What should I do if my relationship with a girl has developed like this?

Updated on society 2024-05-23
29 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I don't think you hurt her.

    It's a free right to like someone, and I feel like you've expressed it tactfully enough.

    Besides, you didn't know she had a boyfriend.

    Personal advice: Forget about her.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Don't want it, I think women are generally used to be girlfriends, if you don't agree, just give up, if you are still the same as before, and she doesn't like you, do you feel better? Long pain is better than short pain, forget it!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Whether you like her or not, I think you should treat the camaraderie between your classmates properly. But don't go too far for an effect.

    In your current situation, you should focus on your studies. Judging from the content of your question, work hard, no girl will like someone who does not study hard, and it is impossible to entrust him for life. I'm from here, listen to the eldest brother, that's right!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I don't know how much you feel good to her, but I think if she really treats you as a friend, as long as you make it clear to her, she will forgive you and be good friends with you again, of course you have to let it go.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Classmates, be realistic, the penultimate is still chasing. It's really a child's idea, can you follow your feelings?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Tell her whatever you want.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Feelings are selfish, feelings are cruel, feelings are not forced!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Don't be in a hurry, be subtle, don't have words and deeds like liking her, etc., slowly contact her, exchange some topics with emotional military attachés, and time may make her slowly walk into you again

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Of course, you have to ask about it, just do it, forget it if it doesn't work. Since she is your iron buddy, is there a secret that can't be said? Of course, you have to ask her, it's time for you to get married, what kind of man do you want to marry?

    Probe her tone, in fact, it is not difficult for you to see from her tone that you can definitely see if she has her heart in her heart, <>

    The so-called relationship is very iron, does she take advantage of your straight, ask you for help when there is something, greet you with a smile, or invite you to eat a meal or two, which proves that she and you are iron buddies? Please don't forget, the iron buddies are not exactly the ones who choose to get married and have children.

    Since you are her iron buddy, you ask her, is it appropriate for the two of us to get married? Do you really like me? Just ask, why ask? Of course, you have to ask, you can tell from her. Why twist and writhe it.

    Okay, if it doesn't work, it also dispels the pain of lovesickness. In life, we still have a lot to learn, and we don't know a thing, and we don't grow wise. In fact, feelings are slowly cultivated from ordinary life, and if you fall in love, you must speak up boldly, find a suitable opportunity, and don't be afraid.

    To be a man is to be open, there is no need to twist and pinch, no matter what the result is, you have to learn to bear it, this is part of your growth. Many years later, when you look back and think about it, you are right to do this, you have your own dreams, why don't you chase it, I have at least tried, what do you think?

    Falling in love with a girl who has been with her for a long time shows that you have a very comprehensive understanding of yourself. From friendship to love. Some of her characteristics attract you and evolve from liking to falling in love.

    If you are single and she is single, you might as well show your sincerity and sincerity to chase her. If she has a crush on you, she will definitely respond. If she's your buddy, no amount of effort you try will help.

    If you weren't for her Lai, you would be helpless. You have to understand that there is no sin in loving someone, and even if you don't get a response, don't regret it.

    1. If you and she are both single, it is recommended to be brave enough to chase them. 2. If one of you already has a partner, then don't hurt the other half. 3. If she already has a boy she likes, it is also recommended that you chase it, after all, fair competition, everyone has a chance.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Yes, if the relationship between two people is good, and they are also very good in terms of relationships, and they have common topics together, then you can try to further interact with her.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I don't think it's necessary, but if two people treat each other as friends at the beginning, it will be a bit difficult to develop a relationship.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    First of all, you have to determine if this female friend has a boyfriend? Or whether she has a crush on you. And then you can tactfully tell her, do you like her? Can you try to get along. Finally, don't be too aggressive, otherwise your boyfriend and girlfriend won't be able to do it, and ordinary friends won't be able to do it.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Why do girls think you're immature, for example? At this time, this girl is thinking that the college entrance examination is about to begin, which is a very critical time in her life, and she must review well and be admitted to college. And you have always wanted to establish a relationship with her, so what does such an important thing as the college entrance examination seem to you?

    What about establishing a relationship? What do you think about the two of you in the future? I think her subtext is, let's wait until the exams are over.

    So how do you appear mature? Why does she tell you every day that you have to study hard? This is because she has no faith in you and she does not see your plans.

    If you can say sensibly and maturely, I like you very much, but don't worry about me, I will study hard now, I have done a lot of preparation, and I will definitely be able to get into the university of my dreams. If the two of us are in the same university in the future, let's be together. If the two of us are not at the same university in the future, I will also choose a university in your city.

