In the concept of girls, if a boy does not take the initiative to admit defeat, it is a sign of not caring. But personally, it is inevitable for two people to quarrel in the process of getting along, but not every quarrel should be the first time the boy admits his mistake.

Some boys are more puzzled, why do girls still hold on to their mistakes every time they admit their mistakes? In fact, this is the starting point of the two sides is different, generally after a quarrel, the boy's main consideration is who is right and who is wrong in this matter, but the girl is generally more emotional, she will consider whether the boy will stand in front of the other party unconditionally for the other party to consider when dealing with the wrong problem. So when the girl is entangled in the face of what happens, whether the other party still loves me, and the boy just wants to rush to the truth, this time will lead to deeper and deeper conflicts.

Although the two people have different starting points, I hope the girl can understand that not every quarrel requires boys to give in. After a quarrel, two people have to think about how to solve the problem, after all, two people face the problem together, not each other. What you have to understand is that after a quarrel, it means that two people do have problems, and if you want to go on for a long time, the first thing to consider is how to solve the problem together, rather than finding fault with each other.

Secondly, your other half has been with you for a long time, and it is easy to hurt each other's feelings if you quarrel too much. And it doesn't matter if you take the initiative to give in a quarrel, because what you let is your family, not a stranger you don't know. So what does it matter if you take the initiative to apologize for your family?

Here I also want to warn all young couples or couples that after a conflict, you can agree that the first time is the man's apology, and the second time the girl can take the initiative to apologize, understand each other, and be humble to each other, so that they can work together for a lifetime.

Of course not. I don't think there are so many absolutes in the relationship between men and women, and there are not so many rights and wrongs. If there is a quarrel over one thing, but the woman recognizes her mistake first, then the woman admits her mistake first.

When men and women quarrel, as boys, they should take the initiative to admit their mistakes, break the deadlock, and prevent cracks in their feelings.

Of course not, if two people are in love, the boy admits his mistake in everything, it will only spoil the girl, and it will be difficult for the two people to get along harmoniously in the future, and the boy will feel that the boy doesn't love her if he doesn't like the girl's mind. This is not a normal way for two people to get along, and this kind of love can't go far.

I don't think so, but boys should be more subdued. If it is obvious that the problem is with the woman, the boy does not need to bow his head, otherwise it will appear very cheap.

I think whoever makes a mistake will admit it first. A good relationship needs to be maintained by both parties, if it is only a boy's unilateral apology and maintenance, it will not last long, and both parties will work together to be happier.

When two people quarrel, neither party is absolutely right or absolutely wrong, and each party will have their own reasons for arguing and thinking they are right. Being able to have one partner admit their mistakes makes it easy to maintain a relationship for a long time. When a man and a woman quarrel, if it is not something of vital importance, the man needs to admit his mistake first.

You must know that when a man and a woman quarrel, no man can be proud of the fact that he has won the fight against the woman. When a man and a woman quarrel, if the man wins, not only is there nothing to show off, but it will even be considered by the people around him as not big enough and immature enough. And the man who wins the quarrel is also the most likely to lose the relationship between himself and the other party.

Especially in the relationship between lovers, in the face of no major events and major decisions, there is no need for a man to quarrel and win, which will easily hurt the feelings between two people. A man who wins a quarrel will have a lot to lose, so after a man and a woman quarrel, the man should try to admit his mistake first.

When two people quarrel, there are many benefits for men to admit their mistakes first. When a man and a woman quarrel, the man who can give priority to bowing his head and admitting his mistakes can be called a good man, and can better maintain the relationship between himself and the other party. You must know that after a man and a woman quarrel, there is no shame in who admits their mistakes first, and anyone can know the specific situation of the quarrel between the two people, and they can also evaluate a certain amount of right and wrong.

A man who can give priority to admitting mistakes is a man who is very courageous and responsible, and can also give people around him a great sense of security. Especially in the relationship between lovers, a man who can give priority to admitting his mistakes can maintain this relationship with his lover very well, and he can also get a lot of praise from the people around him. Therefore, when two people quarrel, there are many advantages for a man to admit his mistake first.

To be a man who can admit his mistakes first, and embody the quality of a man's generosity and gentleman, why not?

I think it's better to let men admit their mistakes first. After all, women love face very much, and they are likely to need a step. In this way, it will be convenient for people to come down, and the relationship between husband and wife will be better.

I think it's better for men to admit their mistakes first, most girls already know that they are wrong when they quarrel, as long as you coax her.

It is best for men to admit their mistakes first, because men admitting mistakes will only show that men are more generous, while women will hurt their emotions if they admit their mistakes.

It must be the man who admits his mistake first, because two people should not quarrel anyway, especially men should be generous.

It must be a man who admits his mistake first, because men should be generous and tolerant of women.

It must be a man who admits his mistake first, whether a man is wrong or not, admitting his mistake first is a particularly gentlemanly and generous behavior.