    After that, you studied hard and fulfilled your promise with practical actions, which is the maturity she wants.

    At the same age, girls tend to think more long-term, while boys tend to only see the present, so girls often feel that boys are not mature enough. Many times, parents will point fingers at you, and this girl will persuade you to work hard, all because she is worried about you. Instead of asking why you didn't believe me, ask yourself if you gave them confidence.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    First of all, I want to ask you, what is a definite relationship? What relationship do you want to be sure of?

    What can be told clearly is that as long as the two of you can't be admitted to the same school after the college entrance examination, then all the previous relationships are in vain, don't think about long-distance relationships or anything, the truth is so cruel.

    So what you have to do now is to keep it in this state, don't be too good like sticking, then she will be disgusted, and don't deliberately snub or anything, as long as you can be assigned to the same school after the college entrance examination, then go and boldly confess.

    After the confession is successful, you can hold hands and kiss or something, but if you don't have the ability to give her the rest of your life, don't go to KF easily. If you love, cherish it.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If you love her and work hard to pursue, at least you work hard, and you have no regrets in your own heart, then she will be very different from you, women are very easy to move animals, as long as you sincerely make those bits and pieces, she will not say that there is no change in you, I am a woman, I understand, I have experienced to share with you, if you don't understand, I will talk to you alone, I really want to help you, because I understand that feeling.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    First of all, it is important to review your homework and get into a good university. As for whether she likes you or not, it is too early to discuss, because now is not the time to determine the marriage and love relationship; Second, liking or disliking is not absolute, liking now does not mean that you will always like it in the future, and disliking it now does not mean that you will not like it in the future, because you will become more and more cultivated, more and more knowledgeable and charming through continuous learning and progress, so you will become more and more likable. Are you right?

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    You don't seem to see the crux of the problem, if you can't get into a place in the future, or a school, even if your relationship is established now, what can you do, and the possibility of breaking up in the end is still very high, if you want to be with her in the future, you have to try to ensure your grades and her admission to a university, a major is the best result, otherwise it will delay her and delay you.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    The first is to create opportunities, and to create opportunities, you can find an excuse to ask her to dinner, such as watching a movie, celebrating her birthday, you can do it. The second is to arrange the time, which is usually better in the evening, and the last is to create opportunities for you to be alone. Good luck.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    The girl is right, the first thing you have to do is to take the entrance examination and work hard to get into an ideal university, so that you can have a position to chase the girl you like. Now you have nothing. It's not about making people like you.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Imply that you are not bold enough, not active enough, just go straight to what you want!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It's going to be the college entrance examination, and it's not good to review yet. Leave it to you.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    1.In fact, it is very simple to make a friend, but the deeper the friend, the more concerned about the other party's bits and pieces, it is precisely in this way that some friends are torn apart because they find each other's shortcomings. You have to keep one thing in mind:

    If you really want to be friends with him, then please cherish him, don't care about those small details, don't doubt each other, don't make excessive jokes. You have to believe that what you give, others will give you.

    2.Making friends is simple. You have a simple smile in front of others, an inadvertent help, being by his side when he is in difficulty, it is a small action but can touch people's hearts, friends are not difficult to make, making a friend really has many benefits, you will feel the sweetness that is not worse than family love, acquaintance is a kind of fate, why do you let him leave you?

    3.You can encourage her when she is difficult, hug her when she cries, and remember and surprise her .........on her birthdayWait a minute.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If you are friends now and you want to confess to a girl, you can first test whether she likes you and whether she has a tendency to fall in love, and then choose a suitable time to confess to the girl.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    This kind of thing should happen naturally, with the flow. When you and the girl get to that point, you will naturally develop a relationship further, and it is not to be taught at all!

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If you want to further develop a relationship with a girl, you need to win the girl's heart and make him accept you.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If you like it, go and confess, you owe someone to pierce this layer of paper, she has feelings for you, but the first condition is whether you really like her, if you don't like her, even if you are together now, one day you will still face separation, think about it, in that case, what should she do? How much pain will she have? So if you are sure that you like her, then this layer of paper has to be pierced by you, she likes you, this can be seen, as long as you are willing to confess and speak, you will embark on the journey of love, and she should also be waiting for your confession!

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Lovelorn people, is the best time to start, if you can really give her happiness, just pursue her bravely, don't miss it! Don't be like the ending of the girl we chased together in those years! No matter what the result is, at least you are worthy of yourself!

    Keep up the good work, if you are really fateful, you are a good pair!

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    If you like it, chase it, don't leave regrets, what kind of thing you should do at any age.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    What do you like about her. Are the two people familiar. Have you really gotten along? You're too impulsive.

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